Men
Kind
Confident
Witty
Sensible
Women
Smart
Confident
Open
Bisexual :-)
I think that for both genders, intelligence, sense of humor and communication skills are key. For women, an eye catching smile and sparkling eyes are musts, and kissing skills help a lot.
Men :
Dominate
Sense of humor or wit
Intelligence
Women:
Outgoing or friendly personality
Passionate or confident
Playful/fun
It's the same for men and women. I like people who have a sense of humor, intelligent and compassionate.
A bad girl is the most seductive.
In a woman: kindness, humor, intelligence, playfulness, beauty.
And may I add my True Love has these qualities in spades (I am about to see her again and so am feeling a bit misty).
Women: Intelligent, playful, funny, cute, and gay.
Intelligent eyes. They look at you not about you. Coordination in style and taste. Their appearance fits there style and manner. They like to touch and flirt naturally. Intelligence, specialization, words & vocabulary. I've been turned on just from speech with out seeing the woman. It first happened to me in high school and later in my early 20 I fell in love with a co worker I only new from the phone. Immediately I had to meet her and I new she was smart. She was and we fall in love and lived together for 3 incredible years. She set the bar high for any to follow since.
I like both men and women so I'am going with anybody crazy and creative and gothic sexy peeps.
Black clothing is a big turn on for me along with tattoos and piercings.
I love a good book to read very often so I would love to find somebody smart like me and who loves to read books.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
In women: Personal confidence without being over-confident or aggressive, kindness, intelligence, curiosity, and playfulness. Physically, I prefer a woman to be soft (not muscular). Also, good hygiene is highly recommended.
Don't believe everything that you read.
Men
Well dressed
Great scent
Confident
Women
Red lips
Eye contact
Playful
Men --- Sorry, I don't care what men have or don't have.
Women - short term
Pretty eyes
Pretty face
Nice personality
Intelligent, but a bimbo can be fun too.
Women - long term
Pretty eyes
Pretty face
Good personality
Intelligence
The first thing I look at on a woman is her face, then if she's close enough, her eyes. Everything else really doesn't matter to me. A pretty face with pretty eyes can over come almost anything.
Interesting to note that none of us mentioned attributes of loyalty or faithfulness for either gender !
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...