how do they know when to draw the line?
personal experiences are more than welcome!
Can: the dishes.
Can't: dry
A lot depends on state/local laws and whether or not any alcohol (including beer) is allowed to be served. The places I used to stop in during my driving career did not permit full nudity during "private, lap dances". NO TOUCHING the dancers.
From what I hear it depends on if you are cute or have a fat wallet!
It really depends on the girl.... And house rules. I have gone as far as fingering the girl and making her cum.
If you higher one for a private party, I do know they are less restrictions. At least at the parties that I've been to. More hands on.