I just uploaded a clip from an old movie. It shows a beautiful girl's encounter with a retarded boy. The girl learns that the boy has become sexually mature but he is unable to find a sexual partner. He is also unable to masturbate properly because he has never "touched" a woman or even seen one naked (she already knows these when the scene begins). She feels sorry for him and decides to let the boy see her body and teaches him few things about intimacy. At the end, when she sees that the boy is suffering hard, she performs several sexual acts to satisfy him. She also reminds him that masturbation or the loveless sex which she is offering are "only a dream" and he shouldn't confine himself to these, but should strive to find his "own girl" who he loves.
What drew my attention is the enjoyment which the girl gets. She's beautiful and could find a handsome man if she was just looking for some sexual pleasure. But she's happy to offer "one way" sex to a retarded boy and thus enabling him to masturbate properly for the rest of his life - which is undoubtedly very important and a life changer for him - while she gets no sexual pleasure at all.
I think it shows that sex is not just about sexual pleasure for us; it's also about giving pleasure to our partners. The more we mature, the latter becomes more important. I believe that emotionally mature people actually enjoy giving that pleasure more than receiving sexual pleasure from partners, thus sex becomes more emotional than physical.
I think most people believe that the girl in that clip is naughty or a pervert. But I believe what she does is beautiful and mature.
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