Do you have any tattoos? I must admit that a small, well-placed tattoo on a lover is a turn-on but large-scale coverage doesn't do a lot for me.
This is by way of saying that I've never had one, but I am seriously thinking of getting one. I've long imagined a lizard climbing my upper arm. I like the idea of spiders and bats too, but here's the thing, I like spiders and bats (and lizards) so they would have to be friendly not sinister as they are often depicted.
But what tattoo might you suggest for this mature lesbian, and where should I have it put?