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Sex-In a long term relationship, how do you cope?

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How do men and women cope in a long distance realtionship without sex, how do you guys and gals keep the majic going???
When my husband was deployed I had BOB.
Alot of phone/text sex smile
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From my experience ... communications is utmost important ... txts, emails, chats - spurs the imagination until we meet again! Ooooh!

One must establish a few ground-rules though - like responding quickly (or in a timely manner! lol) or making sure there are those sexy cyber-dates.

Hmmm ... Waiting - the anticipation of return flesh on flesh, tasting, touching, being one .... definitely notches up the erotic play.
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When my husband was deployed I had BOB.


BOB? ?
Battery Operated Boyfriend.
Longest I ever had to go on a long distance deal was three weeks when I had to attend a class/conference in Boston. The time shift made it tough, but he was always up for a raunchy little wake up call. Had we only had webcams at the time, it might have been a LOT of fun! I took an ungodly early flight to get back early, in fact, about six hours earlier than planned, and a friend picked me up so I could give him a more personal wake up call. He liked that.
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
Zoloft kills your sex drive while you are taking it, and helped through 2 deployments
Twas difficult on because my ex and I were on two different continents...But I lasted only 5 months and we broke up...you can't cuddle a BOB lol...

emailing and phone calls worked until then but it was hard
forgot most important one.. so you can make raunchy video calls
Even harder when you've got kids. I spent 15 months on deployment to Korea from U.S. Call daily, but it's hard with 14 hrs time difference. Then when you do get to call, you spend half of the call with your partner and half of the call with the kids. Hard to get sexy that way. However, I kept myself busy from my end by writing sexy stories for her, then marking emails with EYES ONLY, like secret documents, lol. I guess I've got to get back to writing stories for the population at large. That was six years ago. After being seperated for that long, getting back together again full time is like getting to know each other all over. We had a welcome home dinner, played some games, kids went to spend the night at grandma's, and I proceeded to lose several pounds of protein solution. (BTW my girl doesn't go for toys much, so it was a snug fit when I did finally get home.)
phone sex... text sex... webcam sex.... ;)
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