oh this is an easy one ...lol...definitely sex before marriage.!!! how else are you going to know how compatible u are in the boudoir unless you hit the sheets first and have a couple of good romps along the way first....
I would prefer MARRIAGE BEFORE SEX NOT FOR THE REASON THAT I'M CONSERVATIVE AND ORTHODOX-ORIENTED BUT WHAT REALLY MATTERS FOR ME IS THE GOOD RAPPORT FOR BOTH OF US RATHER THAN JUST THE RELATIONSHIP ON BED. THE PLEASURE IN SEX IS FINITE ONCE YOU GET OUT OF BED AND YOU'RE BOTH OLD. BUT THE ATTRACTION AND THE ATTACHMENT BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU, IS I THINK, INFINITE EVEN THOUGH YOU'RE FLESH IS NO LONGER CAPABLE OF HAVING A GREAT, GREAT SEX. SEX SHOULD NOT BE TREATED AS THE BEDROCK AND BASIS OF MARRIAGE. IF WE'LL DO THAT, WE'LL ALWAYS END UP OF LEAVING OUR PARTNER TO FULFILL OUR CARNAL HUNGER AND INEVITABLY COMPARING THEM TO OTHERS UNTIL WE BECAME PICKY, EXHAUSTED AND UNSETTLED. AND ONE MORE THING, SEX IS JUST A VERY TINY PARCEL OF MARRIAGE. IT ALSO ENCOMPASSES THE COMPATIBILITY AND UNISON IN MAKING DECISIONS AS ONE. IF SEX WOULD ONLY BE THE ONE THAT WOULD PROPEL THE MARRIAGE, THAT'S VERY SUICIDAL ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP. WE SHOULD CONSIDER THAT OUR PARTNER HAVE GREAT SKILLS AND PERFORMANCE ON DIFFERENT ASPECTS AND CAN DO GREAT THINGS OTHER THAN SEX. IN THE END, WE WILL ALL RESORT OF JUST LYING ON OUR BED HELPLESSLY WHILE TOUCHING THE GRAY HAIR OF OUR PARTNER. I WILL APPRECIATE MY PARTNER NOT JUST BECAUSE OF GIVING ME A BIG PLEASURE AND MULTIPLE ORGASMS BUT FOR BEING LOYAL TO ME 'TIL DEATH. CERTAINLY I'LL GET TO KNOW HIM MORE OTHER THAN HIS CONNOISSEUR WHEN IT COMES TO SEX.
Up to the individuals. I find nothing wrong either way.
Sex before marriage if you dont practice before you find the right one how do you expect to keep them when you dont know how to keep them happy
Sex before you have to try before you buy
I have sex for 9 years now and not married. So I am not for nor against sex before marriage. If you feel you need to 'try it out', go for it just use protection. If you want to wait, I personally would toast to you.
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who in the hell would get married before knowing whether or not you are sexually compatible? But if both of you are willing to wait, you probably are, cause I'm sure you'd both be boring as fuck.
No way! I can see how being pure and untouched until your married, to some, would be the ultimate gift you could ever give your partner. I do t think even love could hold up and stay strong if your not sexually compatible with them. As a woman, I'd be pissed if I was married and my partner was getting off and I wasn't. Being sexually active before marriage allows you to know what you want, how you want it, and how to achieve it. Your more experienced and intune to providing pleasure to your partner and it works the other way around too. Personally, I'd be a worse person if I had to wait till marriage to have sex; uptight, 10x hornier, probably mad 24/7, and would likely marry the first guy who asked... Sex is awesome, I love sex
Outside of some very wierd strict sects or Eastern arranged marriage traditions I can't imagine anyone would go so far as to actually marry someone without first having learned to enjoy each other's bodies.
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I personally depends on when you feel personally feel ready, u shouldn't have sex if you feel you have been pressured in any way it should be the natural next step in you relationship.
I agree with both. If you want to get married befor sex good for you. If you want to have sex befor you're married, good for me.
Anything you think is sweet, I'm a little more than that.
I think it makes total sense to have sex with ones intended partner in life before marriage as does living togther etc. The more the couple get to understand and experience each other, in what will be married life situations, before making the huge commitment of marriage the better in my view. Like no surprises.
Sex before marriage, we date people to see if we are a match emotionally and mentally so why not sexually as well
I feel this is a personal choice between the people involved. I had sex before I married. It was not that good, but I really had nothing to compare it to either. He turned out to be a rather lousy lover and general douche bag as a husband, so the try-out really did not matter anyway.
I've been married, before sex. Awful marriage. Now firmly believe in sex instead of marriage.
Sex before marriage does not guarantee a long lasting marriage neither does waiting till you get married. So it sounds like a no win situation. But sex before marriage is way more pleasurable. 
So I’m indifferent. 
