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I was listening to the radio this morning on the way to work and the topic was sex and relationships.

First question - was would you stay with a person even though they were a complete loser or over look their many faults if the sex was great. The sex is the only positive thing in the relationship and nothing else.

Second question - is the flip side you are with some one and everything in the relationship is positive but the sex. Would you talk to your partner about it and try to improve things in the bedroom or would you just move on to someone else or have something on the side.

I was just wondering what are the thoughts about this with the Lush memebers both male and female.
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First question - was would you stay with a person even though they were a complete loser or over look their many faults if the sex was great. The sex is the only positive thing in the relationship and nothing else.


I would never be 'with' that person in the first place, but this is the kind of relationship that works as 'fuckbuddies', where they might drive you crazy for all kinds of reasons, but your bodies work really good together for sex.

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Second question - is the flip side you are with some one and everything in the relationship is positive but the sex. Would you talk to your partner about it and try to improve things in the bedroom or would you just move on to someone else or have something on the side.


This is my nightmare- one of many reasons why marriage sounds REALLY shitty to me. I meet so many guys who deal with this kind of problem, and they all deal with it in different ways, but it's not a problem I ever want to know personally- I wouldn't handle it well, just like I don't handle commitment very well in general, even when things are okay.
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First question - was would you stay with a person even though they were a complete loser or over look their many faults if the sex was great. The sex is the only positive thing in the relationship and nothing else.


I would never be 'with' that person in the first place, but this is the kind of relationship that works as 'fuckbuddies', where they might drive you crazy for all kinds of reasons, but your bodies work really good together for sex.

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Second question - is the flip side you are with some one and everything in the relationship is positive but the sex. Would you talk to your partner about it and try to improve things in the bedroom or would you just move on to someone else or have something on the side.


This is my nightmare- one of many reasons why marriage sounds REALLY shitty to me. I meet so many guys who deal with this kind of problem, and they all deal with it in different ways, but it's not a problem I ever want to know personally- I wouldn't handle it well, just like I don't handle commitment very well in general, even when things are okay.



The idea is to marry someone who is crazy in the sack X!! Theyve got to tick every box and show you some boxes you didnt even know existed before you even consider marriage.
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The questions do not just have to be applied to marriage they can refer to a girlfriend or boyfriend or someone you just started seeing.
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First question - was would you stay with a person even though they were a complete loser or over look their many faults if the sex was great. The sex is the only positive thing in the relationship and nothing else.

Second question - is the flip side you are with some one and everything in the relationship is positive but the sex. Would you talk to your partner about it and try to improve things in the bedroom or would you just move on to someone else or have something on the side.


Personally ....

1. Nope. Batteries - and buy stock in a battery company. Better yet, find a young "helper" ... may be even cheaper!

2. Talk, and if that goes no where ... find a helper with my partner's consent, if I wanted to stay in that relationship; otherwise, I'm outta there!


IMHO - but on a more general note - I think that #2 is extremely common (especially with the married couples that have kids, mortgages, established whatevers) ... hence why escorts make some good coin and why there are lots of side-partners out there.

Van