Would you rather know the worst (something that feels like it rips your heart out), or just live in a constant state of not knowing?
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Depends what it is. Sometimes ignorance is bliss, but other times being told the hard truth is the best thing, maybe not there and then but in long term perspective.
E.g. say your partner is cheating on you and this is not just a one time thing. If I have to pick between knowing and not knowing then I'll pick knowing.
But I don't want to know which day I'm gonna die. On that matter I prefer living as an ignorant bastard and just regret it when it happens. I'd be too stressed if someone came to me and said "You're gonna die in 2 months". So much to do...
Not knowing is worse than knowing take the pain deal wit it get over it and move on
I would rather know. It hurts more not knowing..
about something lifechanging, i would rather be gently told the truth..... it saves everyone heartache in the long run....
Truth Always. Even if it hurts.
I will take living in ignorant bliss! There are none more happy than those who have no idea what is going on around them. Of course total ignorance is required for this to work. As soon as you get a hint of reality the whole utopia thing becomes an unbearable shitstorm.
truth, always. its better to know, grieve, be pissed off, whatever and then move on. If you dont know sure ignorance is bliss but for how long?
No trickers or users! You always find out one way or another, sooner or later. Truth. Immediately. Always.
There is no substitute for the truth in individual relationships.
sometimes i know to the worst of things than being in the dark on things.
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I'd rather know. I have a weird knack for knowing when I'm being lied to.
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i'm definitely a sweep it under the carpet kind of guy...leave me in ignorance any day!
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Good question. In my Lush/fantasy world, I don't really want to know it all, it's kinda nice just to know and enjoy the good bits. However, in my 'real' life and world, oh yes, I sure do want to know it all - good, bad and the ugly!
i would rather know the hard truth it is easier to deal with than not knowing
and wondering you can't try to fix what you don't know
I've always opted for the agonizing truth. Or others have made the decision for me.
this is way too difficult for me to answer. it all depends on what is being lied about or hidden.
If I could change it or stop it I would want to know
If I couldn't stop it or change it no I wouldn't want to know