i did not know it was or bad for women to masturbate - go with it gals,
hey may i watch?
It's not unless you're a 14YO male who still giggles at the use of the word "vagina". Then it's "eeeiiiww, icky!".
At least, it's not in the UK, it's fairly encouraged xx
There is nothing more normal.... For either sex.... You have some up tight friends your age....
...That is nonsense.
I am a big fan of masturbation. I have many toys and I play with them daily....multiple times a day.
I just love the feeling of it.....
Of course sex is better but when you can't have that masturbation is the next best thing.....
Lord i hope it isnt! If so I commit activities a lot.
Around here, it's definitely not discussed as casually as guys doing it. I like to think there are possibly MILLIONS of 20-something girls out there masturbating secretly right now.
Women masturbating is ?...Come on girls, answers please. How many girls are doing something today...?
? It should be compulsory with me allowed to watch!
Never, total turn on for me to watch a female masturbate and cum
I thought the whole process of self exploration should be encouraged. How can we tell a partner what we enjoy if we haven't tried it ourselves. Enjoy your sex life nothing should be if you enjoy it and its not causing hurt to someone
Not only is it a pleasure to enjoy a woman after she has pleased herself ,its such natural a thing to do and can only add to the pleasures of intimacy.
Using the word " " has been applied to so many innocent things (though not all), that it should be to use it. lol
I'm NOT "in my twenties" but too my mind I enjoy watching my sweet thing get herself started or even get herself off if that's what she's in the mood for.
Hell no, it's natural and fun, and I believe both male and female masturbation are healthy, and in the case of men might actually be a way of ensuring that the reservoir of sperm is of the highest quality, because the little critters go off if they are kept in storage too long. Fucking twice or three times every day would be even better (three good meals a day are the ideal) , but unfortunately we all need to find time to work. Oh finally, as a man it is really arousing to watch a woman in the throes of self induced ecstasy - gives me an erection every time.
Yikes, if that's my girlfriend is going to be burned at the stake. Daily. OK, hourly on a good day.
I knew a woman, married, 29 years old at the time I met her and became her friend, and she had never had an orgasm before. Probably this was because of her very strict religious upbringing, and her less than skilled husband. She believed that masturbation was evil, and claimed that she had never, nor would she ever.
I would like to think that was just "the right thing" for her to say, and really, she had attempted it, but her hangup kept her from ever admitting the truth. Most women would say she was not being honest with herself, as the vast majority of women do masturbate, and that is of course perfectly fine and healthy.
She divorced about three years later (Her husband left her for another woman, while she had started serial affairs of her own, once she had found a patient and competent lover, and had developed a desire for sex). She was still claiming to her best female friend that she would never masturbate. When she was "single" again, she would get easily frustrated by men for reasons other than sex, and resented men for her dependence on them as the only source for her sexual pleasure.
I was not surprised to hear that, after several short relationships, and going through most of the readily available males at her place of employment, she had reverted back in her forties to a fairly extreme form of strict religious asexuality. Basically, she started to believe all men were evil, especially married men.
Needless to say, we do not talk any longer. It is sad, but I am not one to force anyone to change their ways or beliefs. She is no longer the good friend I once knew.
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open one's mouth and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain (or Lincoln, or Confucius, or...)
Only in countries under Sharia law.
for a large part, yes. i know that's hard for the enlightened bunch here to grasp. my friends and i didn't openly talk about masturbation until we graduated from college -although most of us were doing it while there.
Erm, have I missed something here? Never knew it was , just natural and so much fun to watch