i just recently had a conversation with another member of lush where i was asked how far i would go. i said i had a man and wouldnt do anything. he said something along the lines of if im so faithful then why am i on a porn site??
i told him that i dont necessarily view lush as a porn site, i like writing about sex and lush presented a perfect oppurtunity.
he said ok well what about the pornographic images, i told him i dont look or click on them, and its the truth, i could care less about them.
its just like reading/writing romance novels, they have sex in them, and are sold at everyday stores like walmart, barnes and noble, borders etc.... so are ROMANCE NOVELS equivalent to porn now?
so...what is your take? do YOU view lush as a porn site or a site to write and share sexual stories.
give me some feedback please
Don't let him pressure you, Sarah. Friends of mine have complained about the same thing at the adult chat site I frequent. If a female friend doesn't cyber, she's hit with the "then why are you here?"
It's like a dare and it's disrespectful.
We're here for all the right reasons and the trolls are here for the wrong ones.
true dat. It's only porn if you want it to be. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't.
I'm sorry that the 'wank tank' can't find more willing females to act out their fetish du jour, but to all of you trolls out there- that's a 'you' problem.
thank you you guys, i just cant believe he said that to me, and then he got off real quick when i made it plain how i felt and i wasnt going to "cyber"
i dont see the point in cybering....its ridiculous when u can have the real thing ya know.
but to each their own
I agree with Rocco. I also get the same thing from some men here and elsewhere. I do not consider erotica "porn."
Erotica is erotica, porn is porn. Depending on the individual, this site could be viewed either way. Personally, i see this site as a place to go to read erotic stories from different authors. If I get turned on reading these stories, it's nobody's business except mine. I have read a few stories here and I have to say, there are some very good writers here. Keep up the great work......
I wouldn't say erotica and porn are the same thing and I don't view Lush as porn either.
I am split on the site. I veiw the stories side as porn because there are a LOT of good writers here and I view the forums as a kind of seperate side of intellectuals where I can visit and check up on people.
Other than that I ca't figure these guys out who do this. Maybe I am the weird one for not begging for cyber with any of the women I have chatted with on here. Who knows?
last thing and I just an infrequent visitor at the point or have I been away too long and am now considered a troll lol
the onion has spoken.
You're fine onion. And you're not a troll.
That one is half rotten. It has mold!
Looks like nori stuck to the side.
Interesting wikipedia's definition:
Pornography or porn is the explicit depiction of sexual subject matter with the sole intention of sexually exciting the viewer. It is to a certain extent similar to erotica, which is the use of sexually arousing imagery.
Pornography may use any of a variety of media—printed literature, photos, sculpture, drawing, painting, animation, sound recording, film, video, or video game. However, when sexual acts are performed for a live audience, by definition it is not pornography, as the term applies to the depiction of the act, rather than the act itself. Thus, portrayals such as sex shows and striptease are not pornographic.
The ones desperate and begging for cyber are the trolls, Onion.
Oh I see. I haven't been keeping up n my lingo I guess lol.
I guess everyone has their own definition of pornography. Personaly I don't see this site as porn.
While some sections aren't for me I still see them as stories written for others to enjoy and have to admit has given me a more open mind to some things.
i part porn, one part erotica, and one part of people on here to make friends. mix thurily and let stand online. sprinkle in a few trolls for the anoyance.
