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I have never asked anyone their age when I'm interested in them. Whether we date or are just friends. It's just not important in my eyes.
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How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?
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I feel the same way.
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i try not to date older guys who wears diapers, not as a fetish, but a necessity. 
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I don't look at age as much as a connection. When I was younger I had no problem with older men or women, not I guess it goes the other way.
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Hard to say, you can get some super great guys in their 30s! And they've got a great career.. mm!
And i've always got on with older men, especially because by the time I was 13 I looked 20!
For a relationship though, 4/5 years is a good age gap for a man to be older, because if it's too big your goals are going to be too different
That being said, I never ask age. I don't think it matters if you feel something is there!
And i've always got on with older men, especially because by the time I was 13 I looked 20!
For a relationship though, 4/5 years is a good age gap for a man to be older, because if it's too big your goals are going to be too different
That being said, I never ask age. I don't think it matters if you feel something is there!
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Younger: No more that 2 years. I've learned my lesson.
Older: Well...it can go as high as 30 years ;)
Older: Well...it can go as high as 30 years ;)
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It's all about a connection. One of my best sexual relationships was a 24 year age gap. The relationship was ongoing for a year and a half and we're friends to this day. It was a friends with benni's situation that she suggested and pursued. I was reluctant, and in hind-sight I'm glad she was persistent.
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i dont care so much about age...just as long as he gets my jokes and i get his...
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I have been on both directions of the 18/33 year old gap, and it was great each time. It does make me feel old sometimes to be attracted to someone younger than my own son, but if they are legal and willing, does it really matter? The younger one can learn a lot and the older one gets to feel young again. Win-win situation.
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depends on the connection....10 years for relationship. 20years for casual sec partner.
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I've been seeing a guy more or less just for sex 14 years my senior on and off for the last three years (I'm 29) - whenever he and I are single at the same time.....not sure if I'd have a actual relationship with him, but the sex has been eye-opening! 
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20yrs I guess would be good although thats only older, stick to the legal requirments of the 16yrs old in the uk
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What I see, as older you get, its the connection that matters. So, I just go for the connection ;)
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There must be an attraction of some sort to bypass the age gap. It is said that women mature at a quicker rate then men, alas age is just a number.
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well for skunks we can tell the age of partners sniffing and usually we go for someone around the same age. I believe for men and women age really isnt important, within reason, its down to desire.
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Anybody above the age of 16, which is the legal age here in NZ. Otherwise, if there is a mutual attraction age doesn't come into it
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I don't have a number. But sometimes it's hard to relate to someone when there's a big age gap.
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I agree its all about connections, but saying that, I would feel really awkward having a relationship with someone who was around the age of my eldest who is twenty one
I was once in a relationship with someone 18 years older, and had a f**k buddy that was 20 when I was 30. Age is but a number and as long as both are of legal age what would it hurt. My fiancee is only 4 years older than me, but the things we can try and do to each other surpasses anyone else I've ever been with.
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17 years older was the oldest i was with.
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