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How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?

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I think the connection - however brief - counts a lot more than age. I try to keep an open mind.
Hard question, it really depends on the man and how well he takes care of himself, but I suppose 10-20 age gap, as older men are more appealing to me.
I know this is cliche, but age truly is only just a number. I'm 22 but it has been said on multiple occasions that I act beyond my age. It can be opposite for others, never misconstrue age for wisdom because I see a lot of 40 somethings (esp on this site) that act like little children. I'd have to get to know the person and take it from there. Compatibility and physical attraction are always necessary. So I don't necessarily have an age block. Whomever entices my mind (which is pretty rare) is fair game to me biggrin
Probably no more than 50 years. give or take a decade...
Connection IS the most important thing.....age is relative.
probably no more then 3-5 years
As an assistant manager at a strip club it is hard for me to find women my age to date. Most of them hate my job. So, I end up seeing girls at the club. My last long-term relationship(1 yr) was a 20 year age gap. A 1 time only sex partner was 25 years younger.
Age is just an enigmatic representation of our biological existence on Earth. I usually love erudite men whom we could never lose an idea in any topic. As long as there's harmony and unity then HE COULD BE THE ONE WHO WILL SWEEP ME OFF MY FEET. Great sex would just easily come on our way once we're married.
Age is just a number. Sex should never be forced or coerced. Ever,
age is not a factor for me. my husband is 22 years older than i am so i tend to lead towards older. it really depends on the connection we have tho more than age.
Now days, age is just a number. With the state of peoples health both mentally as well as physically, deteriorating so much slower than previous generations, I don't think that there really is an age difference that can be considered too much.

I have seen 30 year olds that look like they are on deaths door, and I have seen people in their 60's and 70's that are as sharp and active as people half their age. I don't count anyone out for their age, it's about compatability.
I have only been interested in guys older than me, so for an age gap I would never consider anyone a year younger than me, but older I would consider any age, as long as he still has his own teeth and can make me laugh, im 33 so any guy up to 60s, they know how to treat a lady, they have life experiences, they dont bin you off to play a stupid computer game lol
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If my newest story is anything to go by, I'm comfortable with a sixty-four year gap...

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Excellent story!!!
10-12 years.. unless they were really hot..
Age dont matter at all.
My husband is a lot older than me, but its still great
To me age is nothing but number. Me and my husband have a 14 year difference between us. Love is love.. smile
If I ever marry again I want it to be a woman within one generation of my age, but the question inquired about acceptable age gap with a sexual partner. I'd have to say if it's legal, consensual and the people involved are attracted to one another, what difference do the 'numbers' make?
After you reach the age of 30 age really does not matter. If you are younger, you might have a parent get in the way.
Love,sex, lust, passion.. It knows no age limit.
My husband and I are 17 years apart. I, personally, feel that age is just a number. If you are compatible, attracted to each other, and can carry on intelligent conversations then I see no big deal with age.
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My husband and I are 17 years apart. I, personally, feel that age is just a number. If you are compatible, attracted to each other, and can carry on intelligent conversations then I see no big deal with age.


I love my sexy young wife. I am happy that she is patient with an old dog like me and mature enough to work things out between us. She really does it for me and I do my best to do it for her. We don't think about it too much...works for us.



I'm thinking along the same lines as most of you. Age doesn't matter as you have chemistry.
There are 17 years between my wife and I. She was the MILF and I was the prey to her prowling Cougar. Of course that was a few years ago, but we are still together.
age dont matter, if u get along and things feel right, thats all that matters. ive had older and younger, all were enjoyable..
My girlfriend is 10 years older than me. We get along really well. I think age is a number past a certain point. There are moments when we do hit that age gap. I mean when we talk about school days, she was turning 18 when I was 8 years old. She even was joking with me that when she was graduating high school she never thought she would eventually be sleeping with that 8 year old who was in second grade. Lol
ive been talking to a women thats 11 years older than me.
I slept with someone almost forty years older than me once... *blushes*
Hmm id say no more then 10 years older maybe a little more and no more then 5 years younger
I will have to try a man from every age range 18 - 75 and let you know!!!