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How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?

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age difference.? the chance would be a fine thing


lots of ladies want their girls to be at least 27 ... even on Lush..



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lots of ladies want their girls to be at least 27 ... even on Lush..


Is that so they don't get carded for cigarettes and drinks..?


( sorry couldn't resist )

I know most of us "older" men say this but I do believe it. Age is a number, it really depends on the people. I have seen maturity at 18 and not at 50, so it isn't the number. If it is just a sex partner then what does a number mean? As long as everything works then the only thing that matters is the desire of the partners. If both (or all if you are that lucky) are satisfied then the age means nothing. If it is a relationship, then as long as you can handle the gap in knowledge (current events and such) and you can keep the non-sexual parts interesting then it is just a learning situation, are you willing to learn about each other? I see the profiles that say, no one over XX or no one that is too old, well you never know what you miss by adding those constraints. That person (male or female, young or old) who's age concerns you, may have turned out to be the most amazing thing that ever happened to you and you will never know because of a number. It is nice to both learn about younger people and reminisce about the things you share with someone older. It is a win-win no matter which way you choose as long as you are open to the other person.

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well, since my current male sexual partner is 28 years older than me, i am going to go with that number
24 is my record, so far.
They say the minimum acceptable age is half your own, plus 7. That would make the maximum your own age minus 7, then doubled.

That makes my range 20 to 38. My own preference would be more like 22 to 35.
me with a woman 30-35 years older then me i'm 52 now for a man as long as he is 18 or older
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me with a woman 30-35 years older then me i'm 52 now for a man as long as he is 18 or older


I think 15 to 20 years older than I would be my max for an ideal sexual partner, but I'm open to someone a bit older than that if the attraction is there.
I think 15 to 20 year swing in either direction would be ok. Age range of early 30's to mid 60's sounds right smile
younger by 5 years
older by 20 years

for me at least.

Open minded, present the real dilemma for me.
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I can reflect on experience, the biggest? My twenty-three to her forty-six - 23 years. Now, would I at forty-two look back at a female (or male smile ) nineteen years old? A very big depends.

If it's double-standards, for me, it's all in the mind. Do they have the mind? It's the best sexual organ we own. My appeal with older women when I was younger was their confidence, they just seem so much happier in their own skin with few hang-ups. My own held view is that we flower sexually at 25-35, so I would go for someone that age now - I would, so 17 years it is.

That for me would be as young as I go now, as for older. There are plenty of fifty-somethings that do look incredible.

I'd go for 17 years difference but that is not set in stone.

Good question though, it's great to suppose.
Age doesn't matter but that should not mean sex with underage. I think I will approve a sexual partner by remaining within the bounds of morality, law and social norms. And another important aspect is that my partner should be wise enough to feel my desires, physically strong enough to meet my never ending demands, kind enough to ensure that I am satisfied and generous enough to spend sometime cuddling after we're donesmile
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For me, the more older the more fun with the ability to go for rounds and rounds.
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what matters more is comparability... so not age persay...
For me anyone my age and older. Years doesn't matter personality and maturity does.
Maturity and compatibility is the key..As for a number..I'll throw out 10 to 15 and see if it sticks.
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I have to agree with a certain level of maturity and a fair degree of compatibility for any kind of meaningful relationship. Now if it's a purely physical thing, that can change things. I'm not much into older guys, but given the right one at the right time, 20 years might work. As for younger guys... we won't go there and get this post censored. Women, that's a whole different measuring system...
In my humble opinion, age is irrelevant as long as the attraction is there.
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what matters more is comparability... so not age persay...


This!
I feel as long as you are compatible age should not play a role. That is, if both parties are of a legal age.
22 years is my largest gap.

I really don't have a limit for people older than me. I can't see myself going much more than 10 years younger, though it's not a hard rule.
As long as she has a pulse, I'm okay.

For that very reason, I had to quit working at the morgue. Too much temptation.



Come on! It's a joke. Sheesh. I never worked at the morgue.
I had to quit the funeral home.