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I am not really sure if this is the right place in forums to post this topic, or if it should be brought up at all. My guess is this topic is discussed in private among friends where nothing really gets done or changes. Bringing up how RR works or doesn't may cause me to lose a few friends or who knows, make a few, but after hearing at least four friends this week alone talk on the subject I wanted my questions and thoughts public.

I, like many, see the same small group of people getting a majority of recgnition with some stories barely posted before the symbol appears. The one that caused my concern is when a friend showed me a story that had been up for sometime when she friended a Mod, the next day the story had a RR. I am, nor would I ever accuse a Mod of wrong doing, but by not being open about who chooses what, too much is in question.

So wondering if this was just sour grapes on my part, I took twenty pieces from this sight to the Lit Professor's I work with to ask their professional opinion. Ten pieces were RR and ten were pieces I had read that were not recognized here on Lush. Only two pieces of the ten RR, were picked as top pieces by one teacher, the other just three. I am not a math major, but that is 12.5 % of the pieces declared RR being picked by pros with no bias or nepotism involved. The few who did really well in judging were told, because their work deserved me sharing the good news. If anyone wants to know what pieces won the judging, p!ease message. The pieces that did not will never be shared because this isn't about making any one person feel bad.

So instead of just bitching or causing hurt feelings, I was always taught to brings answers to questions if you have an issue. So with all this being said, here are a few ideas that some of us discussed in private. Agree or disagree, but please be polite as this is just my idea of starting good open communication. Below are a few ideas we liked as a group, many others were shot down... Last word by me, most writing here is done with a lot of effort and passion, so many good writers deserve to be recognized before they just give up or move on.

IDEA'S FOR RR.....

1. Any story or poem given RR, should include who gave the RR and a quick blurb as to why.

2. If a Mod gives a RR to one writer, they can't give a second one to same person for six months with no back tracking on stories.

3. No RR can be given to anyone on a friends list.

4. Readers be allowed to send personal favorites to Lush, bypassing Mods so that staff can make choice if worthy.

Many others, but these were the four all liked in some form...

With good intentions,
J
Getting literature professors (and, to be honest, I've read stuff recommended by lit profs that was artsy pablum crap) to review Lush material is pointless. We know that this isn't exactly Penguin Books here. It's a fun site for people to put their stories up for others to read. We have mods to try to maintain a minimum level of quality, not to turn this into high art. The RR and EC awards are a way to encourage those writers who rise above the run-of-the-mill crop. They aren't equivalent to a Man Booker or anything, just a way to highlight stories that the team thinks are worthy of the attention of the readers.

As for your questions:

1. When you get an RR, it tells the writer who gave it. Since it is really just a way of highlighting a story that the mod in question thinks others might enjoy, I don't see a point to making it public knowledge. Again, the RR doesn't mean it is great literature, just that the mod thinks it's a story that is better than Lush norm and that others might enjoy.

2. Why? If a writer is putting out consistently good material, why shouldn't they be able to reward them again? You're assuming Mods are simply handing them out to their friends but that's not what I've seen.

3. Not sure how much that accomplishes. I have people on my friends list that are barely casual acquaintances and some who I message/converse with regularly. Just because someone is on someone else's friend list doesn't mean they actually are friends in any real sense so a mod awarding an RR to a friend doesn't automatically mean bias.

4. There are no staff to send to directly. The Mods ARE the staff so bypassing them means the stories go directly to Nic. The whole point of the mods being there is because Nic doesn't have the time to vet and reward stories herself (Lush is a business and she runs it) and created the mod team to do that job.

Short version: The system works just fine for what this board is about. If you think Lush is about "art" or should pass muster with literature professors (who I find are often as full of s**t as anyone else where literature is concerned), then you're on the wrong board. Lush is, IME and IMHO, about well-written, entertaining and, most of all, arousing stories. And we have plenty of those that are the deserved recipients of RRs.

(Bias statement: I was a mod for two years but never handed out an RR that I can recall. Maybe one. I am the recipient of several RRs.)
I totally agree with this. I myself always wondered that. Also, what does it take to get an RR....
First off. Thank you! Thank you for bringing this up. I for one have thought heavily on this topic but have never brought it up because of the same reasons you have stated. I have read some good, and I mean excellent RR stories. But on the other hand, I have read some that I had thought how the hell did it get RR? Now I am not saying that they didn't deserve it by no means. Just saying that it wasn't as good as some others I have read.

But again this is my opinion and means nothing on the large scale of things. I have come to the point that I have stopped looking at them unless the subject matter is something I am interested in reading. I must add that I have read some stories that are ten times better than most RR's I have read. That didn't get the rating that they should have. All of your questions are VERY valid to say they aren't is just accepting things as they are. Which I think is being plain blind or pushing something into the corner. I especially liked question 2 and wholeheartedly agree!
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Getting literature professors (and, to be honest, I've read stuff recommended by lit profs that was artsy pablum crap) to review Lush material is pointless. We know that this isn't exactly Penguin Books here. It's a fun site for people to put their stories up for others to read. We have mods to try to maintain a minimum level of quality, not to turn this into high art. The RR and EC awards are a way to encourage those writers who rise above the run-of-the-mill crop. They aren't equivalent to a Man Booker or anything, just a way to highlight stories that the team thinks are worthy of the attention of the readers.

As for your questions:

1. When you get an RR, it tells the writer who gave it. Since it is really just a way of highlighting a story that the mod in question thinks others might enjoy, I don't see a point to making it public knowledge. Again, the RR doesn't mean it is great literature, just that the mod thinks it's a story that is better than Lush norm and that others might enjoy.

2. Why? If a writer is putting out consistently good material, why shouldn't they be able to reward them again? You're assuming Mods are simply handing them out to their friends but that's not what I've seen.

3. Not sure how much that accomplishes. I have people on my friends list that are barely casual acquaintances and some who I message/converse with regularly. Just because someone is on someone else's friend list doesn't mean they actually are friends in any real sense so a mod awarding an RR to a friend doesn't automatically mean bias.

4. There are no staff to send to directly. The Mods ARE the staff so bypassing them means the stories go directly to Nic. The whole point of the mods being there is because Nic doesn't have the time to vet and reward stories herself (Lush is a business and she runs it) and created the mod team to do that job.

Short version: The system works just fine for what this board is about. If you think Lush is about "art" or should pass muster with literature professors (who I find are often as full of s**t as anyone else where literature is concerned), then you're on the wrong board. Lush is, IME and IMHO, about well-written, entertaining and, most of all, arousing stories. And we have plenty of those that are the deserved recipients of RRs.

(Bias statement: I was a mod for two years but never handed out an RR that I can recall. Maybe one. I am the recipient of several RRs.)



*I see exactly what you're saying, but, if it doesn't resonate with the MOD, then it's up to them whether they want to hand one out. That being said, it's so disappointing to work so hard, thinking its a good story and even having people say 'what, no RR?'

I would never presume to say, "Hey why didn't you give me an RR?" It's like handing out fours or less. If the reader doesn't like it, and don't think it's worthy then to them it isn't. I will say, however, it's a great incentive and really makes you feel GREAT when someone recognizes your work.

No one likes to feel like they aren't being taken seriously, and watch others gather them like moss on a rock. But, to be fair, most of those that always get them (Reg, for instance) ALWAYS deserve them. Milik too. There is no arguing with real talent like that.


*I meant I agree with you :-)

I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

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I see exactly what you're saying and actually sort of figured this to be the case. If it doesn't resonate with the MOD, then it's up to them whether they want to hand one out. That being said, it's so disappointing to work so hard, thinking its a good story and even having people say 'what, no RR?'

I would never presume to say, "Hey why didn't you give me an RR?" It's like handing out fours or less. If the reader doesn't like it, and don't think it's worthy then to them it isn't. I will say, however, it's a great incentive and really makes you feel GREAT when someone recognizes your work.



RR's will come your way, just be the best you can be. I have written some stinkers as well as some pretty good ones. Also, be your own Mod, and read it trough the eyes of someone who has yet to read it.
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RR's will come your way, just be the best you can be. I have written some stinkers as well as some pretty good ones. Also, be your own Mod, and read it trough the eyes of someone who has yet to read it.


I have two, but like everyone, I want one on every story, hahahahaha! Now, I do know that is completely delusional, but we are all creative people or we would not be here, and like any artist, our egos are very invested in our work...
Also, I agree, we must be our own mods. Its like I said in my first post. Pain over EVERY SINGLE WORD. Make sure your sentence structuring is correct, etc. I've said it all already, but yes. It's all true.


There is another thread running just like this right now called 'Rejected or Accepted'. Here is what I wrote there.

Quote by simmerdownchick from another thread 'Rejeced or Accepted

The moderators work as volunteers and if one listens to their advice (whether we like it or not) they are trying to teach us something. Remember, they would not be mod's if they didn't have the know how, and high quality of standards. Along with keeping us in line with the TOS, they must READ every single story submitted to them. Can you imagine the dedication that must take? I try to take their advice like a master class of sorts. (not that I've always been respectful, and for that I am sorry....)
Take what they're telling you and learn from it. I use Grammarly, but even that isn't perfect. It takes time to learn your craft. It's incredible (myself included) how many people are 'sure' they can write, just to come here and realize they have a lot to learn.
So, REWRITE that story. Pain over EVERY SINGEL WORD (See that? I spelled 'single' wrong). Use a thesaurus. Structure your sentences so that they don't sound like 'see spot run', 'see Jane take spot on a walk', etc. You'll find that moving a simple comma can prompt you to completely restructure the sentence.
As a very wise Mod told me, use the least amount of words to say the same thing.
Example;

Jane got in her car to go downtown.
Jane went downtown.

If it's not important and can be assumed don't add it, unless it's necessary for the flow of the sentence. Stay on topic, such as talking about Janes car and how fast it can go, or other information that is unimportant to the story, don't use it. As Milik says "Don't talk about the Presidents dog, talk about the President.'

I hope that this fairly new writer could help. I am still learning from them so pay attention and you will too.

Good luck!



I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

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I have two, but like everyone, I want one on every story, hahahahaha! Now, I do know that is completely delusional, but we are all creative people or we would not be here, and like any artist, our egos are very invested in our work...


I am my worst critic...sure it hurts if rejected. However, I'm still learning. I am not gifted as some are, but I believe I have raw talent. Would I like for RR's to rain down, you betcha, but its not going to happen. Believe in yourself.
Every single time this topic comes up I find it funny that it is always mediocre writers complaining about it. Every time...

I recently stumbled upon a writer on here who has a bunch of RRs. She only has like 9 friends on her list and I don't think any of them are mods. I have read two of her stories so far and they were both excellent. Some of the most original and interesting stories I have read on here. Obviously her ability to tell a story was what got her recognized by whatever mod awarded her some RRs.

I don't read all the RRs I see but I don't remember thinking any of them didn't deserve the recognition. I haven't read simmerdownchicks two RRs so maybe it really is bullshit, but from my experience, they seem legit for the most part. The editor's picks too. I only read one editor's pick which I thought was totally bogus but that was a long time ago and that was the only one. Not a bad record so far with finding a quality story with an EP.

I think many mediocre writers look for some kind of conspiracy as to why they don't get awarded RRs instead of you know, getting better at writing a memorable story with a beginning, middle and end, an engaging plot, natural and realistic sex scenes, intriguing characters and a few surprises. Validation comes from the people who read your stories and let you know in the comments. You can tell the difference from some generic comment and a comment from someone who really enjoyed your words. If your comments consist of the former, guess what? You're a mediocre writer. Just because you have 40 "whoa sexy story xx" comments doesn't mean you deserve awards 'n' shit.

Nobody ever writes something, posts it and thinks it's a dog turd. Writers are just like new parents. New parents always think they have a cute baby but we all know that not all babies are cute. Some are downright hideous and look like a tiny version of sloth from the goonies.
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Pain over EVERY SINGLE WORD.



I have a handful of RRs, almost none of them given to me by friends. I am proud of them.

I agree with some RRs, and disagree with some. Everyone has a different definition of what is good. Lit professors' opinions are no more valid than a janitor's opinion.

I had someone say in the comment section recently that my story was undeserving of its RR, because it didn't satisfy their criteria of what a story was. Cool. I admit I often don't use conventional devices like plot or description, and I am not to everyone's tastes, but I do know that I worked my ass off on that story. I rewrite and rewrite and rewrite.

I'm no poet, so I can't speak to that. But prose is 10% art, 90% craft. You have to work hard to be good.

I just reread that, and realize it sounds a little defensive. Sorry. I am proud of my RRs.
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Every single time this topic comes up I find it funny that it is always mediocre writers complaining about it. Every time...

I recently stumbled upon a writer on here that has a bunch of RRs. She only has like 9 friends on her list and I don't think any of them are mods. I have read two of her stories so far and they were both excellent. Some of the most original and interesting stories I have read on here. Obviously her ability to tell a story was what got her recognized by whatever mod awarded her some RRs.

I don't read all the RRs I see but I don't remember thinking any of them didn't deserve the recognition. I haven't read simmerdownchicks two RRs so maybe it really is bullshit, but from my experience, they seem legit for the most part. The editor's picks too. I only read one editor's pick which I thought was totally bogus but that was a long time ago and that was the only one. Not a bad record as far finding a quality story with an EP.

I think many mediocre writer's look for some kind of conspiracy as to why they don't get awarded RRs instead of you know, getting better at writing a memorable story with a beginning, middle and end, an engaging plot, natural and realistic sex scenes, intriguing characters and a few surprises. Validation comes from the people who read your stories and let you know in the comments. You can tell the difference from some generic comment and a comment from someone who really enjoyed your words. If your comments consist of the former, guess what? You're a mediocre writer. Just because you have 40 "whoa sexy story xx" comments doesn't mean you deserve awards 'n' shit.

Nobody ever writes something, posts it and thinks it's a dog turd. Writers are just like new parents. New parents always think they have a cute baby but we all know that not all babies are cute. Some are downright hideous and look like a tiny version of sloth from the goonies.


I agree (I know, I know, I blocked you...but I don't want to be enemies) I can say that most of my work (especially my earlier ones, yikes!) However, I have read yours and they certainly did deserve them. PS. Please don't tell Jack I said that..;-)

I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

Jamie I think I can blow your theory out of the water. I have many Mod friends and I have 3 RRs. So if being a friend to a Mod gets you RRs , I would have RRs on all my stories. Also I have had a poem sit on #1 position for straight 31 days with NO RR and another that as been #2 and #3 for 3 weeks with NO RR. Also I am dating a Mod, so I think this proves your theory is wrong. I think the Mods are fair in where they put there RRs, Do I want RRs sure I do. But because I deserve them not because I have a Mod friend or Im dating a Mod.
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I am not really sure if this is the right place in forums to post this topic, or if it should be brought up at all. My guess is this topic is discussed in private among friends where nothing really gets done or changes. Bringing up how RR works or doesn't may cause me to lose a few friends or who knows, make a few, but after hearing at least four friends this week alone talk on the subject I wanted my questions and thoughts public.

I, like many, see the same small group of people getting a majority of recgnition with some stories barely posted before the symbol appears. The one that caused my concern is when a friend showed me a story that had been up for sometime when she friended a Mod, the next day the story had a RR. I am, nor would I ever accuse a Mod of wrong doing, but by not being open about who chooses what, too much is in question.

So wondering if this was just sour grapes on my part, I took twenty pieces from this sight to the Lit Professor's I work with to ask their professional opinion. Ten pieces were RR and ten were pieces I had read that were not recognized here on Lush. Only two pieces of the ten RR, were picked as top pieces by one teacher, the other just three. I am not a math major, but that is 12.5 % of the pieces declared RR being picked by pros with no bias or nepotism involved. The few who did really well in judging were told, because their work deserved me sharing the good news. If anyone wants to know what pieces won the judging, p!ease message. The pieces that did not will never be shared because this isn't about making any one person feel bad.

So instead of just bitching or causing hurt feelings, I was always taught to brings answers to questions if you have an issue. So with all this being said, here are a few ideas that some of us discussed in private. Agree or disagree, but please be polite as this is just my idea of starting good open communication. Below are a few ideas we liked as a group, many others were shot down... Last word by me, most writing here is done with a lot of effort and passion, so many good writers deserve to be recognized before they just give up or move on.

IDEA'S FOR RR.....

1. Any story or poem given RR, should include who gave the RR and a quick blurb as to why.

2. If a Mod gives a RR to one writer, they can't give a second one to same person for six months with no back tracking on stories.

3. No RR can be given to anyone on a friends list.

4. Readers be allowed to send personal favorites to Lush, bypassing Mods so that staff can make choice if worthy.

Many others, but these were the four all liked in some form...

With good intentions,
J





You might find this thread helpful: https://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst37636_Recommended-Read-Requirements.aspx

I disagree that mods ought to be publicly named when giving out RRs. They get enough flack from story rejected writers without having to justify their individual choice of awards! I can see why you'd suggest it, and I do like the idea of knowing what it was they enjoyed about it, but that's even more work for them.

I've been given RRs on work I thought was pretty crap, but posted it anyway. I have no idea why, but that's personal choice and individual tastes for you. Likewise, I've written stuff that I was hoping would go far, but nobody seemed that bothered. Every experience of being given a pat on the head has meant a huge amount to me (more than I can tell you), and I understand how frustrating it is to put your everything into something and get nothing. I've also seen pieces with awards that left me laughing my ass off that it could be recognised in such a way, and somebody was moved enough to want others to read it too. In the same way, I have seen some gems that I wouldn't have seen any other way.

Each moderator has their own gifts and view of the world and writing. That's why they're a team, not a single unit (thank goodness). In the same way, their RRs will differ vastly and widely.

In response to a mod becoming a friend and then awarding an RR, when I make a new Lush friend, I often check out their profile and scan their work. Perhaps that mod did the same, and, seeing a piece they think exceptional for some reason, decided to pin it with a badge. Because they can. I see nowt wrong with that, but I can see it looks funny. We have to trust that the mods have discretion, although I have no problem with such things being called out. Better it's asked and answered, than it festers. That's my view.

I don't think you're wrong in starting this thread, and I do think you raise some interesting points. I hope the responses you're getting also give you food for thought, as well as us.

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I know, I know, I blocked you...but I don't want to be enemies


Hmmm it seems you are not using the block correctly. I suggest you use it the way it was intended.

Afterthought: The Editors Pick award is given by a grouo of people who are not the story mod team, although the pieces are recommended by them. That is a level all on its own, with various high-jump factors and merits being discussed and acheived within the piece, rather than the subjective, personal to the mod award of a Recommended Read. I think that's worth bearing in mind.
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Jamie I think I can blow your theory out of the water. I have many Mod friends and I have 3 RRs. So if being a friend to a Mod gets you RRs , I would have RRs on all my stories. Also I have had a poem sit on #1 position for straight 31 days with NO RR and another that as been #2 and #3 for 3 weeks with NO RR. Also I am dating a Mod, so I think this proves your theory is wrong. I think the Mods are fair in where they put there RRs, Do I want RRs sure I do. But because I deserve them not because I have a Mod friend or Im dating a Mod.


I want to absolutely agree with everything Simmie just said. And, I'd like to add that she has very highly voted stories.
I too have a LOT of MOD friends here. It's not a friend thing. It is our ego's getting hurt when we haven't earned them yet. Personally, I'd rather it really meant something rather than not.

I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

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Hmmm it seems you are not using the block correctly. I suggest you use it the way it was intended.




Jack if that was the case you'd be coming out of my ass, lol! I don't like this whole block thing. I'm sorry, okay, I am a real stinker sometimes, but at least I own it.

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Nobody ever writes something, posts it and thinks it's a dog turd. Writers are just like new parents. New parents always think they have a cute baby but we all know that not all babies are cute. Some are downright hideous and look like a tiny version of sloth from the goonies.


AHHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! That is hilarious! I never know quite what to say when I see an ugly baby...Oh, look how little it is...;-)

I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

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Jack if that was the case you'd be coming out of my ass, lol! I don't like this whole block thing. I'm sorry, okay, I am a real stinker sometimes, but at least I own it.


While I actually believe that your ass is probably big enough for me to fit under... A lot of your recent posts have been disingenuous at best and blatant lies at worst. "Owning it" means very little to me.
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While I actually believe that your ass is probably big enough for me to fit under... A lot of your recent posts have been disingenuous at best and blatant lies at worst. "Owning it" means very little to me.


I deserved that. Honestly, that last post wasn't meant to come off the way it did. I can be difficult, I know it. It's my worst flaw. I was angry, and mean. I will own my outbursts, it would be silly to deny them, all anyone has to do is look up old threads. I don't blame you.

*Apology retracted, statement stands. Make friends, not enemies :-)

I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

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I deserved that. And, my ass probably is big enough to (edit) fit over you. I need to take up jogging, lol! Honestly, that (edit again) last post wasn't meant to come off the way it did. I can be difficult, I know it. It's my worst flaw. I was angry, and mean. I will own my outbursts, it would be silly to deny them, all anyone has to do is look up old threads. I don't blame you.

Consider this my public apology, because it is...


See, the thing about realizing that someone has a disingenuous, dishonest, and dishonorable nature is this... You don't believe or trust what their intent is ever again. When I read this I just see a person setting themselves to act like a victim again. You want to publicly apologize so that next time I say something you can try to paint me like a villain who is mean even though you apologized. I wasn't born yesterday.
This topic has been kicked around a bunch of times and I admit I'm indifferent to the claim these days. Ive been a mod for about 4 years and have handed out many RR's. Most of these have gone to people who didn't start of on my friends list, but who wrote something that stuck with me. That is what I'm looking for. Something that felt different and special. Many times those writers thank me and we discuss the work. Often that leads to a friend request.

So, if I could not hand out RR's to my friends, about 270 writers would instantly be ineligible. I don't see how that would be fair. I think my respect of the craft would make me unfriend everyone so that I could award work that deserved it. As has been shown above, I don't let personal relationships affect my choices. My girl and my sister both have to go through the same judgement as anyone else. Truthfully, I'm probably too hard on them. I invite anyone to look at their pages and see the truth of it.

The only bias I would have to admit to is this. If I think a writer is an asshole, I won't read them. Of course, that means they won't get a chance at the RR from me, regardless of how good the story might have been. I can't give the award if I won't read the work.
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This topic has been kicked around a bunch of times and I admit I'm indifferent to the claim these days. Ive been a mod for about 4 years and have handed out many RR's. Most of these have gone to people who didn't start of on my friends list, but who wrote something that stuck with me. That is what I'm looking for. Something that felt different and special. Many times those writers thank me and we discuss the work. Often that leads to a friend request.

So, if I could not hand out RR's to my friends, about 270 writers would instantly be ineligible. I don't see how that would be fair. I think my respect of the craft would make me unfriended everyone so that I could award work that deserved it. As has been shown above, I don't let personal relationships affect my choices. My girl and my sister both have to go through the same judgement as anyone else. Truthfully, I'm probably too hard on them. I invite anyone to look at their pages and see the truth of it.

The only bias I would have to admit to is this. If I think a writer is an asshole, I won't read them. Of course, that means they won't get a chance at the RR from me, regardless of how good the story might have been. I can't give the award if I won't read the work.


RR's don't mean quality writing. A mod just likes and passes a personal feeling. People have to understand that RR's are not an award. I am honored if an when I receive one, but it doesn't have to mean that I am a accomplished scribbler. The Mod simply wants to pass his or her personal view.
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RR's don't mean quality writing. A mod just likes and passes a personal feeling. People have to understand that RR's are not an award. I am honored if an when I receive one, but it doesn't have to mean that I am a accomplished scribbler. The Mod simply wants to pass his or her personal view.


That is very true.
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Every single time this topic comes up I find it funny that it is always mediocre writers complaining about it. Every time...

I recently stumbled upon a writer on here who has a bunch of RRs. She only has like 9 friends on her list and I don't think any of them are mods. I have read two of her stories so far and they were both excellent. Some of the most original and interesting stories I have read on here. Obviously her ability to tell a story was what got her recognized by whatever mod awarded her some RRs.

I don't read all the RRs I see but I don't remember thinking any of them didn't deserve the recognition. I haven't read simmerdownchicks two RRs so maybe it really is bullshit, but from my experience, they seem legit for the most part. The editor's picks too. I only read one editor's pick which I thought was totally bogus but that was a long time ago and that was the only one. Not a bad record so far with finding a quality story with an EP.

I think many mediocre writers look for some kind of conspiracy as to why they don't get awarded RRs instead of you know, getting better at writing a memorable story with a beginning, middle and end, an engaging plot, natural and realistic sex scenes, intriguing characters and a few surprises. Validation comes from the people who read your stories and let you know in the comments. You can tell the difference from some generic comment and a comment from someone who really enjoyed your words. If your comments consist of the former, guess what? You're a mediocre writer. Just because you have 40 "whoa sexy story xx" comments doesn't mean you deserve awards 'n' shit.

Nobody ever writes something, posts it and thinks it's a dog turd. Writers are just like new parents. New parents always think they have a cute baby but we all know that not all babies are cute. Some are downright hideous and look like a tiny version of sloth from the goonies.


Thread winning post right here.

I have three famous stories, 2 recommended reads and have come in the top ten in two competitions~ Come in and make yourself at home.

As a typical writer here who -- well, maybe I shouldn't assume that people are on here for the same reasons as I am.

I came onto this site a while back because I was looking for an outlet of sorts, and writing sexy stories seemed to be a good way to keep me out of trouble.

I write my stories primarily for me, but I can't be unaware of how they are received. You write enough of them, and you start to get a sense of how they will be received. Views, votes, comments, RRs, etc. (I don't mention EPs because I don't have any of those).

I've been fortunate enough to strike gold a decent amount of time with respect to the RRs. I have somewhere in the vicinity of 15 or so, maybe one or two more. My story count, however, is in the 60s, so what that means about my batting average, I'm not entirely sure. I am NOT saying this to brag. Rather, I'm pointing it out simply to avoid the criticism of possibly being frustrated and bitter over not getting RRs or whatever.

I will say that I often find the RR process mystifying. I've occasionally seen them awarded for stories I find average at best, and not given for works I find superior. Most of the time, however, I think that the stories that do have them are in fact quite good.

Any process that is subjective and to some extent opaque is going to inspire a certain amount of grousing and second-guessing. As someone else pointed out, no one writes and posts a story thinking that it sucks. Inevitably, some mods are going to be far more reserved when awarding RRs, and others more generous. We all know, or should know, that subjective things can't be perfectly consistent. Just like in high school or college, some instructors were easier graders, and others were trying to fight grade inflation single-handedly. If you got an A from the latter, you knew you had done something special.

Personally, I like that this process is subjective. Other systems can be gamed. "Hey, friendlist, if 200 of you all give my story a 5, then it will get an EP! I'll hit you back with 5s myself!"

Sure, it depends on a certain amount of luck. Is your mod in a good mood when modding? Are you writing the kind of stuff that is likely to move him/her? etc etc.

But on the whole I think it works, especially in the aggregate. Sometimes you *know* you've written a far better story without an RR than another that does have one. But on the whole, are the stories with RRs a serious cut above most of the stuff on the site? Damn skippy.

Yes, it's inconsistent. That's because it's subjective. I've seen mods either on this thread( or the other one about RRs that I'm reading simultaneously) say things like "In 6 months of modding, I maybe gave one RR." And I know from personal experience that other mods give them out far more freely.

But I try not to see them as my or anyone's due. (I can't lie and say I'm not disappointed when I think I've written a fantastic story that doesn't get one. But if I really do think the story is good, I get over it.) The best explanation or analogy I've seen is to the stickers at a bookstore or video store: "staff pick." It's a great bonus, and I think that air of mysterious "hitting the jackpot" when you get one is something that keeps me trying to improve as a writer. If I knew that I could just rope x number of friends into giving me a bunch of votes, or putting my stories through some automatically generated way of getting an accolade, I know I might be tempted to try. This just keeps me honest and trying to write better stories. I like trying to write better stories. Better stories are more likely to resonate with more people. Stories that resonate with more people are more likely to... well, you get the idea.

And sure, I get that inconsistency is frustrating. I know that sometimes my stories get approved without a single change, but they turn out to have some embarrassing goofs. On the other side of the spectrum, I've had friendly discussions about punctuation with my story mods (even to the level of hyphen versus em-dash), whereas I've seen stories go through that have accidentally retained an author's note to himself to go back and fix a particular paragraph. Yes, that can be annoying. "Here I am fixing a comma, and that story clearly didn't even get read all the way through."

But it's also human. Everyone here is fallible, and has made mistakes. We all know we miss things when we proofread our stuff. In fact it's a truism that it's hard to see your own mistakes. I have no idea what it's like to wade through umpteen stories, some of which must be godawful. Teachers who grade papers, especially when in a hurry, know that it's not hard to mark things correct even when they are wrong.

I like that this site is human. I don't know what's going on behind the scenes, and most of the time, I don't want to (though sometimes I have to admit I get eaten alive by curiosity).

One thing I will say is that I got my first RR when I had either zero friends on the site, or perhaps one. At this point I think I have a fair number of mods on my friends list, and I don't think I get RRs more often now than before. If anything, it might be a little less frequently. (Who knows, maybe I pissed some of them off).

I GET why this whole thing can be frustrating. But I also think that no one's out to get anyone. While it's true that even paranoids have enemies, I don't think that that's the case here. Maybe I'm naive.

I'm all for as much of a human touch here as possible. Let's keep the RRs the way they are.
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Every single time this topic comes up I find it funny that it is always mediocre writers complaining about it. Every time...

I recently stumbled upon a writer on here who has a bunch of RRs. She only has like 9 friends on her list and I don't think any of them are mods. I have read two of her stories so far and they were both excellent. Some of the most original and interesting stories I have read on here. Obviously her ability to tell a story was what got her recognized by whatever mod awarded her some RRs.

I don't read all the RRs I see but I don't remember thinking any of them didn't deserve the recognition. I haven't read simmerdownchicks two RRs so maybe it really is bullshit, but from my experience, they seem legit for the most part. The editor's picks too. I only read one editor's pick which I thought was totally bogus but that was a long time ago and that was the only one. Not a bad record so far with finding a quality story with an EP.

I think many mediocre writers look for some kind of conspiracy as to why they don't get awarded RRs instead of you know, getting better at writing a memorable story with a beginning, middle and end, an engaging plot, natural and realistic sex scenes, intriguing characters and a few surprises. Validation comes from the people who read your stories and let you know in the comments. You can tell the difference from some generic comment and a comment from someone who really enjoyed your words. If your comments consist of the former, guess what? You're a mediocre writer. Just because you have 40 "whoa sexy story xx" comments doesn't mean you deserve awards 'n' shit.

Nobody ever writes something, posts it and thinks it's a dog turd. Writers are just like new parents. New parents always think they have a cute baby but we all know that not all babies are cute. Some are downright hideous and look like a tiny version of sloth from the goonies.


While some of what you said I agree with, not all of it, though. What you or some people might call mediocre (insert laugh). Some people like myself included will find it interesting. Yes, people have different taste so the same story that you read that has a "lasting" effect on you would have a "yawn" effect on someone else. Now you might see an ugly, hideous how did you say it? Oh sloth-like creature, while I might see a beautiful baby. Who is wrong? So yes I agree on the part that you think that the mediocre should get better and try and edit better, proofread better or whatever the case maybe. I don't call people mediocre just a thing I have against a scale system I hate them! Saying, one person is better than other based on one person's outlook is pure stupidity.

I have never said and will never say that it relies on a "friend or knowing a person" system. I have just stated in the past and what I (personally) have read is not worthy of an RR to me. Which can go hand in hand as you or other people can read any of my stories and say NONE is worthy, which I can wholeheartedly say YAY! I do not strive for an RR. I like my stories to be different not to coincide with the "norm."

What I agreed with JC about is. I can see where he gets the idea from. And for anyone to blindly sit and say NO YOU'RE WRONG. Well now that is being the sloth creature you mentioned (not saying, anyone, is). Every system can be seen different by every individual and while some see it as perfect and working. Some might see it needing a tweak or another look. As someone once said, nothing in this world is perfect. So before saying it is always the mediocre complaining/whining. Take a look again and see it from someone else's view not just your own.

Like I said before I am not pointing fingers or am I judging anyone. In my eyes, your all great writers. Hell just putting your work and thoughts online to be seen by many deserves a hand clap. Keep up the good work and keep writing and striving for whatever you want from this site. Myself I like any comments whether you copy and paste it, say you like it, hate it. Just give it a read and rate it a 1. I like writing and not getting an RR, or a five will not stop me. Not even being called mediocre (laugh) Sorry that word just makes me laugh.
I think these queries and suggestions are valid and open a dialogue and agree with JC that there is a lot that remains open to question.... it is easy to observe what appears cliquey in nature or favouritism in this environment.

The general discussion of what deserves or what are the guidelines for awarding an RR are great questions... It is not about expecting accolades but a matter of curiosity and a wish for clarity and transparency, and even self-improvement, which these suggestions would facilitate.
When I worked at a bookstore, I had a recommended read shelf with my name on it. That's how I see the award here--a mod put my story on their shelf.

At the bookstore, I never had to justify my choices; I could switch them out as often as I liked. It was one of the few delights of holding a minimum wage, crap, customer service job. The mods don't even get the minimum wage part.
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When I worked at a bookstore, I had a recommended read shelf with my name on it. That's how I see the award here--a mod put my story on their shelf.

At the bookstore, I never had to justify my choices; I could switch them out as often as I liked. It was one of the few delights of holding a minimum wage, crap, customer service job. The mods don't even get the minimum wage part.


It's like you reached into my brain and plucked the words right out!

This. Exactly this.