Sometimes I have a friend with benefits. I'm not married. As long as both people know from the going in how it'll be and can be adult s about it, friends with benefits can work out.
I have had several, one in particular also became a very special friend, now in a relationship and we respect that but remain good friends. Her SO would be fine I think but I would not feel right. I have had a couple of others that were more casual but currently, none.
I get together with a married buddy for so me beers and sex. We both need more release than we get at home, so it's a good arrangement.
I get together with a married buddy for so me beers and sex. We both need more release than we get at home, so it's a good arrangement.
I have a small group of open-minded and uninhibited friends (me and my gf, one c and two singles). Everything goes among us either individually or in group with mutual cosent. Benefits? trust and sexual enjoyment.
Yes. And, they should be mandatory! xx
Sure, but there is always rules. No one needs to get hurt.
I have had one and it was great but unfortunately she moved away. No such luck at the moment but i would love to have a FWB again, just to be called on whenever they or even i feel like a good time. So sexy to get a message that your needed to meet the requirements of your friend.
No i dont but I wouldnt mind it.
Have from time to time... I am married....
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I kind of have one.. It is just starting out at the moment. Their other half does not know. I am single.
I'm divorced now, but yes, I have a couple of 'friends with beneftits.' And, when I was married , I also had a few 'friends with benefits.' My ex fucked on the side (as most married men do) so why shouldn't we girls?
Friends with benefits~ no.
My ex asked me if I wanted that at one time with him. I said no.
My boyfriend was my bestfriend but there were no "benefits" other than the friendship itself when we were just friends.
We hung out, we cuddled up...
We had separate relationships with people we dated, no mixing. We waited until we were both out of relationships -though he may have wanted or tried. We meant more to each other than such a casual thing. He may have joked about that at one time. I said, "Oh No. We won't be using that term," or I would not be in that relationship.
There is not anyone else.
In the past in casual relationships or where I just met someone, it has been: "We are dating/my date", "My Lover", "Someone I like," and more so terms like that.
Yes, I do have a FWB and we do not work together. I am married and he is about to be married to his GF. The main aspect that I have seen with this FWB and previous ones is you have to discuss boundaries upfront. Prior to beginning an arrangement, the guidelines and boundaries are set up which can't be crossed. I personally believe that the term FWB does not exist, anyone involved in ongoing meetings and typically multi forms of communication on a somewhat daily basis is bound to develop a bond with the other individual. It is a fine line that you walk and there's never a guarantee that one will end up getting hurt during the process.
I do have one. I am married. He has a girlfriend and I don't know if she knows or not. We did work together, but don't now. My hubby knows about him and likes him. It is a really new relationship, about a week old, and I have no clue where it will lead. It just came about one night as we were talking. He knew that I wanted to talk to hubby before we did anything intimate and I appreciated his understanding. I think it might be a good situation for all of us, but who knows.
...I thought that maybe a new life, a different life, wouldn’t be so bad. But where the hell did I put the receipt, and could you return something that was over twenty years old? Where do you go to get a new life when your old one has you so puzzled you don’t know how to fix it? Wish I knew.
-Anita Blake (Laurell K. Hamilton)
I am going to say NO I don't have a friend with benefits. I am single but two years ago I did have a one night stand with a friend and he is married and do I think it will happen again right now I say NO to that also.
i do have one at work, he is married and i have a bf
Never had any, been with the same man for nearly 17 years.... does that make me weird or what lol.... would be interesting tho... I guess see what the fuss is about ... hahhahha
Yes im the small bitchy chick in the corner, set me off and man do you know about it !!!
yes i do, my boss and he is married but i am not, most of the time i'm just giving him a blow job, sex on rare occasions
My wife had (?) one... I'm in the market for one... anyone interested? ;-)
Am single and used to have two "friends with benefits' women that were both married. One lasted a little over month and the other lasted about 4 months. The one that lasted for four month, she would come over to my house after she dropped the kids at school. We would spend an hour or so in bed before she went home. A couple times a week did it for us. The other woman only did it with me on the weekends when her husband played golf in the morning. In that one month, we might have had sex 3 different times.
I have lots of "imaginary" ones.
My Karma just ran over your Dogma
Don't have one, never had one.
Sure do, kind of always had at least one. I am married as well. The most recent one has been around for almost 2 years. Met her out one night and we just clicked and continue to see each other several times a month.
