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hell yes more than one
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friends with benefits, married or not, do you have one?
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I am married (many years) and I don't have one, but would certainly entertain the idea. Anybody close by interested? "Rules" certainly negotiable!
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Looking still
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fuck yes I have a few both married and single
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No, I do not but should I? :P ;)
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Looking......
Devil's Advocate
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I'm married, so no. No benefits for me. Poor little donkey.
Hypothetically though, if I ever was going to get a bit of fluff on the side, and I stress, "if", I think a married friend with benefits would be the best way to do it. Similar circumstances, similar obligations, similar risks , and all that.
Nice to dream...
Hypothetically though, if I ever was going to get a bit of fluff on the side, and I stress, "if", I think a married friend with benefits would be the best way to do it. Similar circumstances, similar obligations, similar risks , and all that.
Nice to dream...
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill.
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Yes. I am single and after many affairs I decided to slow down. I realised I was being used.
After a lot of soul searching and a lot of consideration I have found 5 people, 3 males and 2 other females. We are all bi-sexual. None are partners in the basic sence. One girl lives with me and we share the same bed most nights. the others are regular visitors and we all enjoy the pleasures of being FWB. The visits are not always just for sex, most are social visits however sex is never refused.
It is a cooperative basically, we share partners of both sexes as and when we have the opportunity and or desire.
It is not a sex fest, there are times it can be a threesome, more often FFM and occasionally MMF or a foursome+. We all have been together now for two years and there has never been any dissention.
If we have an opportunity to engage with somebody outside the group we do, very carefully. It is usually a one night stand (never at home) or if we away from home, a casual affair. We always inform our FWB of the associations we may have had. No secrets. Somebody told us we live in a world of "compersion" in other words sexual affairs without guilt or jealousy. None of us have ever questioned the other regarding any relationships we have together. We all know the likes and dislikes of each other and we never attempt to transgress those boundaries.
Ours is an unusual and most satisfactory arrangement and only possible after many affairs and unsatisfactory experiences.
I was a little strange at first but we perservered and we worked thing out and now we are happy. We have rules - only a few, but we abide by them.
We had one couple who decided to partner off not long after beginning our association but it didnt take long to find two other people of similar kind. They still visit very very occasionally and are happy to retain the FWB relationship.
Ours is one of few succesfull experiences we have been aware of. We are all thankful of it.
Its very handy if we require a partner for an event we are invited to, we have a choice of three.
After a lot of soul searching and a lot of consideration I have found 5 people, 3 males and 2 other females. We are all bi-sexual. None are partners in the basic sence. One girl lives with me and we share the same bed most nights. the others are regular visitors and we all enjoy the pleasures of being FWB. The visits are not always just for sex, most are social visits however sex is never refused.
It is a cooperative basically, we share partners of both sexes as and when we have the opportunity and or desire.
It is not a sex fest, there are times it can be a threesome, more often FFM and occasionally MMF or a foursome+. We all have been together now for two years and there has never been any dissention.
If we have an opportunity to engage with somebody outside the group we do, very carefully. It is usually a one night stand (never at home) or if we away from home, a casual affair. We always inform our FWB of the associations we may have had. No secrets. Somebody told us we live in a world of "compersion" in other words sexual affairs without guilt or jealousy. None of us have ever questioned the other regarding any relationships we have together. We all know the likes and dislikes of each other and we never attempt to transgress those boundaries.
Ours is an unusual and most satisfactory arrangement and only possible after many affairs and unsatisfactory experiences.
I was a little strange at first but we perservered and we worked thing out and now we are happy. We have rules - only a few, but we abide by them.
We had one couple who decided to partner off not long after beginning our association but it didnt take long to find two other people of similar kind. They still visit very very occasionally and are happy to retain the FWB relationship.
Ours is one of few succesfull experiences we have been aware of. We are all thankful of it.
Its very handy if we require a partner for an event we are invited to, we have a choice of three.
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Like everything else, this is really a question of preference and choice. It works if agreed parameters are not breached.
Ambrose
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i have had a fwb in the past, and its something that i dont regret! i find that it is rewarding if both parties are clear that it's only about sex. Otherwise, it's a dangerous proposition.
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Not right at the moment, but I have in the past
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I have in past times ... four of them in all and we were all buddies together. The guys had two things in common ... none of them were married and all of them had fucked me as a group, singularly or just two at a time. I'd masturbated them all and all had spilled their sperm onto various parts of my naked body. Those were lovely sexy and deeply satifying times with my four FWB's
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I have been on both ends of it. falling and having them fall. its fun untill then
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My first friend with benefits was married.... later she turned into a lover gf, lol. Well Yes I do have a few girls at school and we know how to take care of physical and emotional needs of our bodies. Its good to have them 
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No I don't ut wish I did
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I kind of see lush as a fwb..I have gotten close to a few people here in the past and I am having currently having a great time making a few new friends
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I have two friends with benefits and I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend. My fwb's know about each other and my partners but my partners don't know about them. I have no regrets
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Had 2 FWB's a very long time ago during my first marriage. The second one went on for quite a while; we both had the same high level public sector job and consequently met professionally, so the opportunities arose regularly.
I then divorced and married someone who worked for me, and haven't strayed like that since. We both met my second FWB in a lift at a conference once ... my wife knew at once who she was. Amazingly embarrassing lift ride as I recall it.
I then divorced and married someone who worked for me, and haven't strayed like that since. We both met my second FWB in a lift at a conference once ... my wife knew at once who she was. Amazingly embarrassing lift ride as I recall it.
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Yes, I have two and they know each other, and we are all married. We've known each other for a long time, and it started slowly.
Rainbow Warrior
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I've had FWB most of my sexually active years. I usually have more guys than girls because I never fall in love with guys, so it is easier to just have no-strings sex with them. I fall in love with other girls too easily.
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I have been one
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My wife and I just started a open marriage. We have been married 12 years. We both have a FWB. But I'm having trouble ... my fwb is more friend than benefit ...but she is fucking him like crazy...this is not doing my self confidence any good. Any advice?
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I am finally happy. Why would I mess it up by something so meaningless.
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not yet but lookin,yes
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Would love to have 1 or 2....or 3
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Yes
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I do... for over 2 years now.
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I had one in Atlanta, but have yet to find one here yet. Anyone like to apply??
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Yes, we have had a fuck buddy for a couple of years. Actually we hooked up with him last night, was fantastic!!
Martiann, how does "bi" coastal sound? HAHA
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I had one in Atlanta, but have yet to find one here yet. Anyone like to apply??
Martiann, how does "bi" coastal sound? HAHA
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I'm in the market for one. Any takers?