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I've got someone who wants to come with me, but it's my first ball, and his. He's not really kinky himself, but is interested, but since I've never been, any clues for me on what blokes wear at these things?
I should probably add that he's not into leather, pvc or as he said 'gimp masks'... He's not super helpful. D: