I have tried to convince my spouse that i would enjoy her taking the initiate in this tpye of behavior. An example would be; while watchingTV she might provide me with an alterinive entertainment. Thus far I have not convinced her that this effort on her behalf, would say me that she wants me. It would mean to me that she cares about my wants. I would drop to my knees for her at the drop of a hat, however, that would not be at the apprpriate time unless i did so when sat down to go to bed. So what do think,does doing something unexpected sexually say i care or i am horny?
First of all I would think that this would belong in relationships section more than the lounge.
In answer to your question, I think if you go down on her spontaneously and asking nothing in return would tell her you care. If you are only doing it to get a BJ in the end it would suggest that you are just horny.
...she does do that! I think she's mostly horny! She likes to cuddle for the "I care" stuff.
two faces to this one..
1. if he makes a sign... then...its because i care
2. if i make a sign .........then its clearly because i am horny..
although having said that....his making a sign will get me all wet ..for sure
While watching TV? Um, wouldn't that suggest 1) you were bored with what you're watching and/or 2) If you're getting a blowjob, why in hell are you multi-tasking? How would you feel if you were going down on her and she picked up a magazine to thumb through? Sometimes you people just talk silly.