I COULD take few wild guesses about you too. THAT however would only result me being banned. Having no way of KNOWING what your age or level of education or personal experience might be, all I WILL say to you is that just because you don't agree with someone doesn't mean that THEY are of necessity WRONG. So, now, that we know that the ONLY view you accept is yours, why don't you go try picking a fight with someone else? btw, straight, yes. Middle aged? THANK YOU! I'm older than that. As to the rest YES! (WHY do I think you DID look at my profile? BECAUSE you haven't read many of my posts! If you had, you've ALSO have noticed that I am well traveled and have MANY decades of experience acquired in a variety of locales, too include but NOT limited too: St Louis, San Diego, LA, New York, Chicago, Jacksonville Florida, Bangkok, Manila, Pattaya, Phuket and Vietnam. So SPARE ME the "jaded, European hedonist" TRIPE, AND the arrogance that seems to go with it.) Have a nice day.
I'm 110% Bi or even Ac/Dc just like electricity you can always plug me in both ways.
It will become more and more acceptable
Twenty two miles, like it or not you ARE European. Sadly only ONE of us is impressed with you, and it ISN'T me. That little list I gave you included several locales KNOWN for catering to homo and bi sexual men. Your guesswork and assumptions being very little short of hilarious notwithstanding; I DO NOT come on here to argue, much less engage in insult bouts. I had enough of that in High School. I also had enough of self styled "experts" in JR High School, to include one apparently horny little rip intent upon impressing us all (especially the teacher) with what a "pillar of virtue" she was that she continually spouted nonsense about how "I would ALWAYS do this" Or "I would NEVER do that!" I finally tired of this idiocy and informed her all she had managed to do was prove her stupidity by also PROVING that she lacked sufficient imagination to imagine the circumstances that might make her feel that doing those things was necessary! I'm NOT narrow minded, nor am I lacking in imagination or understanding. I AM tired of your pendantic rants. Your insults and gibberish have PROVEN nothing, nor have they DISPROVEN anything I've had to say. Oh, btw NOW your off by a decade the OTHER way. Here's a thought, how about you go your way and I'll go mine?
So many in this thread have said what I feel and have posted on this subject many times.
I applaud any many who does have the courage even on a website like this to identify as bisexual. It takes a lot of courage for a man to do so.
I don't know how many times through the years I have heard many of my male friends get excited over discussing a girl they know who is bisexual. And they identify her gladly as so, but then they will turn around and say any many who puts another cock in his mouth or his butt is less than a man or gay. There is no in between for that man. And I see if often on websites. And I have even seen it here where other men make it clear that they see that is distasteful or disgusting.
Women who kiss each other are seen as sexually exciting. A man who is bisexual or gay are immediately seen by many as less than men and pariahs in our society and neighborhoods. Many places if a man is a known bisexual or homosexual, people won't even allow you to be around their children.
Bunny mentioned women doing men with strap-ons. I knew a couple several years ago. It was something the wife really wanted to do, and urged her husband (a good friend of mine) to let her. They argued about it for 2 years and he finally gave in. The first time didn't go too well. The second time did. He enjoyed it very much. The bad thing was that she never looked at him the same way afterward. She has weird ideas in her head about a man who submitted himself that way. She never saw him the same again and they split up.
It is sad but there is just so much of a stigma placed on men that it is just a harder thing for a man to identify as being bisexual no matter how much they enjoy it.
I do post that I am bisexual on some adult sites but I am still in the closet in day to day life. Bi men just aren't accepted as bi women. Plus I find it more exciting to be on the down low, kinda tabbo. My wife is bisexual and everyone knows.
I am still exploring (hence "bi-curious" on my profile) but I think I am, and probably always have been, bi. Why not advertise it? Five+ years of taunting and physical abuse in high school for being "gay" simply because I did not conform to the social norms expected of guys (e.g. no girlfriend, not an athlete). I had stray thoughts about guys over the years but that experience led me to dismiss/bury them. I suspect there's other guys who fit those parameters though it is only one possible reason.
Now I'm finally letting myself come to terms with the desire for a man. Will anything happen to move me from "curious" to "bisexual"? I don't know yet.
I am a bisexual male but am in the closet. So sad
I think that most of us are more fluid sexually than we imagine. I am 49, and it is only a couple of years since I discovered how lovely sex with other women can be. I am perfectly happy to admit that I have moved along the continuum from straight to bi curious to bisexual, but I think I love men so much I would find it difficult to go beyond that. I number a variety of people of diverse sexualities among my friends, but I think it is more difficult for men to admit this than those of us blessed with two X chromosomes, although I am sure it has to do with male conditioning, not that they don't have the same potential.
Well I am not really sure how to answer that question.......I am very bi....equally bi.......and have always been. I am a 62 yr old man and do not understand the issue really.......I am bi, I love sex with men and or women.......and it is not an issue to me......it may be to others.....
I really think a lot of men are bi, but their upbringing prohibits them from admitting it...........
I am bi.......no big deal......I do not push the fact to anyone.......but if they ask, I will tell them........
I think there are more bi than acknowledge........
Bi-sexuality among women seems more common, because there isn't as much of a social stigma tacked onto it. Oh and porn? Half those girls are paid to do sexual acts, doesn't mean they actually feel sexual attraction to other women. Society makes homosexuality/bi-sexuality among men seem wrong due to the puritanical gender-role bullshit that's been around since anyone can remember. As for on here, I'd say it's mostly the same deal, but I haven't seen any bigotry in the chats, though I'm sure I'll see some eventually.
I also hate how the media misunderstands how bi-sexual people think. Anna Paquin did a rather nice interview where she explained that just because she married Stephen Moyer, it doesn't mean her orientation switched back to heterosexual.
