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I'll never forget the first time a woman swallowed me. Blew my friggin' mind! For me, the turn-on is in the sheer intimacy of it. Most of us are pretty finicky about what we let inside our mouths, it's a very private and personal part of our anatomy, and this viewpoint is supported by both biological imperative and social conditioning. So, for a woman to accept something so "dirty/filthy/nasty" in her mouth, and then even deeper, is just... wow. That's love. (Yep, stoopid Puritan upbringing showing; s'okay, works in my favor in this case.)

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One thing i found hot,
This fella asked if he could watch my expression as he came in my mouth & when i swallow it down.
Found that quite erotic !
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there are really only a few things that i just have a big "no way" for. and that is one of them. the taste, the consistency, that fact that its a bodily fluid...i dunno theres just something i balk at when it comes to the idea of ingesting something another person secreted. touching it, playing with it, feeling splash across my body or oozing from my body all fine, but i prefer not to eat it.
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I swallow because thats where his cums shoots to. Personally we like it when the over flow drips out of my mouth, down my chest and over my boobs and continues to my pussy, now thats hot :P
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My mother taught me that spitting wasnt polite!!!!

But I agree with Ashley, letting cum drip from your mouth to your body is very HOT!
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Personally i don't care if she spits or swallows. But I must say that I dated a girl once who swallowed EVERY drop. She cleaned me up like nothing ever happened.
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Because spitting it out is way un-sexy.

Cumming on a women is sexy and her swallowing is sexy. Spitting is sorta gross and doesn't spitting make the cum taste linger in your mouths longer?


In no way is spitting gross.

It's just another option.

Spit it back on your cock and massage it in?
Rocker of the cocker
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because I would hate to waste it
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well i thinks its kynda wierd its like ur swallowing their unborn babies lol but if the ask u to i see y not, except for guys that taste nasty so eat some pineapple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It does not mater nuch if she spits or swallows , BUT if she makes a big deal about licking upevery last drop, that is very sexy
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My first few BJ's, i did not like when a guy would cum in my mouth or want me to swallow. After awhile i learned to like it as a prize. To me it meant i did my part of the act to please and pleasure him. The taste for me varies, it doesnt bother me anymore. I just like giving oral all the time now.
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heheh...at least act like you've never swallowed before. Like it's the 1st time in your life that you ever even contemplated letting a man shoot his load in the mouth of the lovely woman you want 'us' to fall in love with.

Otherwise, some of us men are apt to think.........

"Wow, she really loves to eat cum." At which point the next logical thing to think is: "Hmmm, I bet she's swallowed more cum than the shower drain @ the local university's - football locker room, on gay-jack-off-contest-day."

You're not likely to be marriage material at that point in his thinking process lol

Me, I wouldn't give a second's thought to being your fuckbuddy going forward...or even kissing you. I know that you brush your teeth and gargle and it's probably been at least 24 hours since you last blew some dude, besides me.

But I'm not your average, ordinary guy.


Well… this is kind of being ignorant
Personally, the first time I swallowed, I probably acted like I was a well-coated "shower drain."
In fact, I probably acted like a total slut the very first time I fucked someone. They didn't believe that I was a virgin until they saw blood on the upholstery.
Guys: just because we're horny lil cocksuckers, doesn't mean we're slutty cocksuckers who need to be approached with a std-test kit or something.
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Since I swallow my ladies love juices, they swallow mine as well! It is a huge turn on and I adore any woman who will swallow my love!
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I just don´t know what else to do with it. Swallowing seems the best way to get it out of my mouth. I don´t really fancy having to clean it out of my carpet.
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i really just do not like it...never have
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Quote by WellMadeMale
heheh...at least act like you've never swallowed before. Like it's the 1st time in your life that you ever even contemplated letting a man shoot his load in the mouth of the lovely woman you want 'us' to fall in love with.

Otherwise, some of us men are apt to think.........

"Wow, she really loves to eat cum." At which point the next logical thing to think is: "Hmmm, I bet she's swallowed more cum than the shower drain @ the local university's - football locker room, on gay-jack-off-contest-day."

You're not likely to be marriage material at that point in his thinking process lol

Me, I wouldn't give a second's thought to being your fuckbuddy going forward...or even kissing you. I know that you brush your teeth and gargle and it's probably been at least 24 hours since you last blew some dude, besides me.

But I'm not your average, ordinary guy.


Well… this is kind of being ignorant


I soooo agree.

The whole "women who are dirty and love sex must be promiscuous whores" thing should be an extinct theory by now. Unfortunately this is what keeps many women inhibited and in fear of judgment and stereotypes. Then later guys will complain about how the sex isn't hot enough and why they have to cheat for quality fucking.

This is also the reason why women feel compelled to state "I never do this kind of thing" over and over again when hooking up with a guy on the first night.

Why can't we just assume that some women enjoy sex more and/or are better skilled at it. It doesn't necessarily mean that her 'number' is into triple digits or that she sucked off the football team about an hour before your date. Maybe she's just naturally talented or has done her 'research'.

Speaking of 'research' and to answer the original question, the reason I swallow (and I swallowed on my first BJ) is because before I had sex, I'd watched porn and that's just what the porn girls did so I figured this was standard fare and I wanted to be the best I could be! I had no idea what to expect but I certainly wasn't going to wimp out by spitting or gagging. Swallow and smile. I've never considered anything less.
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Quote by WellMadeMale
heheh...at least act like you've never swallowed before. Like it's the 1st time in your life that you ever even contemplated letting a man shoot his load in the mouth of the lovely woman you want 'us' to fall in love with.

Otherwise, some of us men are apt to think.........

"Wow, she really loves to eat cum." At which point the next logical thing to think is: "Hmmm, I bet she's swallowed more cum than the shower drain @ the local university's - football locker room, on gay-jack-off-contest-day."

You're not likely to be marriage material at that point in his thinking process lol

Me, I wouldn't give a second's thought to being your fuckbuddy going forward...or even kissing you. I know that you brush your teeth and gargle and it's probably been at least 24 hours since you last blew some dude, besides me.

But I'm not your average, ordinary guy.


Well… this is kind of being ignorant
Personally, the first time I swallowed, I probably acted like I was a well-coated "shower drain."
In fact, I probably acted like a total slut the very first time I fucked someone. They didn't believe that I was a virgin until they saw blood on the upholstery.
Guys: just because we're horny lil cocksuckers, doesn't mean we're slutty cocksuckers who need to be approached with a std-test kit or something.


The bolded is the part that's total bullshit. This wellmademan will take what he can get. He knows it, we know it.
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as a general rule, swallowing seems to be that sign of affection--that need to please. Enjoying it aside (it's part of the entire experience in my opinion), one of my favorite things is swallowing and then kissing him. And having him enjoy it.

it's a turn on for me to be that comfortable to share that intimacy... :: shrug:: just my thoughts
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Quote by WellMadeMale
heheh...at least act like you've never swallowed before. Like it's the 1st time in your life that you ever even contemplated letting a man shoot his load in the mouth of the lovely woman you want 'us' to fall in love with.

Otherwise, some of us men are apt to think.........

"Wow, she really loves to eat cum." At which point the next logical thing to think is: "Hmmm, I bet she's swallowed more cum than the shower drain @ the local university's - football locker room, on gay-jack-off-contest-day."

You're not likely to be marriage material at that point in his thinking process lol

Me, I wouldn't give a second's thought to being your fuckbuddy going forward...or even kissing you. I know that you brush your teeth and gargle and it's probably been at least 24 hours since you last blew some dude, besides me.

But I'm not your average, ordinary guy.


Well… this is kind of being ignorant
Personally, the first time I swallowed, I probably acted like I was a well-coated "shower drain."
In fact, I probably acted like a total slut the very first time I fucked someone. They didn't believe that I was a virgin until they saw blood on the upholstery.
Guys: just because we're horny lil cocksuckers, doesn't mean we're slutty cocksuckers who need to be approached with a std-test kit or something.


The bolded is the part that's total bullshit. This wellmademan will take what he can get. He knows it, we know it.


Methinks some of us don't play with sarcasm in the same way as others of us do, and then we have our dancing parrot jump in and stomp on a man when he's down, with her heels!

Of course, Felix...I take it where I can get it. And I'm damned glad to even get a blow job, whether she swallows or not. Now if she's pretending she's a pencil sharpener, I might ask that she not break the skin at least.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
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Of course, Felix...I take it where I can get it. And I'm damned glad to even get a blow job, whether she swallows or not. .





Are you agreeing with me? You disappoint me.
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what do u mean why swallow?! i always swallow makes guys feel better bout themselves
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Well, I guess I'm in the minority, but I do not swallow. I never have, the thought of something spewing from a dick into my mouth is yucky. I prefer my man to come inside me. Thank goodness my man prefers to come in my pussy. If, my fiance wanted to come in my mouth, and that's a big IF, we can talk about it. I would do it for love and his pleasure but otherwise.... nope.
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Geez… sarcasm?! Ok… well, I grew up on that stuff, so you have to actually give clues as to if you're using sarcasm or not. There's the obvious sarcasm, and then there's the sarcasm in text-form.

At least it opened the floor up to say "Just because we are good at it doesn't mean we are sluts." I agree with everything that Dancing Doll said,though.
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I've honestly never tried to swallow.. Maybe I will now though =)
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When she swallows it makes me want to please her even more! I love to lick her pussy and her asshole too anyway! when I see my cum running down her chin , It does something to me that keeps my cock rock hard and ready to go again! Well... most times anyway! It is a very erotic sensation to cum in her mouth , and see in her eyes, the intense desire to please me. I also enjoy the taste of my cum in her mouth! In her pussy too , as I love to go down on her after I've squirted my load in her beautiful gash! I'm talking about my wife in case you were wondering and there isn't Anything I wouldn't do for her ! anyway just giving my thoughts on the subject at hand! If I can give a bit of advice to all of you beautiful and gorgeous ladies, If you've thought about it but haven't tried swallowing your guy's load,I say go for it! you will get a more affectionate man that will likely want to please you as well! So ladies, go to your man, take his dick out of his hand and put it in your mouth! Happy Slurping!!
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I once unloaded 3 weeks of cum into a girl and after the initial shock she took it all down, and she turned round and said "I don´t know why men enjoy that!!"
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I think its because its seen as completly loving the man shes with. Think about it like a guy starts to go down, on you takes a couple licks, makes a face and says lets move on to something else now... you wouldnt feel to turned on im guessing. the otherway around and he pops his head up and says thats fantastic would you be a little more turned on?

all apologies for punctuation and grammer
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Well, I guess I'm in the minority, but I do not swallow. I never have, the thought of something spewing from a dick into my mouth is yucky. I prefer my man to come inside me. Thank goodness my man prefers to come in my pussy. If, my fiance wanted to come in my mouth, and that's a big IF, we can talk about it. I would do it for love and his pleasure but otherwise.... nope.



Thank goodness I didn't say never! Because I've done it now for him and I would do it again. But I can honestly say, I love it because he loves me so I couldn't fathom having done it in the past for every Tom, Dick or Harry. It's his treat for loving me and swallowing my juices.
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i personally don't have a prefrance, it's your choie, but i do like it when she continues to use her hand to im finished, it's a turn on for most guys to watch .
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It is one of the most intimate signs of affection and love between two people even more when snowballing happens (ie: taking your cum in her mouth and swishing it around for a bit then giving you a deep tongue kiss and giving you back your load rinse and repeat a few times then split the load and both swallow.