Strap-on vs. Real Thing

30 Dec 2018

Older gent here that has had prostate surgery and cannot keep it up, tried Viagra with no results. I try keeping the Mrs. happy by doing oral and she tells me that is all she needs, but I know otherwise. I have suggested that she have another man now and then, but she refuses. I want to see her pleasured with a nice hard cock, so I purchased a strap-on cock about 8". My question is, Would she get as much pleasure out of this as she would if it were a real cock? I am at my wits ends wanting to please her and don't want her to start cheating on me, I would agree to let her have a gentleman screw her on the side now and then, but she dismisses that idea. Thanks for your help.

28 Mar 2019

Odd no one replied.

The only way to find out is to try. Am guessing from the narrative you & her are not using any other toys. You might try adding a regular vibrator to the mix. maybe several.

15 May 2019

Quote by mer0806
I want to see her pleasured with a nice hard cock, so I purchased a strap-on cock about 8". My question is, Would she get as much pleasure out of this as she would if it were a real cock? I don't want her to start cheating on me.

A strap on can be easily as effective. The biggest difference for us is the cum factor. We both get off majorly on cum all in and all over. With that said the orgasms both of us have from strap on sex is equally satisfying. Different attachments do different things to me. I clearly get off as much on a strap on or dildo as I do a real penis but as I mentioned, the orgasms vary depending on the attachment.

We do both believe that the real deal is more visually stimulating in him and he likes the feeling of getting cummed in. As for me I like either or in either hole. Dp Rocks BTW and after my husband has cum in me, we often get a DP strap on and he does me with it. It sends me to the moon and back. It is like the real deal, strap ons take practice to get good at them.

11 Jun 2019

I am in the same position as you - coming up on 50, healthy but the dreaded type 2 diabetes (tablet only) side effects has hit me and the old cock just doesn't work like it should anymore. For the past 3 years it has been going downhill. I tried viagra, gave me a splitting headache and only got him half hard. It's gotten to the point now where it is flat out getting hard enough to penetrate. In the end I bought a hollow strap-on and we use that and my wife seems to get off on that as much as she did when my cock used to be able to drill through walls :-) I'm by no means big, 5 inches back in the old days, and I bought a 7 inch strap-on to give her more of a thrill. Watching how wide her eye went the first time I slid it in to her was one of the biggest turn-ons I have ever experienced! She went crazy, grabbing my arse, and the leather strap, and slammed me in to her. She gets off on it so well, and once she comes it is my turn. If she lays on her back and puts her legs straight up in the air, keeping them nice and tight together, my cock is just hard enough to go in to her and stay there until I come. She still enjoys the feeling of me coming in her, and I think this tops it off for her. I like to think that she sees me as the "2nd man" in a threesome after the big cock plows her. There is no way I would ever share my wife, but it is a turn on wondering if she is fantasizing that she is being done by someone else and then I am going sloppy seconds.

So in closing, I'd say go for it! Buy the strap-on and give her the pleasure she deserves and then hopefully it will slao help you get hard enough to finish off yourself as well.

11 Jun 2019

You cant beat the real thing in my ass but I loved to be pegged so I love a good strap on.