Questions of this nature are rather fascinating. First to answer your question, Spitting is turn off for me, myself and I.
As to why? well I guess it has something to do with the act itself, spitting isn't pleasant, so for me to spit (for what can only be for lubrication purposes?) would mean that, well I ain't doing it right!
Now it is fair to say I am not an expert on this topic and these are simply my observations. There may of course be another reason to spit during sex, I cannot think what that reason could be though.
These questions are interesting because in any other situation this would be described as being...(insert your own word here, I'll go with horrid) and yet somehow when linked with sex there seems to be an acceptance of the act (perhaps as a quick fix maybe?) I will stress the emphasis on somehow and seems....
two pennies worth from myself...interesting question.
Personally, it's a huge turn off. I find spitting anywhere other than in the sink while you brush your teeth, disgusting.
Having said that, the thought of someone spitting in my mouth to show their dominance over me is quite hot.
It works in some cases and it might not work in others.
If it's hot and rough and in the intensity of the moment - spitting on genitals or into your partner's mouth might feel natural and part of the uninhibited lust-driven moment. You're fucking, you're not thinking. In those cases, it works and can definitely add to the urgency, power-play and dirty sex factor.
If the sex is not like this and the guy is taking his time, being slower and softer or you have time to think about something other than what is immediately going on or you feel like you can easily break to reach for that bottle of lube in your nightstand drawer or think about ordering take-out later on, then yeah, I think spitting might come off as awkward.
For me - I feel like some people can pull it off and it's hot and sexy, and others - it would probably look 'weird' and unsexy. That's the best I can explain it. It has to feel natural 'in the moment' and it basically has to fit a certain kind of sexual interplay.
The act itself doesn't put me off though.
Yeah not so much for me, even in the "heat of the moment" I am not sure it would be a turn on for me. I view spitting as a very hideous act and would prefer it's not performed in my bedroom thank-you very much.
For me it's a turn off. But hairballs are to so exceptions have to be made.
Situation dependent as said above. In the lust fuelled moment of madness, definitely a turn on, but not something I would do normally.
It's always put me off when I see it in porn so I don't know that I'd been any more turned on by it for real. Saliva for lubrication is all very well and good but good oral and genital licking can supply that. That said, I'm a bit of a gentle soul who doesn't necessarily get off on rough or "dirty" sex (though the sex in the story I'm working on gets a bit rougher than usual and turned me on incredibly so maybe my tastes aren't that well-defined) so IMHO, YMMV and all that.
I kinda like it - especially if it's during some kink, and he's using that spit to lube me up!!! Yummmmmm....
I just find it a turn off, no thanks for me and my partner says no thanks also
when we are getting down and the intensity is high enough then yes it is a huge turn on for me. As is spitting in to her open mouth, or vise versa. But it really is a mood thing for me.
I think spitting on the cock to help with a blowjob/handjob, is fine and can be damn sexy. Spitting on a vagina? Um... no. I would prefer using a standard lube (always keep one handy, even if both are turned on, sometimes you need it).
During a hot blowjob when a girl goes deep throat on me and then backs up and spits all over my dick I find it extremely naughty and a turn on. I wouldn't spit on a girls sweet lips, but licking my fingers before inserting them inside isn't all that bad is it? My spouse completely hates saliva in the bedroom. Still haven't been successful in teaching her not to swallow while giving me oral, the sloppiness is a turn on and let's me know I'm more than wet enough to enter her slit.
I could see how pulled off just right (as others have said) this might be fine, but it just seems like one of those things that guys see done in porn and then they try it and it's like..."what the fuck?"
Never could understand this - not necessary with all the lube available including wonderful flavors
In a bedroom scenario with lube handy, sure spit is useless, but those spur the moment fucks in random places you have to improvise a little sometimes.
During a blowjob it can be quite hot but I couldn't spit on her vagina. Just odd.
If you need extra lube and none other is available then spitting on the genitalia is fine.
For a Hot Fuck, then it's okay and I deal with it!
But as an older fuck, I know I may not be the juiciest lay. However, when I have been with some people, they have done some very sensual and erotic drooling that lets down their salive to my sex and gets me even wetter!
Kisses!
Steph
I've never understood this one in porn. Spitting doesn't turn me on. Not if it's done for dominance, or lubrication. It just doesn't hold any erotic quality.
Now, that said, I completely differentiate drooling. Drool - good. Spit - saliva forcefully leaving the mouth propelled by air and enhanced by sound - BAD.
So, if you're ever with me naked and waiting for me to spit, you'd probably be less likely to be disappointed if you made sure I had some chewing tobacco.
But, if you ever want to be with me naked, but have a drooling problem, GOOD NEWS! It does not rule you out!
De gustibus non disputandum est
Spitting can be a turn on when "fucking" but not so much when "making love" if that makes any sense. When its just raw, dirty, lusty sex than it can add to the vibe. But if is a romantic, loving, gentle event then it really doesnt fit.
Bang on right!
Spitting can be a turn on when "fucking" but not so much when "making love" if that makes any sense. When its just raw, dirty, lusty sex than it can add to the vibe. But if is a romantic, loving, gentle event then it really doesnt fit.
Although I'm definitely not one to shy away from sex getting a bit messy or sloppy given the right circumstances, I do agree that spitting or the like is often much hotter and more fitting for those spontaneous unbridled encounters.
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