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I hope i'm posting this in the right place. My wife and i are interested in bringing others into our bedroom, in various ways. MMF, MFF, MMFF, etc. I think we are most interested in bringing in another woman to start with. The problem we are running into is that we don't really know anyone in our personal lives that is into it, and we don't really want to just go pick up random people for it. We would prefer it to be people we can hang out with, as well has have the potential for fun in the bedroom. More a friends situation than a one night stand if that makes sense. We feel it will be better that way, being as we are new to this. We want to make sure that all are comfortable.
What i'm trying to find out is where to find someone for things like this. We've checked out several swingers websites, but haven't had much success there yet. Any advice would be appreciated.
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I hope i'm posting this in the right place. My wife and i are interested in bringing others into our bedroom, in various ways. MMF, MFF, MMFF, etc. I think we are most interested in bringing in another woman to start with. The problem we are running into is that we don't really know anyone in our personal lives that is into it, and we don't really want to just go pick up random people for it. We would prefer it to be people we can hang out with, as well has have the potential for fun in the bedroom. More a friends situation than a one night stand if that makes sense. We feel it will be better that way, being as we are new to this. We want to make sure that all are comfortable.
What i'm trying to find out is where to find someone for things like this. We've checked out several swingers websites, but haven't had much success there yet. Any advice would be appreciated.
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I hope i'm posting this in the right place. My wife and i are interested in bringing others into our bedroom, in various ways. MMF, MFF, MMFF, etc. I think we are most interested in bringing in another woman to start with. The problem we are running into is that we don't really know anyone in our personal lives that is into it, and we don't really want to just go pick up random people for it. We would prefer it to be people we can hang out with, as well has have the potential for fun in the bedroom. More a friends situation than a one night stand if that makes sense. We feel it will be better that way, being as we are new to this. We want to make sure that all are comfortable.
What i'm trying to find out is where to find someone for things like this. We've checked out several swingers websites, but haven't had much success there yet. Any advice would be appreciated.
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We have now been married for over 40 years but right after we got married we talked and we found that we both liked the idea of spicing up our sex life by including others. We first went to swingers clubs, it was nice but we mainly had fun ourselves and it was very exciting being on a big bed with lots of others also having sex. We enjoyed the sounds, the smells, the occasional rub and touches with others and then we tried to meet up with other couples but it did not seem to be for us. Then as we liked naturism, sunning and swimming without clothes and we had been regular sauna goers from the start, always to mixed saunas and where the etiquette was that all should be naked, we tried our first holiday in a naturist resort. There is was the first time that we met another nice single man, who also happened to stay at the same resort and it led to our first threesome MMF where my wife gave herself to being lustfully and with total abandon being fucked by two men. I experienced for the first time fucking my wife's cum filled pussy and since then I have been hooked on sloppy seconds.
Right the next day we admitted to each other that after a long search we had found what we really liked. And it was both of us. I did not have any interest in other ladies but I loved seeing my wife getting fucked bareback and filled up by another nice guy. Dick size and alpha male was not so our thing just another nice cock. And since then we have been going on naturist holidays every year at least once and if we can make it more often.
And without fail we have always found a nice gent who seems to like my wife and with whom we can have a nice time and enjoy our favourite pastime. Needless to say that over the years we have made some good friends in these resorts and for the last 20 years we did not have to look as these regular friends were always looking forward to us coming back and enjoying to give my wife yet another exciting and cum-filled holiday experience.
Our advice is to dabble at first and then see what really makes your tick. Our search lead us to this and over the years my wife's pussy has become a very well tended and highly joyfully and regularly used place that has given both of us a very satisfying marital sex life.
Edit: I just realized how old the original post is... I should have checked before hitting send. Well, too late now, I'll leave my answer anyway, it might help someone else...
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I can only agree with anyone who said that giving it a try with a stranger first is probably the best course of action. At least, if you come to realize reality isn't on par with the fantasy, or just that after all it's not for you, then it'll just have been a one-night-stand without any further consequences.
Online options, like swinger sites, can indeed be viable but it'll take some dedication and time from the both of you. From my limited experience of such sites, I can tell that the couples who show up in the chatroom together and very regularly for several weeks will eventually find people to have fun with. If you show up alone most of the time, even if the miss is in the room, but busy doing something else, it'll send the wrong signals to most people. And the more dedicated you are to both showing up around the same time, almost everyday, the faster people will consider you are serious in your search, and possibly be more interested.
Additionally, finding a woman for a FFM threesome can be much harder than the other 2 options... Single guys are easy to find, they'll propose their 'services' as soon as they've seen your wife in cam, whether you want it or not. A couple is still relatively easy if you're going for full-swing straight from the start (if you wanna ease in slowly and go for side-by-side sex first, the search will take much longer)... But single women are much rarer on those sites, and those who are there are in such 'high-demand' that even just getting their attention can be a challenge.
Another option, which might make finding a bi-woman slightly easier, will require your wife to be willing to take a more pro-active approach. Just go together to places where singles hang out in your area, like bars or clubs (bonus points if they are of the 'gay-friendly' kind), and let her approach the single women she finds attractive. If she finds one interested in her, then it'll be time to offer the option of a threesome. Be ready for refusals though. You may have a slightly higher chance if your offer includes the option for just fun with your wife while you'll watch.
Regardless of the option you choose, it will take some time and dedication from the both of you, even if you can find out that what you'll have to dedicate to can boil down to simply 'take the back seat' while your wife hits on other women. And be sure that without your wifens full participation, and her taking the initiative, your chances to find a woman who agrees to have fun with you both is next to zero IMHO.
Just my 2 cents.