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She says our sex life is boring after 19 yrs of marriage. Any tips to spice it up?
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I would agree that you are lucky that she was the one to bring up the subject. She obviously cares about your relationship. Light some candles, pour a glass of wine, tell her how much she means to you and then ask her what you can do to please her.
There is a lot of great advice here already I like this one the most my only advise is try really hard not to make this about trying to get her to have sex with you then. Just let her know you truly love her and will do anything to show her, let her come to you if it looks like that is where the conversation goes. If it doesn’t, just end the conversation with a kiss on her forehead and reassure her again your hers and only hers.
Make sure it is about her needs not yours. You are truly lucky that she reached out to you too often that never happens and then years go by and its hard to get back to where you once were.
BTW someone said earlier that you should wake her up between her legs in the morning I don’t believe this is good advise, boring can be just the only word she could find to open communication.
Just my
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Find another guy, or woman.. or both.. whatever she's into.. She'll be interested in sex again..
Communication is key. I had only ever had sex with two guys and my partner of 17 years and I found our sexlife getting stale. With communication I found out he wanted to see other men touch me and more. I admitted I had a fantasy for men with chest hair. He is hairless. Started slow but as soon as I took my first man in front of him we knew we would dp this to spice it up. Both of us are very happy now .
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Maybe try having sex at a risky place..outdoors.or a parking lot.
Communication is key. I had only ever had sex with two guys and my partner of 17 years and I found our sexlife getting stale. With communication I found out he wanted to see other men touch me and more. I admitted I had a fantasy for men with chest hair. He is hairless. Started slow but as soon as I took my first man in front of him we knew we would dp this to spice it up. Both of us are very happy now .
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Take her out of the bedroom - preferably somewhere outdoors and get naked and get into it. Variety is the spice of life. Comment upon how some of her friends don't look as attractive or as sexy as she does. Tell her she looks nice - even when she is nude.
Don't take her for granted. Some of us like to be flattered occasionally.
Don't take her for granted. Some of us like to be flattered occasionally.