During a Super Hot session this past Friday night, I brought up the topic of sharing her w/ another guy. Something must have triggered, she started Squirting like I've never seen. So now, we are going to a local Swing Club here in New Orleans. Hoping She enjoys herself!! I know I will. Nothing gay or bi btwn the guys, just us 2 giving her ALL the pleasure she can handle.
Sometimes I think it would be hot watching it happen... but then reality kicks in and I can’t see myself feeling good about it post sharing event and then I think about what kind of message I’m sending her that I would let that happen to her. It’s a moot point because she’s not interested and it would never happened logistically but it makes for good fantasy foreplay!
We share as couples only, or a FFM threesome - her choice. She will take both of us guys on if she's in the mood for it, but not often.
When we do share with another couple it is always together, or in the same room, so we can watch and interact with other.
Huge turn-on watching her with another guy. First few times were a little challenging for us though. We stick with our couples group and a pair of single ladies.
During our 50+ year marriage, we had agreed to a list of rules, but both were free to have boyfriends....she would not agree to my watching, nor did she want to watch me..but we did our thing, privately, no judgment, no jealousy, no ridiculing, or attempts at humiliation...worked very, VERY well for us...
My wife and I joined a swinging club back in the 1960's when swinging was in it's infancy. I had this tremendous urge to have multiple orgasms every but my wife just wasn't in for that much sexual contact. The club became my favorite experience. Everyone was there for the same reason...to meet other people who had the same interest. Of course you are going to find people with different levels of intensity for sexual pleasure. I met several girls who just couldn't get enough sex no matter how long or hard you pounded them through the mattress. I was in my realm. My wife went along and enjoyed herself but was quite reserved. The real fun began when you pair off with other couples who are sensitive to group encounters. The level of intimacy rises and it becomes such a turn on watching each other reaching high levels of orgasmic satisfaction. The learning curve skyrockets when we learn from each other just what it takes to satisfy our partners. We would get into demonstrations on just what positions are sought after. It turns out that once you get into having multiple orgasms, different positions become mandatory. We would make up positions just by changing from one to another. In the rotation phase of changing positions it became my favorite time to explore how stimulating it became to have my cock deep inside my partners pussy throughout the rotation. We always seemed to find a different angle to thrust our way into. Once all the superficial nonsense about jealousy, envy, rejection is overcome the experience becomes a lifelong endeavor. Both my wife and I crave being with other people. What it's done for our relationship is just make us closer and more appreciative that we support each others thrills and spills.
Another way of bringing this up with the wife is finding out who her celebrity crush is. My wife gets wet for Jason Statham. So I would ask questions like how big she thinks his dick would be, whether she thinks he would be a passionate lover or use her as a fuck toy. Which way she would prefer it. Would she want to blow him, how good he'd eat her pussy, etc. After some conversation, letting her know that if she ever got the opportunity to bang him, that not only would I be ok with it, but I would expect her to go for it.
The whole idea here is putting the idea of sex with another man out there as a possibility yet in a "probably will never happen" sort of context. In that way, it becomes a "safe" fantasy. You can expand by maybe exploring the same fantasy but with a local celebrity. This further adds the excitement because the possibility is less remote.
Later, if at a club or bar, say something like "if you were here single and determined to get laid tonight, which guy would you pick? (Not me)" "you think he would dick you down good?" Do that over the course of a few evenings out. Then, when you get back home, continue the fantasy of her having picked him up.
I have been shared by my husband for the last four of our 20 year marriage. When we first got into this I told my girlfriend how incredible it is to be shared. She talked to her husband about it and to her surprise he had fantasies about it but never dared to tell her. So they got into it too. Since then we have also done full swap with them.
I think there needs to be wise safety rules in place but if couples try this they are going to love it and in time I really think this will be totally mainstream.
About the only rule my FWB & I have is she wants me to save the last dance for her. When we are with couples or at parties she has a really strong desire to be the last one I have sex with, and I ejaculate with her. At my age I usually just have one cumshot a evening in me, but am fine with edging and dry orgasms with others in the group.
My wife and I have done this many times over the years. I found out early on that she was an exhibitionist. At first I felt feelings of jealousy but after a while it turned to jealousy and excitement. I began to love seeing the effect she had on other guys as she would expose herself. Then one day she exposed her breasts to a guy walking up a street and asked if he would like to touch her breasts. He did and got into our car and we drove to a secluded spot and sucked him off and both of us fucked her on the hood of the car. This started our journey into sharing and we did it many times over the years with both friends and strangers. It still keeps me going thinking about it.
Written many true stories about our adventures, check them out.
I would like to thank everyone for sharing their sharing stories, my bf is in to this and you have provided with information of how to go through with it. He is on the road trucker and he has begged me to make some nasty selfies of me stripping and masturbating in the selfies, love Teri
I drive truck as well and to receive naughty masturbaition pic and stripping pic would be hot he is a lucky man if you do that
It wasn't so much of me sharing her as it was a mutual decision that she should take care of a friend of ours. I let them start then I walked in just to watch, an I loved watching her cum from another lover. We had enjoyed playing with others, MFM, MFMF, FFM, MFMFM , then AIDS came alone and kids became teens so we quit for a while. We would go on vacations and check out people that we though were sexy but only got it on a few times. We were both into watching and loved being watched, even got to the point we would got to gay/les nightclubs and see who would try to pick up one of us. I never had much luck, was hit upon but we just didn't click with any of the guys. One night I was the only guy in this club and this nice gal asked wife why I was there, she told her I was just with her but wasn't looking for anything, she then hit on the wife and while I sat back and drank a few they got hot and heavy just sitting next t each other, never looked under the table but when we left the wife said that was fun.
Shared multiple gf's & 1 wife.
Persuaded multiple women to try 3sums, not one was ever disappointed or regretted the experiences.
My wife and I swapped once many years ago with another married couple. Loved it! I think the sight or her taking his cock in her married pussy and the sound of her errotic moans of pleasure was more of a turn on than it was when I was fucking his wife. I cum so hard every time time I fantasize about it.
I assume you keep telling her how that felt for you.
I/we have been sharing for about 10 years on and off (although not for the past few years as my partner has lost confidence in herself)
We have had some amazing sex with our favourites being two or three guys and her but the best one that we still talk about now is when I blindfolded and tied her to the bed and invited a guy to join us without her knowing
I had her lay on her back wearing holdup a basque and blindfolded using various toys to tease her when the guy turned up, I met him at the door told him to strip outside the bedroom wait a few minutes and just start stroking her gently
She froze for a second and asked what was going on I kissed her and told her to just relax and go with the flow, she did after a minute or so as he was gently sucking on her nipples as I kissed her
We both then were stroking kissing and playing with her pussy before he stood and offered her his cock to suck which she did with great gusto as I went to work licking her now soaking wet pussy she was so turned on
As she Was sucking his cock he leans down to lick her clit as I was licking her she gushed all over my face I then started to ease my cock (it had never been so hard ) into her as he carried on licking her clit
I slid into her completely really slowly, when I was fully inside he sucked her clit she almost bucked off the bed (if it hadn’t have been for the ropes) with a huge orgasm
We then untied her and turned her over onto all fours and I got underneath her to 69 as he slid into her from behind she came again almost immediately
We continued swapping round until he cum all over her arse and I cum on her clit making her cum yet again and we all collapsed in a breathless heap on the bed
We all lay silently for a while when the guy got up kissed her gently and left (that was the arrangement) she still had the blindfold on .
To this day she has no idea what he looked or sounded like
After he left we had another amazing fuck .and still reminisce about it occasionally
