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I have been with my fiance for 3 years and we are looking for some new things to try in the bedroom, but we have hit a block and can't come up with anything. Any suggestions?
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Have the two of you tried making love?
I don't mean wild fucking while rotating on the fan blades or the like, but rather being for each-other emotionally and completely and caring deeply.
I don't mean wild fucking while rotating on the fan blades or the like, but rather being for each-other emotionally and completely and caring deeply.
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yes but when we do go wild we want to have something new to try
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There are hundreds of ways to spice up your sex life, just depends on how open and willing you both are. Does kink interest you? BDSM? Role playing? There are scads of books and videos you can purchase that will give you lots of great ideas - I have a number of them myself and refer to them often when I'm looking for new inspiration. Just looking for general ideas? Take a look at books by Laura Corn http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1/191-0868344-1000667?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=laura+corn. I have used all of her books and they have been a great source of fun over the years.
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There are hundreds of ways to spice up your sex life, just depends on how open and willing you both are. Does kink interest you? BDSM? Role playing? There are scads of books and videos you can purchase that will give you lots of great ideas - I have a number of them myself and refer to them often when I'm looking for new inspiration. Just looking for general ideas? Take a look at books by Laura Corn http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1/191-0868344-1000667?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=laura+corn. I have used all of her books and they have been a great source of fun over the years.
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each of you write down a bunch of sexual acts you want to try, don't show each other. Then pick a night where you will one act she had put down, wether that be a location or a position, or an outfit, what ever and you do it for her. then on another night she does the same for you. Then as you do them cross them off the list.
We do this all the time and it has been amazing more then a few times.
Note. it helps to know your partners bounderies, and limitations. Writing down anal sex when you know she is dead against it will end badly. it also helps to keep a very open mind about everything.
We do this all the time and it has been amazing more then a few times.
Note. it helps to know your partners bounderies, and limitations. Writing down anal sex when you know she is dead against it will end badly. it also helps to keep a very open mind about everything.
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What have you tried and what things have each of you enjoyed the most?
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I have been with my fiance for 3 years and we are looking for some new things to try in the bedroom, but we have hit a block and can't come up with anything. Any suggestions?
Would be helpful to know what you have already done or tried. And of the things you've tried, which did you like more and which did you like less?
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try light bondage requires trust on both sides and maybe learn things about each other you didnt know
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I would recommend anal subbuteo
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I'd suggest actively researching new ideas together. I can't believe you've tried them all
Active Ink Slinger
try looking into different fetishes, like feet/ foot play for example.
try them out, and if you like them, continue with them.
just remember to always play safe, and with rougher stuff use pre-set guidelines and safe words/ gestures.
another suggestion would be to add a 3rd party.
try them out, and if you like them, continue with them.
just remember to always play safe, and with rougher stuff use pre-set guidelines and safe words/ gestures.
another suggestion would be to add a 3rd party.
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Your on one of the worlds greatest research devices why not use it and then see what comes up.
Active Ink Slinger
A picture book helped my girl and I a lot.
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Have you ever had your ass licked, or licked your guy's ass?
Yes do this. you will not regret it.
Active Ink Slinger
strip clubs, sexy lingerie or a weekend away to a place you don't know anyone and act like a couple that are the opposite of how you are in your real life, let your freak flags fly
You could try doing it while riding a motorcycle. But it has to be a Harley because they vibrate much more than any other bike. I have a lady friend who tried this one time (she claims it was with Reggie Jackson) and said it was a fantastic experience. The guy rides the bike normally and the gal straddles him facing him. If the gal is wearing a skirt nobody can actually see that she is getting fucked although I presume they might be able to figure it out.
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Take turns dripping candle wax upon each others starfish.
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Be relax just enjoy the moment. You can search new ideas on net.
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The list is endless, but it all depends on what you have tried so far. Have you had sex in every possible place in your home? If threesomes or group sex and bisexuality are not up for consideration, I would suggest to start:
Anal on you or him (strapon)
I particularly like fucking a woman in the ass who's on her back, while fistfucking her vagina (great feeling for you, very empowering for him).
Toys
Outdoors - nature or semi-public (just don't get caught).
Masturbation, either mutual or watching each other do it, with or without the nastiest dirty talk you can muster (which is awesome no matter what you do).
Couples "happy ending" sensual massage - more like using surrogates than inviting other people into your bed.
Bondage, S & M if you can get into that sort of thing.
Fantasy role play / cosplay
Sex in front of mirrors
Food - inserting items, WHIPPED CREAM!
Full body baby oil on a plastic sheet is AWESOME!
Frottage
I agree with Kylie_Kained: search through the stories - you'll find many things to try. Also, make note of activities you find in porn - don't just go with standard fare, check out categories that are unfamiliar to you.
Good luck, and stay naughty!
Anal on you or him (strapon)
I particularly like fucking a woman in the ass who's on her back, while fistfucking her vagina (great feeling for you, very empowering for him).
Toys
Outdoors - nature or semi-public (just don't get caught).
Masturbation, either mutual or watching each other do it, with or without the nastiest dirty talk you can muster (which is awesome no matter what you do).
Couples "happy ending" sensual massage - more like using surrogates than inviting other people into your bed.
Bondage, S & M if you can get into that sort of thing.
Fantasy role play / cosplay
Sex in front of mirrors
Food - inserting items, WHIPPED CREAM!
Full body baby oil on a plastic sheet is AWESOME!
Frottage
I agree with Kylie_Kained: search through the stories - you'll find many things to try. Also, make note of activities you find in porn - don't just go with standard fare, check out categories that are unfamiliar to you.
Good luck, and stay naughty!
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The list is endless, but it all depends on what you have tried so far. Have you had sex in every possible place in your home? If threesomes or group sex and bisexuality are not up for consideration, I would suggest to start:
Anal on you or him (strapon)
I particularly like fucking a woman in the ass who's on her back, while fistfucking her vagina (great feeling for you, very empowering for him).
Toys
Outdoors - nature or semi-public (just don't get caught).
Masturbation, either mutual or watching each other do it, with or without the nastiest dirty talk you can muster (which is awesome no matter what you do).
Couples "happy ending" sensual massage - more like using surrogates than inviting other people into your bed.
Bondage, S & M if you can get into that sort of thing.
Fantasy role play / cosplay
Sex in front of mirrors
Food - inserting items, WHIPPED CREAM!
Full body baby oil on a plastic sheet is AWESOME!
Frottage
I agree with Kylie_Kained: search through the stories - you'll find many things to try. Also, make note of activities you find in porn - don't just go with standard fare, check out categories that are unfamiliar to you.
Good luck, and stay naughty!
Can I just say that your account name is very appropriate since ignoring the post above yours, which offers nothing, the post prior to that is close to 4 years old. Lol.
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Can I just say that your account name is very appropriate since ignoring the post above yours, which offers nothing, the post prior to that is close to 4 years old. Lol.
How incredibly thoughtful of you to scour these four year old posts and volunteer your opinion (which is, after all, what these posts are for), apparently for the sole purpose of insulting a stranger.
I would have expected better from most people, but especially from a moderator.
Everybody has their own boat to row, and I still wish you good luck in your own endeavors.