Yes MM has been very erotic for us. Knowing that we cannot touch eachother but being able to see and talk naughty as we each slowly heated our bodies it a great treat. And each time we have done it we always have cleanup and round two
My wife likes to watch me stroke my cock to orgasm and gets VERY wet on the process, but sadly won't return the favour for me. She claims it does nothing for her when she does it and prefers me to do it to her. It's a bit frustrating sometimes.
Tried it with a girlfriend once. Turned out it was as erotic for both of us as washing the dishes together. We both just couldn't let go and get into it, I guess.
Maybe it's just me, but why? I want her, not my hand. I'll take her hand any day over mine. She would rather lube my dick and give me a nude lap dance than finger her cunt herself. She know the mutual benefit of what I will do for her will feel better and she will probably have a stronger orgasm. We masturbate, but not together.
It's a great way to learn what your partner likes. Ultimately, you want to be together but there are so many wonderful things to do. it's a great addition to foreplay. Watching someone bring themselves to climax is very sexy.
Absolutely, Snowflake. It appeals to the voyeur, the safety conscious, but is also really erotic
Done it a number of times, & enjoyed it. For some reason my partners at the time were not seriously committed to it and regarded it as foreplay. The on exception was a lady who was trying Tantric sex with me.
If it's mutual shouldn't feel awkward. It's super hot imo.
Deeply sexy. Surprisingly intimate too, showing someone something so personal and private.
My wife was raised very catholic and a lot of sexual stuff was sort of "bad". I have been married to her for 15 years and living with her for many more than that.
Over the years I "loosened" her up. I got her to masturbate while we were having sex. I got her to let me video tape us having sex and her sucking my cock. Although most were done under the influence of alcohol at the time.
So just a few months ago I wanted to video tape me sliding in and out of her and she objected. I didn't get mad but upset. She asked me why I was so upset. I explained to her that wouldn't she rather have me jack off to a video of her and I than me watching porn on the internet? She understood and she let me film me slide in and out snd squirt cum inside her until it oozed out. I got down and licked it up. She was okay with that.
Done it for a few months with my friend (girl) while still at the university. I casually stepped over at her place to talk and found her computer had a porn in a minimised browser window. I asked about it and she got really stressed out, so I just hit play and started casually commenting after watching like 3 or 4 movies for fun we relaxed and each of us started a little solo on their own. After that we made it a habit and were meeting like once or twice a week for next few months
Very much a turn on for me.
It's very fun and a great way to break things up.
Have seen a bit of it done in group sex. The few times I participated it turned from MM to coitus, blow jobs & other partnered sex very quickly.
Super hot with the right person. It's a great way to add variety to a sex life.
Kissing your lips while straddling your lap.
I've done this with a partner many times and it's super hot if there's no touching but they cum alllll over me... I've also done it with non-partners, which feels even naughtier!
My first girlfriend was a conservative Christian and wouldn't give it up. She would, however, let me watch her rub one one out while I jerked it. Ever since then it's a must in my relationships. Her legs spread open, finger a blur, staring lustily in your eye... so hot!
Not awkward at all if everyone is enjoying it.
Very hot. Great foreplay. Sometimes, I masturbate while she shares a fantasy, and visa versa. Plus you get to observe and learn your partner's preferred technique.
I think it's hot, I always do that with my partner. Usually, my partner will apply a womanizer to stimulate my clit, which really makes me excited. And play his cock just like with a toy.
In the current isolation situation it’s a very pleasurable way of interacting with a lover.
Hot, my wife and I do it often.
I thought most couples did this. Sometimes we watch porn together with some nice manual action. (Amateur porn mostly. The professional stuff gets boring).
my wife and I have been married for 25 years and we've never done this. I never suggested it because she does not masturbate.
mutual masturbation sounds really hot though! even giving each other a hand-job wood be hot.
and she gets to give me a blowjob which really turns her on 
... I know...it sucks to be me 
