How can I as chubby woman do better while on top?
I don't get the picture
Can you please type out in words here?
Sweetie, if you are a little heavy it might be easier on the man under you if you did most of the fucking, that is, humping him, rather than him trying to hump up into you. And he will love watching those great tits jiggling above his face. He won't be able to keep his hands off.
My guy is not that kinky but I still want to improvise sex while atop of him
That's such a broad question, it's hard to say. Chances are, you're better at whatever you want to be better at already than you think. There's usually nothing practice won't cure as long as you're open to trying new things. Also, look things up. The internet is a powerful tool, and there's a lot already written on the subject. If you're looking for a more personal touch to the information though, feel free to get a little more specific with your question and I'm sure somebody on lush will give you a helpful answer.
Tell me how specific can I be?
Because I want to improvise my sex skills while on top
After cringing at what DD said and trying not to think of such horror.
Does your man know how you feel? Is he willing to help by working with you?
Maybe it's best if he holds it and once you've slide down on him just grind on him and just lift your hips only a bit. At least at first until your use to being on top. Take it slow. There is nothing wrong with that, right?
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For me, I don't mind but for my partner he isn't that kinky
usually what feels best to you will feel good to him.
reverse cowgirl (riding him in reverse) can be fun and creates a good view for your man. also, i like being in a position where i can grab the head board for some leverage if you like fucking with some force.