How much is too much sex?

5 Sep 2012

I seem to be running across this problem a lot. I've had 2 boyfriends break up with me, and 3 fuck buddies leave giving the same reason of "You want it too much." after they had told me they had a high sex drive. I know it's not me, I'm tight and taste good (I have tasted myself after masturbating) and I have high energy. I don't pressure them to do anything they don't want to do. So I just want to know, how much is too much sex?

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5 Sep 2012

When it's causing injury, exhaustion or unhappiness.

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5 Sep 2012

Quote by 1ball
When it's causing injury, exhaustion or unhappiness.

Or the loss of your job, family and favorite pet!

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5 Sep 2012

I'm with you Surgicalscars - been there. Men always say they can handle me but at the end of the day, most truly can't. Shame really. Personally, I don't think you can ever have too much sex keeping in mind that sex can include a whole host of other lovely and lucious things, not just straight cock-in-pussy. Having said that, the only time I might think it's an issue is when sex become more mechanical rather than an emotional connection, at least that is true for me. My desire to engage in such activities as often as I like to is completely fuelled by my desire to be fully and completely connected with my partner and not just a means to having an orgasm.

5 Sep 2012

Quote by Dudealicious

Or the loss of your job, family and favorite pet!

Good points. In a broad sense of the word, injury covers those, but they deserve special mention.

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5 Sep 2012

My boyfriend and I are having a similiar problem... He thinks I'm horny too much... I blame it on the fact that I'm a virgin.

6 Sep 2012

Quote by BelleduJour
I'm with you Surgicalscars - been there. Men always say they can handle me but at the end of the day, most truly can't. Shame really. Personally, I don't think you can ever have too much sex keeping in mind that sex can include a whole host of other lovely and lucious things, not just straight cock-in-pussy. Having said that, the only time I might think it's an issue is when sex become more mechanical rather than an emotional connection, at least that is true for me. My desire to engage in such activities as often as I like to is completely fuelled by my desire to be fully and completely connected with my partner and not just a means to having an orgasm.

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6 Sep 2012

Quote by BelleduJour
My desire to engage in such activities as often as I like to is completely fuelled by my desire to be fully and completely connected with my partner and not just a means to having an orgasm.

I don't think it's healthy to be 'completely connected' too often, like the expression 'joined at the hip'. Guys are often more introverted than women and spending too much time together, even good quality time, can be emotionally draining. Women sometimes use guys as a crutch because they don't have other interests to fill their time with. Sometimes they take it personally when a guy doesn't want to be with them 24/7 and that's really not fair to someone who needs to spend time in his own head pursuing other interests. One of the reasons many guys appreciate 'independence' in a woman is so they can have the time they need apart from their SO. This is just my 2 cents, but that might be part of this 'too much sex' issue. It might not be too much sex, it might be too little freedom.

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6 Sep 2012

When it becomes an addiction that begins to invade your life and possibly the lives of those around you.

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6 Sep 2012

I agree with most of what everyone has said above with the exception of a few points. I am crazy independent, I don't like it when guys try to spoil me with stuff or pay for dinner (dutch is my style). My last fuck buddy, we lived about 10 miles from each other, but sometimes we wouldn't talk for days or see each other for weeks because of work and it was nice because it was very casual and that's how all of my relationships are - very casual, I'm 19 I don't need to be getting in too deep into anything. When we have sex is there an emotional connection - I think so. I don't pick up guys because where I live, guys don't like me as anything more than a friend usually, so I have a friend set us up and it makes the sex better because we have stuff in common other than a sexual attraction to one another. I encourage my guys to go and have a night out on the town, pick up some other girls if he wants - I could care less so long as he's safe about it, and I get to hear all the kinky detail about it later.

Could it be that I'm not attached enough? Guys think that I only want sex and nothing else?

9 Sep 2012

Wow, i can't believe anyone would leave you over that. If that is you in the avatar, you look great.

Anyways, I personally need release at least once per day. So is there such a thing as too much sex, I don't believe so.

Even if I can't cum anymore in any particular day, I am always upto being fondled. That would also not stop me from licking your pussy crazy.

10 Sep 2012

Quote by PookieBooski
My boyfriend and I are having a similiar problem... He thinks I'm horny too much... I blame it on the fact that I'm a virgin.

1 way of proving him wrong is to give him ur virginity then he'll no thats not reason why .lol

11 Sep 2012

One of my friend used to tell me, his girl friend is always wants sex for long time as she elder than my friend. Usually girls have high sexual feelings than boys. So he is not able to escort her.

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11 Sep 2012

When my balls are empty and my cock has been snapped off.

20 Oct 2012

I actually do think there is such a thing as to much sex.

I say this only if. You're not use to it, and don't keep yourself healthy enough to maintain such a lifestyle..

I remember a few years ago. I was dating my ex boyfriend at the time. We had been together nearly a year. He lived at home and his parents were away for a trip. So he invited me over for the week. We were fucking like rabbits. Crazy unreal sex all the time. About the third day in. I started having really bad pains in my stomach. It hurt so bad. My legs and inner thighs hurt too. But it was mostly my stomach. I didn't think it was from having sex so we kept at it for two more days. Finally I called my mom. {Whom I am extremely close with, we keep no secrets.} and ask her what is possibly wrong. We go over food first, which is obvious with a stomach thing. We finally get to sex and I told her we had been having a lot of it. She told me to lay low. I'm over doing it. That my stomach was full of cum. We didn't stop fully just went to once a day! lol Luckily that has never happen again.

20 Oct 2012

I think as long as the desire and ability remains, too much can only apply when it it adversely affects your life like any other addiction.

20 Oct 2012

When you start bleeding out of your eyes.

21 Oct 2012

When the friction burns are unbearable.

21 Oct 2012

Honestly, I don't think there ever could be to much sex. smile

At the same time I think that there are times where us women get dried out and need to stop because of friction. :/

21 Oct 2012

Quote by kyliekained
When the friction burns are unbearable.

You laugh, but I had a friend hospitalized over rug burn.

It's to much when your partner says stop.

21 Oct 2012

When it ceases to be enjoyable for both parties, I guess. And that includes physical discomforts and injuries, of course.

23 Oct 2012

Quote by Surgicalscars
I seem to be running across this problem a lot. I've had 2 boyfriends break up with me, and 3 fuck buddies leave giving the same reason of "You want it too much." after they had told me they had a high sex drive. I know it's not me, I'm tight and taste good (I have tasted myself after masturbating) and I have high energy. I don't pressure them to do anything they don't want to do. So I just want to know, how much is too much sex?

your expectations are too much so I think any Individual doesn't satisfy you. Every men have a certain limit of sex they can't be with you for more than a hour. If a single hour still doesn't satisfy you then instead of looking for men you need to buy the sex toys it will help to get your satisfaction level.

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23 Oct 2012

how many times a day....i had sex for 12 hours and i could have gone for more....but everyday like that..i mean..who has the time??

maybe the problem is not your sexual appetite but YOUR demand for constant attention which is different

is sex your crack?

i am so not slamming you...as the other lovely lushies have said..is it an addiction?

but if you can work all day come home and cook and clean take care of kids and still fuck for hours

i am SURE sure u will have MILLIONS of guys after you

if u just go to school and have hours to kill....is this boredom or..addiction

i agree with the toy thing..plus u gotta love that the batteries are ..replaceable unlike...true...love

i hope u find a guy who can keep up with you..everyone should have a sexual partner that matches....them

good luck sweetie

23 Oct 2012

I didnt know there was such a thing as too much sex

23 Oct 2012

No such this is to much!

23 Oct 2012

Quote by BelleduJour
I'm with you Surgicalscars - been there. Men always say they can handle me but at the end of the day, most truly can't. Shame really.

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Quote by BelleduJour
..........sex can include a whole host of other lovely and lucious things, not just straight cock-in-pussy.

Uhhh oh there's more? ... .(Just being annoying)

I don't feel there's too much sex, but just as foods, some prefer a quick burger most of the time. Some prefer more quality foods. Some like different spices. I feel it's so difficult to establish a standard as the latitude it's very ample. Just because your past lover were not to par, it could also be that somehow they really never satisfied you. That's why you felt that you never had enough. Maybe combined with the quantity (if you were getting a lot), you need also more quality.

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23 Oct 2012

When your dick becomes chapped,raw,&red. Then it's time to eat pussy-(see licking pussy thread).

23 Oct 2012

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pictures still speak the most universally understood language.

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25 Nov 2013

Quote by 1ball

I don't think it's healthy to be 'completely connected' too often, like the expression 'joined at the hip'. Guys are often more introverted than women and spending too much time together, even good quality time, can be emotionally draining. Women sometimes use guys as a crutch because they don't have other interests to fill their time with. Sometimes they take it personally when a guy doesn't want to be with them 24/7 and that's really not fair to someone who needs to spend time in his own head pursuing other interests. One of the reasons many guys appreciate 'independence' in a woman is so they can have the time they need apart from their SO. This is just my 2 cents, but that might be part of this 'too much sex' issue. It might not be too much sex, it might be too little freedom.

I have no idea how you got this from reading my post. The 'completely connected' I was referring to was an emotional connection NOT a physical one. I have absolutely NO desire to be joined at the hip with anyone, least of all any man that I'm in a relationship with. That sounds more like something I might have wanted/done when I was a teenager in high school but definitely not something I crave at this age - I have my own beautiful life to live, thank you very much. I think having separate interests and friends and A LIFE outside of your own relationship is not only healthy but critical to a happy and fulfilling relationship.

Emotional connection is something completely different.

25 Nov 2013

Quote by BelleduJour

I have no idea how you got this from reading my post. The 'completely connected' I was referring to was an emotional connection NOT a physical one. I have absolutely NO desire to be joined at the hip with anyone, least of all any man that I'm in a relationship with. That sounds more like something I might have wanted/done when I was a teenager in high school but definitely not something I crave at this age - I have my own beautiful life to live, thank you very much. I think having separate interests and friends and A LIFE outside of your own relationship is not only healthy but critical to a happy and fulfilling relationship.

Emotional connection is something completely different.

That was a quick resonse, 14 months!! Have you been dredging or applying the Lazarus technique to the forums. I thought I hadn't seen this before.
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