I know for a fact that early on, I needed to last longer. I would get too excited and let the feeling overwhelm me often. Once I married, having sex with just her, I began to develop my endurance. The biggest thing was learning about what she needed from it. When cock rings first came out, they really were only to help him maintain a longer erection. Then they started making them thick enough to bump her clit. Now we have had some marathon sessions, but once I began to wear one of these every time, it seemed to bring our orgasms together as I could stay up longer and she was being sort of forced to cum faster. Not that she complained. It seemed that it put more quality into our love making. When I would forget to put it on, she would make me pull out and get it!
a little less ego - a lot more compassion will fix your problem.
Until he wakes up. Now hush, and hit the snooze button.
A gentleman should be able to last until her second or third orgasam
A man needn't worry about such things. He should just keep at it until I tell him I've had enough.
It depends entirely on the woman he is with, and whether he can cum multiple times. I cum rather quickly and easily, but a lot of women don't. When we were swinging with new and different couples, it seemed like some of the guys were trying to prove how much endurance they had before cumming the first time. During a three-hour session, guys would stay in me but not cum, and after about an hour, I was getting dry and sore. If they cum 3 or 4 times, and we rest until he can get it up again, I'm good for a whole evening cuz I stay well-lubricated. Guys who take forever to ejaculate drive me crazy!
These topics are in the archives for a reason....
Who in their right mind would ask such a question?
We are all different - obviously after of reading of Beffers experience. I could not bear him to be there that long as the experience would be excrusiating for me.
I like the guys to stay until I have cum. After that they can have me for up to about 15/20 minutes to take their pleasure from me and possibly have me cum again. After that its "times up."
Average for me is anywhere from 20 mins to an hour, there's alot of determining factors.
Until the alarm goes off!
“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”
As long as it takes to make HER cum!
I struggle with a similar issue where endurance is something that isn't working in my favor. If I could finish sooner each time, I think she would be more inclined. So I decided to make a couple changes in my life. I stopped watching porn. I read stories and stuff on here to get excited but I don't stimulate myself. I also try to abstain by not initiating sexy time as often, kinda like reclaiming my virginity. If she initiates, I'll still take care of her though. Cock rings also work well.
You can possibly turn this into a couple's game. Rules are you can't touch yourself ever for pleasure. It's her dick to use, you're just keeping it warm until she needs it. On the other hand, she can touch it as she pleases and if she doesn't get you off but only teases you, oh fucking well, you still don't get to take care of it yourself. She would have to be an absolute tease to really make it work. Like dressing sexy and if you touch her, she says sternly "no." She would be trying to keep you hard all the time until she finally makes you please her. By that time, you may have the opposite problem. Then it's kind of a learning thing where she deprives you of orgasm until she feels your endurance is a match to hers. It'll drive you nuts but the release will be intense.
Until he needs to get up for a pee.
Until his partner is completely satisfied.(learn how to delay his orgasm.)
Only as long as it takes her to orgasm.
bitch i can sleep til noon if you let me.
As long as it takes for her to have at least 2-3 orgasms
So many factors that need to be taken into consideration. However I would say between 2 and 5 minutes.
