Does mom cheat on dad?

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0 likes 15 Feb 2021

Hello everyone.
I apologize in advance, I understand that this issue is not really my business, but it worries me very much. I would be glad to any advice and opinion.

My mother is a beautiful woman in her 40s. She looks much younger than her age, goes in for sports. Dad is almost 12 years older than her, works a lot and supports our family. Their relationship has always seemed perfect to me. I was sure that we are a happy family. However, some time ago, I accidentally discovered some pornographic videos in her computer's browser history. They were all in interracial theme. In all the videos, black guys fucked white women (and not always alone).

And last month, while cleaning our house (my parents were leaving for the Christmas holidays with relatives), I found a box in my mother's closet. It contained three dildos. And they were all black. One of them was very large, about 10 inches. The rest were smaller.

Help please, how should I understand this? I'm at a loss and don't know what to think. I understand that it is not good to get into someone else's personal life, but this is my dear person! Of course, I'm not going to do rash acts and accuse someone of something. I just want to know the truth. Tell me what can I do?
Please do not judge me. I'm really nervous about this and just want to figure it out.
I would be glad to any of your advice.

Tristan

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0 likes 15 Feb 2021

A couple thoughts:

All you have here is evidence of Mom indulging a fantasy. BBC porn and dildoes does not an affair make (unless your father is really strict about things). So probably not something to stir the pot over.

And for all you know, you father is good with this. Gives her an outlet and maybe he gets off on her doing it. Maybe they even have an open marriage thing going. So, again, not something to stir the pot over without having more information.

Really, unless you uncover hard evidence she is fooling around, you're going down a risky path by continuing to investigate. Maybe let it sit for a while and see what else comes up. This could all be part of your parents' regular sex life and you've just stumbled on to it.

Tristan99

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0 likes 16 Feb 2021

Quote by seeker4
A couple thoughts:

All you have here is evidence of Mom indulging a fantasy. BBC porn and dildoes does not an affair make (unless your father is really strict about things). So probably not something to stir the pot over.

And for all you know, you father is good with this. Gives her an outlet and maybe he gets off on her doing it. Maybe they even have an open marriage thing going. So, again, not something to stir the pot over without having more information.

Really, unless you uncover hard evidence she is fooling around, you're going down a risky path by continuing to investigate. Maybe let it sit for a while and see what else comes up. This could all be part of your parents' regular sex life and you've just stumbled on to it.

Okay thank your sir for your help. But there are some other things I didn't mention because I was too nervous. Mom has a gym buddy, muscle handsome guy in his 30s. And he's black. So it's a reason of my suspicion. It is possible that her fantasies are not so unreal. So I'm worried. But I understand your main message: I must not make hasty decisions. I won't, I just want to sort out this whole situation.

Ls63563

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1 like 15 Apr 2021

I have to wonder why you think this is any of your business!

Wifewantsmore3

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0 likes 13 Aug 2021

I think it depends, but dildos come in all sizes and colors, so that’s really proof of nothing. Everyone enjoys masturbating, which doesn’t mean infidelity. And finally, your parents may have an arrangement tacit or specific, so that if there was infidelity it wouldn’t end in divorce. Best wishes.

Elyzzabeth

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1 like 31 Aug 2021

Mine did, which may be the reason why they now live on opposite sides of the country. Dad has a new wife, Mom enjoys boyfriends