I have a bit of experience with this. My 1st husband was 19 years older than me. It wasn't our age difference that was the problem, it was his desire to change me, & his cheating that did us in. My 2nd husband was 9 years older than me. As with the first husband, it wasn't an age issue that caused our demise, but his drug use and cheating ass.
My current husband is almost 2 years younger than me, and we've never been happier. He doesn't do drugs, he doesn't cheat, he doesn't try to change me, and we respect each other. To me, age has always been just a number. It's about the relationship the two people share. It is harder for couples with an age gap as so many don't understand. But here's the thing... a good man is a good man, a cheating bastard is a cheating bastard. Doesn't really matter how old or young. Any man that expects a woman to change to what he THINKS he wants is doomed. Any woman who thinks she's going to change her man to what she THINKS she wants is equally doomed. My husband & I have accepted our differences, we respect each other, and learned from one another what works & what doesn't. We've even discovered new things that the other liked that we like.
The key is communication. I wish you luck in your relationship.
I don't think age should really matter at all. Your attracted to who you are attracked too, no one should have a problem with anyones age. Hey as long as the relationship/sex is consensual then the only person it should matter to is you or your paretner. Love certainly is not goverened by age, or race, or relegion of polotics or anything else. You fall in love with the person not their age. I usually have gone for girls younger than myself and yet I lost my lesbian virginity to someone older and my current partner/ on off type thing is a lot older than me and yet the time we do spend together is great.
My wife is 9 years older than I, but it doesn't show in sex...
Age difference should not be a problem. My first woman was 52 to my 14. We were together till i was 19. Now i've had my fair share of older & younger woman. My wife is 4 yrs older than me but she has been told she looks in her early 30's instead of being 45.
Trust me age doesn't matter one bit. It's all a state of mind, imagination and craativity.
Age is unimportant; however, maturity is. Although I tend to stick with girls around my age, I would love to have an relationship with a much older woman.
don't know. would have to have the situation of a younger man present it self...lol..
my self I love younger men and women
Have been in relationships with younger by 8-10 years an older 8-17 years had no real difference. It's just a number.
i'm 21 and my wife is 28 we have our fights and she thinks I care about our age but I don't love is love just like lust is lust it doesn't know there is a age issue there so why think about it then
Sex: yes
relationship: maybe
who really cares about age I'm 19 and my first woman was 33
no age doesn't matter if you love someone
I believe the rule of thumb is half your age plus 7. But then again, tell that the Gregg Allman. I'd say for most people that's a good rule though
And I've only begun fucking with you people.
At the end of the day, it's all math.
I think maturity outweighs age. Someone may be older (or younger) but if they act more in line with what you are looking for that is important.
Always looking to have fun. Never a challenge too big or a woman too damn sexy for me to try!
there are so many other issues that are more important, trust, loyalty, respect, humor etc
Age is merely a figure...so know I don't think that age matters...
I prefer my men to be about the same age. Apart from working off a cab fare when I was 16 with a guy about 40, I have never been attracted by older men.
My guess would be say 5 years older would be my limit - but he would have to be very attractive in more ways than one.
.......age has no boundaries and can be so so rewarding as long as you are fit ,and experience can be a major plus
"Maturity" is not just defined by age alone. I like "maturity".
age really isn't an issue for me, i do like much older men more than younger, it really depends on the man
does it matter? as long as that ideal person knows how to look after him/herself, there shouldnt be any issues
any age i think is acceptable as long as the love is genuine you know . real love holds no boundaries
I don't think age matters. If you both attracted to each other then thats what matters.
No, I have fucked some old women when I was young 65 year ols was one of the best. Now that I'm old can't find any old women to fuck. Most I know are dead, so get all the pussy you can before they die. Old girls are goof fucking guys!
I'm only as old as the girl I feel
