Heya everyone!
So as the title says, I have difficulty cumming from blowjobs. My partners always have given me pleasurable oral experiences, but I've only cum like twice ever! Is this normal? Any ways I can increase my capacity to cum from oral?
Thanks!
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Difficulty Cumming from Blowjobs
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Testing The Waters.
Certainly not typical. If you have any difficulty getting off with woman on top positions, then it's probably got to do with you being angle sensitive. The on-top is the positive, because a woman can ride you until she's out of breath, limp, and quivering from multiple back-to-back orgasms. The blowjob thing is the negative, because you end up with blue balls quite frequently when she gets upset because she can't get you off. If you're anything like me, you probably do your best to try to skip past it every time someone new wants to slob the knob, in order to avoid that.
Don't even bother with any standing, sitting, or anything like that. Prone, with her coming at it looking down toward your feet, where Mr. Happy is as close to the natural angle he wants to stand at as possible. It's less visually stimulating, because you only see the back of her head for the most part, and alien/uncomfortable for many women, but that angle is probably going to be what turns the trick for you.
The couple of times you've gotten off, it's probably been because of a position like that, a lot of hand action with the blowjob, or a woman who has that special skill to keep her lips locked without a hint of a leak for the critical amount of time necessary to get you rising toward the point of no-return. Once you hit a certain point, the angle sensitivity seems to take a back seat to inevitability — provided she's not trying to pull back on it while going down on you. So hitting that bar beforehand ( only you can figure out the signals ) can make most any technique she prefers lead to a successful finish. Best practiced with someone you're already comfortable having sex with. Even then, you're probably going to experience her getting frustrated once in a while. If a woman knows she's got the skills, and they ain't working on you, it's difficult for her to accept that in the heat of the moment.
Steer those first time partners away from blowjobs and toward riding you if this sounds familiar.
Don't even bother with any standing, sitting, or anything like that. Prone, with her coming at it looking down toward your feet, where Mr. Happy is as close to the natural angle he wants to stand at as possible. It's less visually stimulating, because you only see the back of her head for the most part, and alien/uncomfortable for many women, but that angle is probably going to be what turns the trick for you.
The couple of times you've gotten off, it's probably been because of a position like that, a lot of hand action with the blowjob, or a woman who has that special skill to keep her lips locked without a hint of a leak for the critical amount of time necessary to get you rising toward the point of no-return. Once you hit a certain point, the angle sensitivity seems to take a back seat to inevitability — provided she's not trying to pull back on it while going down on you. So hitting that bar beforehand ( only you can figure out the signals ) can make most any technique she prefers lead to a successful finish. Best practiced with someone you're already comfortable having sex with. Even then, you're probably going to experience her getting frustrated once in a while. If a woman knows she's got the skills, and they ain't working on you, it's difficult for her to accept that in the heat of the moment.
Steer those first time partners away from blowjobs and toward riding you if this sounds familiar.
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Heya everyone!
So as the title says, I have difficulty cumming from blowjobs. My partners always have given me pleasurable oral experiences, but I've only cum like twice ever! Is this normal? Any ways I can increase my capacity to cum from oral?
Thanks!
Why is this a problem? Look at the BJ as a warm up, then finish how ever feels best.
If God/Mother nature made mouths feel better to a cock than vagina, then no one would procreate.
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Nothing wrong with continuing to try!
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Have you tried with lots of eye contact? Something like this might work 
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Or this, which is even better:
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* 29 Editor's Picks, 74 Recommended Reads.
* 15 competition podium places, 10 other times in the top ten.
* 21 collaborations.
* A whole heap of often filthy, tense, hot sex.