I often enjoy cybering on Lush. I have met a few people on here and become quite 'close'. We have talked about what we would do if we did actually meet and what we are doing to ourselves. I find it very erotic and such a turn on. But again, it is down to personal preference, I get more turned on knowing I am turning my partner on!
I think there has to be a connection first to be able to enjoy someone else..
I have cybered and have enjoyed it but at the same time I've cybered and just pretended to cum for the guy as it did nothing for me but I didn't want to leave that person hanging if they were really enjoying it.
There was this one guy, not on here, who persuaded me somehow to do a cam cyber with him but we had been talking for weeks before he got me to do it. He also let me watch his cam and it was pretty hot and enjoyable.
I never show my face though on cam as to me that's just too much. If I guy starts out by asking me to cam straight off I usually ignore and tell them my cam isn't working. They disappear quickly usually after that.
Doing it with someone that you have gotten to know over a period of time is fun but sometimes you meet the right person at the right time and things just click in that moment and it can't be replicated... that magic of the moment!
In the most I like have a chat and be silly with the few people I'd consider a friend on here, there aren't really that many and it seems to be a numbers game for some on here!
i think cyber sex with someone you have gotten to know first is really fun. i know that there are a few people on lush that i know better then my own friend. i would definately cyber with some of them.
I'm fixated to a fault, so for me I would have to focus on that one person as I interact with the person I do sex chat with. As long as I think of him, then I'm fine.
I've never tried it and I can't really see the point. I have a mental block to people knowing when I'm masturbating and I also think it would cross the cheating line.
On top of that, I type too slowly and habitually precisely and I can only imagine how much slower and more distracting it would be to type one-handed.
I would enjoy knowing that anyone (F or M) got off on one of my stories. That would not cross the cheating line because the stories aren't targeted at a specific person.
Cyber? Done it a few times to pass the time . Now and then find someone who has a good mind and can put ideas into words. Some have even shared a few great pictures to add to the moment.
Most who want to cyber with me are not very good at getting the mental concept down so its boring. Always looking for the one or two to chat with and see if any magic ideas come up.
It works well with the right person. There are a few people I've met that are amazing, and others that aren't so good. For me, it has to be the right person, if not, there's just no connection.
I can't get into it very much over the computer, it gets exciting but not enough to play w/myself. I prefer a warm body beside me or over the phone isn't too bad either with the right person, I had my first orgasm like that about a week ago, I haven't had an orgasm in years, it was nice.
I had never had cyber sex before I joined Lush but I do enjoy it. I usually make sure that I at least know what the guy looks like first by swapping pics with him, but I find the experience intense but then I have a very vivid imagination.
Having said that there are times that I am typing stuff that I am not actually doing (or feeling)
The only time I enjoy cyber is when I'm writing a fantasy live for someone else. I don't really even want them to try to do anything but let me know what they like. Much like a live poetry reading, a live fantasy can be great.
I agree that nothing replaces the real thing, however, in my humble experience, a good cyber chat with the RIGHT man can and does do it for me. It's all about having a connection with someone. I can't and don't engage in such activities with any random dude who pops in for a private chat...soooo lame :P
I'm extremely selective about who I friend and especially who I chat with (even more so this time around) so I'm pretty confident that the men I have on my list are men I have come to know and trust through many great discussions both nice and naughty - engaging with them if/when appropriate, knowing the person on the other end, can and does do it for me.
Cyber sex is highly erotic. But like everyone else has said, you can't just pick someone and chat. There has to be a connection. And that is rare. I also like to know what the person really looks like. Give me something real to imagine. I still have fingers left over if I count on one hand who I will chat with. Not everyone is good at it, and most are not. The only way for me is if given the chance I would really meet the person, it isn't about what happens here, it is about what you want to happen out there.
cyber sex is like telling a story, and then cuming.
I originally thought we were just typing. But, then I looked down and saw a nice boner poking against my belly button and decided that I was experiencing something new. Seeing her thoughts seconds after she typed them just makes my cock twitch. Crazy huh?
Words are sexy, words are amazing and if you have the right person (as stated above) and a good imagination then it can be good, great or amazing. To me it's a way to express what i'm thinking. To put what i want to do into words and to please somebody is what i enjoy. For me i can enjoy it, it's def not a substitute for the real thing but the teasing and just interacting with another is fun.
No one can make you jealous, angry, vengeful, or greedy -unless you let him.
- Napoleon Hill
It bores me to tears. Like you, sometimes when talking about real life experiences, or just talking with a woman online who openly becomes curious about me sexually, or just telling me about her sexuality, I have become aroused to the point where I end up with it jutting up out of my opened pants like a fence post. But just as you said, making up a scenario and verbally narrating it to each other.... yeah... silly is a good word for how I feel doing that.
I have done my share of cybering (chat, not role playing, as I am not really into that) since coming here, starting exclusively with men, more recently just with women. I have had some very bad cyber and some very good cyber. The best ones were with people I formed some sort of emotional connection with. I just it found it more stimulating than masturbating on my own. However, I got on the phone with one person, and that was amazing. So much better than online typing. To be able to hear the other person's breathing increase, the excitement in their voice as they become aroused, the moaning and grunting as they cum......, well that makes it soooo much better. But I would not consider that unless it was with someone I already had a connection to.
The next step of course would be using a cam. I can't say, but I assume that if it was someone I felt a connection to, it would increase the pleasure of the experience even further. Neither phone nor cam is something I would ever do with a stranger. Or even with some I only occasionally cyber chatted with just for fun.
I personally really don't get all that much from cybering.. I do however cyber. Not for sexual reasons but because I am a role player and I like to o it for the role play aspect of it. With the right person"s" it can be fun. I have tried with a few people and it hasn't turned me on. Some can slightly turn me on but I don't touch myself or want to touch myself from it. I also like doing it because it helps my writing for some odd reason. I rather voice if I play online. But straight up cyber chatting does nothing for me.. Though even voicing with some people can be boring. lol I would sadly know!
Or maybe that is why I toss and turn all night like I'm in heat and full of passion?
