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Can you "Learn" to squirt?

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OK, gonna add my bit here. I always wondered about it, though I have been told it happens and given some techniques for making it happen. I recently saw a live demonstration of it and saw the woman squirt a good 12-15 ft. I myself had never squirted and doubted I could or ever would. I was at a talk last weekend given by Nina Hartley who is a former porn star. She mentioned a particular toy that she described as "The...... best...... toy....... EVER". It is the metal one shown below. I had just purchased a similar toy in glass, also shown below. The first time I used it, within about 5-7 minutes, I gushed enough to soak through a triple layer of towels. No squirting involved, but definitely a gush. I have used it several times since and have had the same reaction each time. Quite amazing and something I never expected, particularly at this point in my life!




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I would say yes. I'd never done it but then I tried a few things suggested and bam - amazing! I recently purchase the glass g-spot toy two posts up and can't wait to give it a trial run!
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it's encouraging to find so many women did find their top pleasures. looking forward for my beautiful..
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My second wife started being able to squirt when she'd get on top after she had our son. She'd just flood me when she came. But it just started to happen-she didn't really learn to do it.

My current girl-if I stimulate her g-spot with my finger when I'm licking her clit, she really likes it, moans and carries on, but so far hasn't squirted
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I successfully squirt every time I use my new N'Joy Pure Wand. My story "Soaking wet Christmas" tells all the fateful day I got it and changed my life. YES, i believe any woman can squirt.
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From my TRY THIS thread on LIT:

THE TECHNIQUE

Quick Backgrounder

The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphines (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.

Basic Technique ideas:

#1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.

#2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded.

At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.
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I have lost control having multiple orgasms when using a Sybian. I thought I had pissed myself, and I believe I did.
I have never had what I would call a squirt. In the videos of girls squirting it always looks like they are pissing to me. I could not cum and I believe squirt with that much force.
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I can't quite get there. Like someone above mentioned, I can gush and totally soak the bed, but I can't actually squirt. A couple girls have tried to teach me, but it eludes me somehow, even though I have mind-blowing orgasms.
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Quote by Meggsy
I have lost control having multiple orgasms when using a Sybian. I thought I had pissed myself, and I believe I did.
I have never had what I would call a squirt. In the videos of girls squirting it always looks like they are pissing to me. I could not cum and I believe squirt with that much force.


Hey Meggsy, haven't had the pleasure of a Sybian, but I agree with you on the peeing.

I believe when I'm having an extremely powerful orgasm, more pelvic muscles come into play. The increased pressure on my bladder seems to make me do a little "squirt".
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I had never realized I could squirt until I was drunk and with a new partner several years ago. Maybe it was my lack of inhibition on that night coupled with his know how, but I squirted for the first time. He kept telling me to relax because it really does feel like you are going to pee....and once I did and let him keep going that feeling went away immediately followed by the most intense orgasm of my life up until then. He just kept going and I just kept going until I was literally rubbed raw. He was incredibly rough and vigorous and fast. There was nothing gentle about his technique.

After that, I recognized the sensation and can squirt with less stimulation. You have to relax and let yourself go but simultaneously focus and bear down. It's a pushing reflex instead of the normal pulling in feeling.

And the fluid is just slightly slippery and sweeter. I just read somewhere that it has recently been proven that female ejaculate does contain small amounts of urine too.
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only did it once and it was completely unexpected.
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Some women, I'm not sure all, can certainly learn to do it. Like so many things it's that first time that is the most difficult. After that you know what the feels are.
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I had never realized I could squirt until I was drunk and with a new partner several years ago. Maybe it was my lack of inhibition on that night coupled with his know how, but I squirted for the first time. He kept telling me to relax because it really does feel like you are going to pee....and once I did and let him keep going that feeling went away immediately followed by the most intense orgasm of my life up until then. He just kept going and I just kept going until I was literally rubbed raw. He was incredibly rough and vigorous and fast. There was nothing gentle about his technique.

After that, I recognized the sensation and can squirt with less stimulation. You have to relax and let yourself go but simultaneously focus and bear down. It's a pushing reflex instead of the normal pulling in feeling.

And the fluid is just slightly slippery and sweeter. I just read somewhere that it has recently been proven that female ejaculate does contain small amounts of urine too.



The best explanation I have ever read on this subject, thank you for the post
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The best explanation I have ever read on this subject, thank you for the post


I never expected a thank you for this post. But, you are ever so welcome!
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From a mans prospective squirting is hard for a woman to achieve.

I.habe had several womem in my time and have only managed to make 3 of them.squirt.

One would just squirt as soon as i would touch her g spot she was beyond, we eould have to chanhe the bed daily until.she found dog training pads i know not thr most romantic but helps when you squirt like she did.

The 2nd one would only squirt when i.went down on her and i would have a facefull of juices several times bit was a nice experience, damn i miss her lol.

The 3rd one just happened to.squirt when i put 2 fingers deep insode her and then thumbed her clit, just kept going till she couldnt take no more and it was a small squirt but a squirt never the less.
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I don't SELL anything. I SHARE. I stumbled on this a cpl yrs before my wife died and we had a TON of fun with it.

A couple of quick points. From almost all accounts "squirting" does NOT enhance the actual orgasm. It often feeling like emptying your bladder when it's full but if you pee before you start this then you'll BOTH KNOW that what is coming out is NOT urine. Not saying that never happens but a woman with good bladder control is NOT peeing when she's orgasming. Other points .... some women do and some don't. If you can get her G-Gasming over and over again like this technique teaches then consider yourself lucky she is NOT squirting too. That can be a real bummer after a while ... no more spontaneous sex because once she starts she will do it almost every time and some women if they are worked up for a while can extinguish a raging California brush fire!!

Good luck and I hope it works for ya'll

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