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Best tips when giving a guy head?

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willingone
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OMG, I want to feel one of your blow jobs.

Quote by BethanyFrasier
First, you have to LOVE having his cock in your mouth! Then get past your gag-reflex. Dani's advice is good! Relax! Breathe! Get used to having his head squeezed down your throat because he loves that! Encourage him to tell you what he likes if you can't see it in his reactions. Now... here's MY trick... everyone thrusts in and out, but try holding him most of the way in your mouth and keeping him there while thrusting just your tongue vigorously down and up the ridge on his shaft just below the head. That's usually their most sensitive spot. You usually need to hold down an uncut guy while you suck, but I've found a lot of circumcised guys find a hand around the base of their cock a distraction from what you're doing with your mouth, so I just use my mouth on his cock. ALWAYS let him cum in your mouth, and every good girl swallows!
Callisto
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I'll be checking this thread periodically.. Just saying
Guest
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Careful with the teeth!
Unknown User
Do it long, do it hard but most important of all, DO IT OFTEN!!!
curvygalore
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Quote by Meggsy
Do what you feel happy with, experiment and see how he reacts. Look into his eyes as you have him in your mouth. Ask him what he wants you to do.
Finally let him finish in your mouth and swallow. Thats the most important bit.


All this!! To recap; communication, relaxation and eye contact. A man seeing the sheer lust in your eyes all the way to the finish is a clincher.
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Quote by 1LovelyKinkyKitsune
Do it with all your heart... all you have got... and get into it.

Ohhh there are all kinds of specifics, tricks, techniques, and personal styles you can mix up but it is not something mechanical and what one person likes best, someone else may like more of something else~ etc. You have to know how to gauge response and be instinctive in what that person likes -men in general too, yes, but there are more ways to seduce and excite with giving oral (don't listen to some of these people! lol -others maybe) but I will not share my secrets as I like how and what I have always been told in response to my fellactio.

LOVE what you are doing that is something I will say.

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Well said!
That's the only advice she has to know I guess smile
westtxrunner
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Whether I'm giving or receiving, it comes down to eye contact and lubrication, typically the wetter the better ha been my experience.
alison90
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I have found the main trick is to maintain the rhythm. You can jncrease the force and pace when you feel he is getting close but whatever you do, don't stop or you will almost have to start again. That leads to some very sore jaw muscles for you! Trust me on this.
ZigDust
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Quote by dpw

Don't use your hands other than to hold it with a thumb and a couple of fingers, more is cheating!


Can't say I agree with you there my friend. I like her to wrap her hand around the lower part of my shaft and kind of slowly jerk me while she takes the rest in her mouth. Not for the entire time, I do want her to mix it up a bit and run her mouth and tongue up and down my shaft as well. But the idea that "more is cheating" is a personal preference.

And speaking to personal preference, the fast-tongue-flick on the under side of my head has never done much for me. I guess lots of other guys love it, because more than a couple of women have tried it on me. I find it more distracting than pleasurable.
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First, as you've undoubtedly seen in the preceding posts...there are NO steadfast rules. We are ALL individuals with individual preferences, just as you ladies are. ASK the individual guy IF he prefers... Some LOVE deep throat...not me, a knob job is great and more enjoyable for me. (You have OTHER places I can "go deep"!) The glans (head) and corona are the MOST sensitive part anyway! SO concentrate MOST of your efforts there. Hold it, don't hold it, I don't care but it seems to me it would be easier for you if you do. Cradling my balls gently (and licking the under side of them for a while every so often) are another fantastic way to ...turn ME on. My last "thing" is while I LOVE licking while I'm being sucked off....PLEASE STOP when I start to cum, at least not on the head ( the front of the corona is fine but NOT the head!) WHY? For the same reason that many of you prefer indirect stimulation of your clit to direct stimulation, it's too sensitive (at that time) and is more productive of pain than pleasure. Locking your lips tightly around the shaft and milking my nuts dry will draw a LOONG satisfied moan of "OH YES DO IT!" from me. Swallowing? I LOVE IT and I DO NOT want to cum on your tits or in mid air! Oh and as to "eye contact" ok not a big deal to me, I'd rather you focus on just giving me pleasure and let my dick tell you itself how well you're doing. ( YES, being a normal visually oriented male, I DO enjoy SEEING your pretty face wrapped around it, but you don't need to get eye strain looking at me! LOL)
AmyL1231
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I dont have a whole lot of experience giving head, only on like six or seven men in my life but i have been told I'm good at it and just last night my boyfriend said i gave him the best blow job hes ever had.
I like to start slow, touching through his pants and boxers will get him nice and hard and he'll be wanting to feel your hand on his cock really bad. Instead of going straight in for it i usual play with the waistband of his boxers, or pull them down just below the tip of his dick. Ill trace little circles with my thumb around the tip and massage his inner thigh. When i finally do take his boxers off ill continue to tease him with soft strokes and little kisses up and down his shaft. Then ill finally let him have it and grab his dick firmly, my boyfriend usually responds to this well. I guess its all about the built up and then when you finally give it to him give it to him good.
When it comes to actually sucking him off the biggest mistake is to get stuck doing the same thing over and over. Use your tongue, lips and hands and really explore every part of him. His thighs, balls, taint, shaft and tip are all super sensitive because hes so horny. Sometimes i even use my teeth to nibble at the tip of his dick. When your trying to really suck hard i find that curling my lips in helps my mouth seem tighter around his dick.
My boyfriend has told me many times he loves it when i use my hand just as much as my mouth. So like to lap at the tip of his dick with my tongue (this will also help lubricate if u spit on him a little) and rub him with my hands. I personally love licking and nibbling on his balls, they're always really sensitive and when I feel hes really being pleasured ill massage them while sucking on his cock, this drives him crazy!
hope some of these tips helped!
pandadreams
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Quote by AmyL1231
I like to start slow, touching through his pants and boxers will get him nice and hard and he'll be wanting to feel your hand on his cock really bad. Instead of going straight in for it i usual play with the waistband of his boxers, or pull them down just below the tip of his dick. Ill trace little circles with my thumb around the tip and massage his inner thigh. When i finally do take his boxers off ill continue to tease him with soft strokes and little kisses up and down his shaft. Then ill finally let him have it and grab his dick firmly, my boyfriend usually responds to this well. I guess its all about the built up and then when you finally give it to him give it to him good.
When it comes to actually sucking him off the biggest mistake is to get stuck doing the same thing over and over. Use your tongue, lips and hands and really explore every part of him. His thighs, balls, taint, shaft and tip are all super sensitive because hes so horny. Sometimes i even use my teeth to nibble at the tip of his dick. When your trying to really suck hard i find that curling my lips in helps my mouth seem tighter around his dick.
My boyfriend has told me many times he loves it when i use my hand just as much as my mouth. So like to lap at the tip of his dick with my tongue (this will also help lubricate if u spit on him a little) and rub him with my hands. I personally love licking and nibbling on his balls, they're always really sensitive and when I feel hes really being pleasured ill massage them while sucking on his cock, this drives him crazy!
hope some of these tips helped!


"Hope some of these tips helped!"

Oh yes!
So horny after reading this lol

One day Amy please write this up into a story
xx
Saintz
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Use your mouth and hands. Don't keep a steady rythm, I can even go flaccid when a girl does that for too long.
Don't just suck but also lick.
Don't forget the balls.

And most of all... do it with passion! Make him fel like there's nothing in the world you'd rather do than suck his cock!
Butterfly4629
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Use you're throat muscles. I deep throat all the time and when I do I contract my throat muscles and give added pleasure. It does help if you really enjoy it. Don't overthink it and treat it like your favorite popcicle. I always like to make sure I have a nice lipstick on so my guy an see my lips clearly wrapped around his cock. I will confess I had a best gay guy friend in college and he let me practice and gave tips. I love the gays and you can learn so much from them about sexuality.
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personally this is my favourite act - I would say take your time, enjoy it and do not rush it. Use your tongue, it's magical. Use your lips up and down his length and eye contact is all important. not all guys like the same things so communication is all important, his moans and groans will also be a good indication of what he finds pleasing. - practise makes perfect! ;)
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Eye contact, concentrate on the underside of his shaft, one hand below his tummy, use your back not your neck, mix up hand strokes with mouth depth. Most guys seem to love bright lipstick when you go down on him. Hold back a little when he begins to fuck, letting him know that for now you want to be responsible for his pleasure, though at the end let him have at it. Oh and eye contact smile
Cinner
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Oh, damn....what Kris said!! Definitely eye contact!
Frank
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Seriously, play with the balls first.
Mouth, nails and fingers.
Kiss, suck, scratch and massage.
Tease and play before even touching the cock.
The shaft should then be stroked.
Experience the throbbing member.
Tease around the head of the cock, just under the helmet.
Then continue, using your tongue, lips, mouth and throat.
Feel his balls as you give head.
Tease around the perineum, once in while as a change to your repertoire.
Yes, not just a blow job, but a throat fuck!
Feel the hot spunk building up ready to shoot.
Let him rip as you are in full flow.
Take all his load.
Swallow all that hot creamy spunk.
I am used to a pro.

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Eye contact as much as possible, if you don't enjoy doing it don't do it. Let him fuck you in the mouth and sometimes grate your teeth over his cock. Enjoy it as much as he does. Personally, I love the feeling when his cock jerks in my mouth as he cums. I swallow because I like it. Especially, I like the taste of his pre cum. I have never known a man to refuse to kiss me after sucking his cock, and the guys I know have told me I'm good at it.
facsuper
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Just Do It
A jug of wine, a loaf of bread, and thee.
vc79
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Things that work best for me:
1. Varying techniques and rhythm. Suck it for a while, then flick your tongue up and down the underside of the shaft, press your pretty face to it, tease it with your eyelashes, then suck again, and so on and on, and on...
2. Take your time. You can't do it TOO long.
3. Let me see you doing it, don't act timid. No, you DON'T look silly with that thing in your mouth. You look adorable!
4. Show me how much you enjoy it (and I know you do smile) Just let loose and be my cock-hungry slut for a while. I remember one morning as I was leaving for work you frivolously whispered into my ear: "I want your cock in my mouth and at least three of your fingers in my pussy tonight". I was feeling like a sex-crazed teenager the whole day, and of course the night was unforgettable!

Things I don't really insist on:
1. Eye contact. It's kind of nice but not imperative. I love watching you suck me (see #3 above) but I think I'd better look you in the eye while cuddling you after you finish.
2. Deep-throating. It's great to feel the full length of my cock in your mouth. But it's OK if you only do it as an occasional treat, really. Because, firstly, I don't want you to feel uncomforbable struggling with that gag reflex; and, secondly, the entrance to the throat doesn't feel as soft and pleasant as your lips and tongue.
3. Using your hands a lot. Some guys like a blowjob combined with a handjob. But I really prefer your mouth doing most of the work, with the hands only assisting.
4. Swallowing. After I come, the last thing I'm interested in is what you do with the jizz. You can swallow it or spread it all over your tits for all I care. If you just spit it into a tissue, I don't take it as a sign of disrespect or lack of love. Some people don't like olives or chocolate milk, you don't like cum - it's okay! :)

Some more tips for girls:
1. Long nails may look great but be careful with them while handling a penis.
2. Using your teeth is hardly a good idea, especially on the head.
3. Kissing, licking and massaging the balls will most likely be appreciated, but please don't apply too much pressure, because they are very sensitive. At some point, as the man's arousal builds up, you will see/feel the skin down there gather up and become kind of firmer. That's when you can play with the balls more vigorously.
4. Make sure you don't squeeze the penis too hard when the guy is coming. Because if you press on that duct on the underside and thus interfere with the flow of the cum, it feels awful and it can ruin even a great blowjob.
softbear
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Be enthusiastic and make it clear nothing else matter while you're doing it smile
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Get The Money first.

xx SF
HappyEndings
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There's a lot of great advice here on this thread. Every man has his favorite things and many men cum very quickly and are easy to please.

Men that have had a lot of sex with different partners tend to take longer and some a LOT longer to bring to orgasm.

If he think's you are tired of it and about to give up it might very well spoil it for him and he will likely have a hard time cumming.

My favorite is lots of foreplay and then she starts just playing with my cock and balls for awhile. When it becomes obvious that I'm really turned on and about to explode, that's the time to go for it with a good rhythm and a firm grip or hard suck.

If you stop during that time it might be harder to bring me to orgasm the next time(s).

Some women don't seem to understand the male's orgasm progression and some seem to have it down to a science. Experience is probably the best teacher. If you really want to learn to be very good at it ask a prostitute to teach you.

I've heard that gay men are the best but I have very limited experience in that category so really couldn't say.

I am hoping to meet with a Lush woman this week and she seems to be pretty experienced but I won't know until we get naked and start working on each other.

Enthusiasm is probably the single best attribute a blow job giver can have and if you truly enjoy it I think that men will pick up on that and it will be great for them as a result of that.

Life is good. Sex is better. Sex with an experienced partner that is focused on making you happy is the ultimate.

Just one man's opinion.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
BiLouis
Advanced Wordsmith
Just do it, and enjoy. Don't make it complicated than that.
Buz
The Linebacker
My suggestion is to make him his favorite sandwich, turn the TV to his favorite sport, sit him in a nice comfortable chair, bring him the sandwich along with an ice cold beer. Then get on your knees in front of him and give him the blow job of his life while he enjoys the sandwich and watches TV. Make sure to lick his balls, deep throat him, stroke and suck him and if you're feeling extra generous give him a rusty trombone. Let him finish all over your face and tell him how awesome he is.

He'll never forget it!
simplyjohn
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Quote by Buz
My suggestion is to make him his favorite sandwich, turn the TV to his favorite sport, sit him in a nice comfortable chair, bring him the sandwich along with an ice cold beer. Then get on your knees in front of him and give him the blow job of his life while he enjoys the sandwich and watches TV. Make sure to lick his balls, deep throat him, stroke and suck him and if you're feeling extra generous give him a rusty trombone. Let him finish all over your face and tell him how awesome he is.

He'll never forget it!



lol ... change the sandwich to steak and chips and the TV channel to NCIS and I am up for that too!