Hi guys! I'm looking for the male opinions here on the best kind of lube! I'm in a straight monogamous relationship where we don't use condoms (I'm on birth control) and I'm looking for something to try as a surprise for my sexy guy. We'd be using it for vaginal sex and oral sex and hand jobs, not anal. Suggestions? Thanks!
xx,
JJ
Right there. Oh yeah baby. Right there.
I reckon Astroglide is reliable. Water based and doesn't go all sticky and tacky and dry like most other water based lubes. For oral, it's odourless and tasteless.
We tried the KY "Yours & Mine". Seemed to work for wifey although do not expect the 'Wow' factor the commercials claim.
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KY works the best for the wife and I
Been receiving anal since I was 15, so 10 years now, and I have never used once, after a few times you get used to it.
Silicon based lubes, and there are several. Try them and you'll never go back. They stay slick, stay in place, don't get all gummy, don't encourage yeast infections, and are body inert. Biggest problem is that they don't wash/wipe off as easily as the water-based kind and you may be slick until you shower, but that can be a good thing. Silicone lubes are also the only way to go for underwater play. I haven't noticed a smell or a taste to the one I have either. It's more expensive but good sex is worth it.
Stay away from any lube with glycerin since they can cause problems with your parts. I'm also leery of the tingly stuff and wonder what the hell I'm putting on/in our parts. I get plenty of sensation from the sex without needing the extra but that's just me.
Note: I'm not recommending any brand since there are several and they come in various viscosities so find a good sex store that will let you feel a few different ones or buy some of the little pillow-packs to find one that feels right to you. If you want to send me a message, I can look up the one I have (well the one I like of the ones I have); I really don't remember the brand and don't use it all that often, preferring 'au naturel' most of the time.
Yesterday I saw a friend of mine walking like he had a carrot stuck up his ass. Asked him why he was walking like a duck and said he got a nasty rash from oily siliconey based lube. He kindly offered to show me but I gratefully refused.
So watch out for irritation from oil based lubrication applications.
id glide millineum is the best that i have tried. you can get a cpl fre samples from their website. i've tried analeze, astroglide, ky, ky warming, and various others but none as good and natural feeling as id glide. also.... try anal. just relax. it's awesome and will make you feel naughty. he will love it.
I bought some called "Climax" today. Has anyone heard of it or used it?
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Natural lube is the best!
I also like the silicone based lubes. A bit more expensive, but worth it, in my opinion. Wet Platinum seems to work well.
I've used the Wet Platinum too. It was really nice.
Just stay away from any lube with spermicide (such as Nonoxynol-9) in it. That can really irritate people.
Really? What did you use it for?
Wet Platinum! That's the one I was thinking of.....
Yes, spermicide is hard on your delicate tissues. I was told Nonoxydil-9 was detergent. Mmmm, sounds like a great idea to rub on your wet folds, huh?
I think au naturel is the unanimous winner, but there was never really a contest there, was there? I thought the question was more to do with what to do when that's not an option (just not working or using a non-lubricating orfice). The natural stuff tastes the best too. ;) The only place the artificial stuff has a chance is in the underwater arts.
