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As my name states not getting any head
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She did give it sometimes never regulary. I dont asked for it much ,never during sex . In the mean time i almost always go down on her . i love exploring every part of her body . i even make her squirt but see seems reluctant to do any more then put her hands on me wile we have sex. its getting old, i feel exhausted putting everything into it with not much in return
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Hmm hard for me to wrap my brain around this one since I'm a HUGE fan of blow jobs myself. Have you had a serious discussion with her about it? Not just when you're trying to shove your cock in her mouth? Honestly, sex is a two-way-street and if she loves you or cares about you, you should be able to share with her how you really feel and if she's worth her weight in gold, she will hear you and make an effort to at least meet you half way. If not, you'll have to ask yourself this question - if this is as good as it will ever get, is it good enough? If it is, then you'll have to stop wishing for it to be different. If it's not, then you'll have to make a difficult decision. Just my two cents. Hope it helps you in some small way. Good luck hun xo
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She did give it sometimes never regulary. I dont asked for it much ,never during sex . In the mean time i almost always go down on her . i love exploring every part of her body . i even make her squirt but see seems reluctant to do any more then put her hands on me wile we have sex. its getting old, i feel exhausted putting everything into it with not much in return
This is the same here. I did talk to her and she said she gets a cramp in her jaw. But it's ok when I spend hours licking, sucking and probing her with my tongue and lips. ( Many nights with cramps in both my jaw and tongue.) Now she has cut out all sex, says she doesn't like her body. What am I to do?
This is the same here. I did talk to her and she said she gets a cramp in her jaw. But it's ok when I spend hours licking, sucking and probing her with my tongue and lips. ( Many nights with cramps in both my jaw and tongue.) Now she has cut out all sex, says she doesn't like her body. What am I to do?
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Now she has cut out all sex, says she doesn't like her body. What am I to do?
If you want to stay with her, ask her to get counseling. Low libido is a sign of clinical depression. If she says no, ask her if you can get some on the side. Being expected to go without, in the absence of a medical reason is a sign she wants out of the relationship, but lacks the strength to make it her choice.
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well seems i am not alone 
. As of now were just strait sex ,i wont go down on her or any other stimulation . i cant seem to do it ,maybe i am just headstrong . She asked for a quickie its lube up an over in a few . So frustrating she seems fine with it . If it keeps up i will consider leaving or a little something on the side
. As of now were just strait sex ,i wont go down on her or any other stimulation . i cant seem to do it ,maybe i am just headstrong . She asked for a quickie its lube up an over in a few . So frustrating she seems fine with it . If it keeps up i will consider leaving or a little something on the side 
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I love it now but previous BF was too rough so maybe she has had a bad experience
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Quote by nohead
i wont go down on her or any other stimulation
and yet you want head? or because she won't give you head? If you won't do anything for her, you don't deserve anything. If she won't do anything for you, she doesn't deserve anything.
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Nohead, I do feel sorry for you. Why? Well, you gave up something you claim you LOVE doing.
She's not keen on giving head, she doesn't like it. You love going down on her, you said so yourself and then you stop?
For her to go down on you, you must find a way for her to enjoy it. Give her encouragement when she's touching your cock with her hands. Moan, or tell her how great her hands feel against your cock.
Make her be in the centre of what she's doing to you.
Lets hope this isn't the problem but how am I to know..
How clean is your cock?
Shower once a week
Shower every other day
Shower every day
Apart from showering how often do you clean your cock:
Once a week
Once a day
After peeing
after sex
Do you get sweaty balls?
Do you clean your balls as often as your cock?
Sex shouldn't be about giving or receiving favours. She's your girlfriend, not a prostitute.
She's not keen on giving head, she doesn't like it. You love going down on her, you said so yourself and then you stop?
For her to go down on you, you must find a way for her to enjoy it. Give her encouragement when she's touching your cock with her hands. Moan, or tell her how great her hands feel against your cock.
Make her be in the centre of what she's doing to you.
Lets hope this isn't the problem but how am I to know..
How clean is your cock?
Shower once a week
Shower every other day
Shower every day
Apart from showering how often do you clean your cock:
Once a week
Once a day
After peeing
after sex
Do you get sweaty balls?
Do you clean your balls as often as your cock?
Sex shouldn't be about giving or receiving favours. She's your girlfriend, not a prostitute.
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Quote by nohead
I don't have sweaty balls lol. i shower every day.
Another question for you then, do you man-scape and make sure your tool and the boys are cleanly shaven (and inviting) for her?
Let me tell you, most women don't like to have to pull pubes from their mouth as they are going down on a guy. Never mind the fact that pubic hair is a breeding ground for bacteria (which also causes odor).
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sure am . not completely shaven . neatly trimmed around the top an shaved below.
Shave the boys! A trim is like a fart in a wind storm, no one will notice!
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Shave the boys! A trim is like a fart in a wind storm, no one will notice!
Agree. First time my wife saw me (on our first date
) I was shaved smooth all over. Her jaw hit the floor, and wide-eyed she exclaimed, "Oh my God that's fucking hot!" Besides that, there's plenty of good advice here already. Best of luck to you and her.
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I am not sure why any chick wouldn't want to give head. I am a big fan and believer of it but there are somethings I require. The first and most obvious is Him being clean! Second off, I know it's not something He has a choice in. But my man has to be circumsized. That is a very big deal to me. Such a turn off.. Then of course I like a man who keeps Himself clean shaven down there. Trimmed is okay but I rather it be smooth as mine is. I am picky I suppose. But I know how much I love giving head, that it is worth it! All men should get head! Silly girls who refuse it.. :3