I'm getting all moist thinking about it
I love anal sex, feels so different......
I started experimenting in the shower with just my finger, but then I found a dildo and some lube. It went in nicely and felt fantastic! I turned the vibrator on and it felt even more incredible. I can't wait to feel a hard, hot cock inside me!
Very experienced with anal...we both love it. I found when I was just beginning, that it was easier on my back. Something to do with the angle. It's a position I've seen two guys use. These days I love anal with me on top, controlling the action but basically it's always part of our sexual activity. We are swingers and the one thing I don't do is anal at parties etc. in case the guy doesn't know what he's doing. Also it can be messy in someone's lounge room..lol
" I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer"
Woody Allen
This is a copy of a post I made at literotica.
We had very satisfactory vaginal and oral sex for years and then my SO decided she wanted to try anal sex. It turned out to be her favorite flavor of sex, and mine, and it's been about half of our sex life ever since. We've also explored pegging and anal toys and I've experimented with prostate stimulators. The change has definitely broadened our sex life and made it even more pleasurable.
I'll make a few posts here describing our anal sex life in more detail. I'd really like to know other people's experience, especially women who have a strong positive reaction like my SO's. I'm amazed at the strength of her orgasms (and how her anus clenches during them!); I never expected anything like that.
Cleanliness: I realize the discussion of cleanliness is jarring and disrupts the erotic mood. I'll just get this out of the way and not refer to it down the pike. We try to be as clean as we can. We use condoms and finger cots (little one-finger condoms) and always keep clean towels handy. When I'm playing with my own ass I sometimes prep with a disposable enema (replacing the fluid it contains with tepid tap water); it usually takes two or three applications to get clean. (Playing in the shower is an alternative.) How my SO preps is a mystery I'm not privy to; whatever she does seems to work well. We also use plenty of lube.
Some sex-toy websites have faqs and other collections of useful information about anal sex (and other topics). See Literotica's site, Babeland, etc.
This is a copy of a post I made at literotica.
Accessing anal sex has had a number of positive effects on our sex life. For one thing we're much more abandoned with each other during sex. We touch each other everywhere - no off-limits zones - and freely play with ourselves in front of the other. We fantasize freely about group encounters and homosexual contacts; much less tiptoeing around our real desires. In the past I would never have considered MMF sex with a homosexual component (his cock in my ass, for example) but now that I know it excites my SO I'd consider anything. We buy sex toys. We do pegging. I dress her up in clothes that excite me. We watch online MMF anal porn like
I feel free to play with my own ass. I've discovered I enjoy things like butt plugs and prostate stimulators. They don't get me off but they're exciting and pleasurable. I feel free to use them openly (it's just the two of us at home).
We also feel freer about initiating sex. Sometimes I'll find her in her panties reading anal text porn and stroking her labia with a long index finger; she knows that makes me nuts. Sometimes I'll approach her from the rear and start kissing her neck and running my hands down between her butt cheeks and over her anus and pussy, knowing that it a little while she'll start pushing back against my roving hands.
If we ever have a threesome or a foursome it will be because of the liberating effects of anal sex.
This is a copy of a post I made at literotica.
This is what anal sex is like for us. I've recorded all this because (a) it's fun for me and (b) it might help people with some ideas.
We spend a fair bit of time building up to an anal encounter; any quickies we have are strictly pussy and mouth. My SO puts on some see-through panties and a light top, and lies in bed for a while reading some MM or MMF anal porn. Stories of male butt-fucking really lights her fire and what lights her fire, lights mine. Sometimes she'll play with her pussy by rubbing the outside of her panties. More often I'll play with her pussy and her ass through the panties, sliding my fingers lightly back and forth from one to the other, occasionally slipping under her panties into her cunt. She'll often tell me about the action in the porn she's reading. describing what especially excites her. I keep stroking her pussy and her anus, and playing with her lovely breasts, until she eventually starts pushing against my roving finger and making little gasps while she's talking. All through this I'm getting rock-hard. I love the feeling that I can do whatever I want with her.
Eventually I can't stand it any more and I'll drag her panties off and pull her to the edge of the bed, usually ass up. I'll lick her pussy for a while and then slowly, slowly slip in. I try to make this take as long as I can (but I'm only human). When I'm partway in I slip a finger into her ass. I love to feel my cock through her inner wall and it starts to shift our focus to her anus, though the position is a little awkward. Often she keeps talking to me about what she's reading. We have vaginal sex for a while: it's great in itself and it helps loosen her up. I love to pump in and out of her pussy but it's a challenge not to lose it at this early stage. By this point she's having some trouble reading.
I withdraw from her holes and we slide a large dildo into her pussy. It's one that stays in well by itself, no hands needed. I don't just stick it in; I spend some time fucking her with it and enjoying how her hips lift up to receive it. I tell her our story about DP and how what she feels is another man's cock in her pussy. I ask her what she wants in her ass and she says my cock. She's really not ready at this point so I slip a vibrator into her ass and fuck it slowly in and out. (I really get off on doing this.) I'm not unusually large but her ass is pretty tight and we have to pay attention to opening her up. Using a butt plug beforehand works, too, but we usually go with the vibrator.
When we reach the point where she's freely fucking the vibrator back with her anus, we're ready for the main event. I (slowly) pull the vibrator out and get ready to enter her ass. It's important to be as erect as possible because it takes a fair bit of pressure on your cock. It's also important to pay close attention to targeting: even a stretched anus is pretty small and you'll often have your hands full of butt cheek. She can help but you'll have to do most of the grabbing yourself. Going in is <AWESOME>. Do it as slowly as you possibly can. The entrance is so tight that you'll want to prolong the moment you slip past her sphincter ring. It's much different from pussy sex: in addition to the opening, it's tight and hot the whole way. Just writing about this is making me hard.
By this point my SO has taken a vibrator to her pussy and is starting to lose it. I have to grip her really hard so I can stroke: she pushes back constantly to get more cock in her ass. I try to pace her a little but it's mostly out of my control: "having a tiger by the tail" is apt in more ways than one. She occasionally misses her peak but we can usually recover if I tell her a story about the third man in the room who is feeding his cock into <my> ass. I tell her how big and hard it is, and how it fills me up, and she goes right over the wall. (Rarely she'll finish way ahead of me and be too sensitive to continue anally. I'll withdraw and finish in her pussy.)
Our orgasms are generally so intense that we're left speechless and I, standing up, am dizzy. It takes us a few minutes (really) to get it together and separate. We do this two or three times a month. I don't think we could handle it twice as often.
I've only ever had sex receiving anal. Never have I gave any sex, vaginal or anal.I think it's my calling and I love it. If I could give one bit of advice it would be to never scrimp on the lube.
Luv it. With a guy or chick. A real turn on
Anal sex is really gives lots of pleasure to me I always do it.
I love I now as long as the cock isn't to big and I have plenty of lube
I have tried it and the pain was so intense. I would like to try it again if I had a higher tolerance for pain. Hubby is so thick I felt like he was splitting me in half.
It's not for everyone. Lots of things to be careful with. Lots of lube, cleanliness is very important.
I love it, always a must in a relationship
Someone has to be the Villain
