It can be very good with the right partner. A finger can definitely increase not only the pleasure of the orgasm but the intensity as well.
I discovered I liked it only when my clit was getting licked.
A finger or two combined with a tongue drove me wild. Then over time I enjoyed more and more until now I enjoy straight anal fucking. I now have a fantasy to try double anal penetration.
I love anal play - fingers tongue and cock and love my anas being rimmed and cingered
I have tried it twice and there is no way there will be a third time.
I agree that if it's not fun, don't do it. I think if it hurts too bad you must be doing something wrong though.
I really enjoy anal sex now, but it took a while before I got to this stage. I tried doing some stuff alone first, fingers and dildo's ,all very well lubed, before I even let a man near my ass. I love being rimmed and a finger or two in my ass whilst he licks my pussy is heavenly.
It really is a trust thing as well, you call the shots, the minute it feels uncomfortable stop and ask him to stop too, which I understand for a guy must be really difficult because his instinct is to pump away. Don't give up though you'll love it once you've mastered it, As everyone else has said, you can't have too much lube, and make sure you lube the whole length of his cock not just the tip. I like to frig my button during, the pleasure is very intense. And one last bit of advice, never ever let him go from your ass to your pussy, or your mouth for that matter, if you are using a condom replace it. No matter what you or your partner may have seen on porn or how clean you think you are, the transfer of bacteria doing that in very high. Good luck
My wife was into it big time before we married and introduced it to me (both ways). She is a “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander” sort of gal about everything and I do mean EVERYTHING. She is so good at it, knows when, how, what to do, what positions are best as you get more aroused, etc. I joke with her all the time that she should get paid to each this; yes she is that good at everything she does sexually. So our experiences with anal have been very good to fantastic but only because she is so knowledgeable about it.
OK so over the past few weeks we tried it two times. First time was great. Everything went smoothly. Insertion was ok and I used a small vibrator on my clit while he was pumping. I came, he came, all was great. Next time, it was really difficult getting him in, and it was getting frustrating for both of us so we gave up. I turned over so we carried on. Didn't want to lose the momentum (almost did). Will try again. Maybe it will be a Christmas present from me!
Great fun if time and care is taken, you need to be totally relaxed and trusting of who you are with.
My girlfriend and I tried it and love it. I started slowly rimming her then gently inserting the tip of my finger into her ass. The next time my finger went in a little deeper. The key thing is before new sexual play is to say to your other half that if they don't like anything or find it uncomfortable then they are to tell you straight away. My girlfriend now takes my finger in her ass (though not my cock yet) and it makes her wild.
She has slowly inserted her finger in my ass, not fully yet but I find it enjoyable and very sexually exciting. Once she has fully inserted her finger in me, I have told her that she can have me bound and gagged to the bed and finger fuck my ass. This is something that she said she is looking forward to!
One thing is to make sure that you are both clean and have showered or bathed before. We enjoy anal play after being washed. Don't rush into anal play but take it steady.
I dated a girl that wanted to avoid getting pregnant so bad she wanted anal. It was fantastic but difficult at first because she said it hurt. Always consider her and what she may have to go through to do it. I can say though once you do it, it's amazing.
I did anal a few times with girl friends a long time ago but it didn't seem to do a lot for them. A few years ago my wife of many years told me that she had always found the idea of anal sex interesting so we tried it and it quickly became our go-to Fun Thing! We do vaginal sex first, take time to get her tight little hole ready for me, and use lots of lube. It helps to be really hard since penetrating her asshole takes a fair bit of (very careful) effort at first. Care is crucial: when I first enter her even pulsing my cock can cause her discomfort.
For her it leads to a screaming intense string of orgasms every time. I'm surprised at how well it works for her. I should add that she uses a vibrator on her clit once I start pounding her ass and we do a lot of dirty talk.
For me it's at least as much fun. Entering her, especially getting my cock head past her sphincter, is a slow and exquisite journey. She's so incredibly tight and she can squeeze extra hard. Once I get all the way in and start pumping, every stroke is a treat. I love bumping up against her ass cheeks. When we start talking about how full my cock makes her and how deep I get into her, it's hard to hold off.
We always use a condom. She doesn't use an enema but she's almost always very clean.
I'm sure it's not for everyone, but if you have any inclinations toward anal sex, give it an extended try. When it's good, it's very, very good!!
I got a tens unit recently and an anal insert to milk my prostate. The orgasm later (the word cum just doesn't describe it) was INTENSE!
had my first one today, I want more, it was great.
I love anal sex love giving it to girls and love to receive it from guys
I've been doing anal for years, both giving and receiving. I love it. My wife wanted to try it after a three way with a bi guy that lasted the weekend at our home. Friday evening we made it ladies night. We gave it all to her. Saturday, however, we did a gay flip fuck, I took it from him, and with his load in me, I turned him over and did him. She was on the bed through it all, taking it in. Several days later, she hinted she wanted to try. So take it slow. And use a lot of lube. Anal lube. Get several tubes of it and if your goal is actual intercourse, you may want to take a few weeks building up to it. Every time you have sex, do a little butt play. Grow the play gradually, use some butt plugs, lube them well! Use finger(s) first. Have fun!
