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I probably will on saturday when I meet with some friends who I have sex with regulary
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We tried once w/no success and never tried it again. Lots of lush buddies say it's great so maybe someday but doubt it. To this day I cringe just thinking about how unpleasant a failure is LOL
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Oh yeah, a favorite of mine. My wife was never to fond of it so I've missed a lot. I have no complaints though, just wish there'd been more of that.
I am always a gentleman.
Get some toys. Various sizes. Start with lube and small toys. Work your way up to the larger ones. Do it everyday in the shower for a couple of weeks. Eventually you will be able to take a average size cock with out much discomfort. When you get to this point you can do the real thing without putting a damper on the mood.
You don't want this to be a bad experience. It can be very enjoyable. For men and women alike. I know some women that squirt from anal and only anal. Also men can cum without even touching their cock. You have to hit the prostate just right.. its like giving them a hand job from the inside, only it feels better.
You don't want this to be a bad experience. It can be very enjoyable. For men and women alike. I know some women that squirt from anal and only anal. Also men can cum without even touching their cock. You have to hit the prostate just right.. its like giving them a hand job from the inside, only it feels better.
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I think so much has to do with your earlier experiences and what's in your head. I had very early exposure and learned to enjoy it well before I first had sex with a woman. Now I can cum anally with the right partner. Others I know who didn't get exposed to it until they were in their 30s or 40s have a lot harder time getting started even with relatively small stuff. My wife, for instance, doesn't like anything "back there" most of the time, but when she's on the brink, sometimes just resting a finger on her little rosebud or pushing a lubed finger into the first knuckle will be all it takes to send her over the edge. I can have her completely relaxed, but just touching her sphincter will shut things down for the evening, unless, like I said, she's already pounding on the door of an orgasm.
I think most people need to start with a nice small butt plug and just leave it up there during other fun stuff initially. Start to associate it with other things you like, like oral sex or vaginal sex. Gradually increase the size of the toy and the duration you leave it in for. As you get to bigger toys, you may have to warm up with a smaller one and after five minutes, swap out for a larger one. When I know I'm going to be having anal sex, I generally try to use a medium sized butt plug for about 15 minutes to a half hour before and pull it out just before we get started. What most folks don't realize is that there's two sphincters, the outer rosebud and an inner sphincter. When anal sex hurts after what seems like an adequate warm up, it usually is the inner sphincter that isn't relaxed enough. Butt plugs with a large taper (small neck, large mid-point) do a better job or relaxing this inner sphincter while staying in place well enough to do other things. The less taper, the more likely to fall out during play.
And while I always keep water based lubes around for toys, for actual penile penetration, silicone based lubes work much better for ass play. They don't get reabsorbed by the body, so you don't have to keep reapplying them.
I think most people need to start with a nice small butt plug and just leave it up there during other fun stuff initially. Start to associate it with other things you like, like oral sex or vaginal sex. Gradually increase the size of the toy and the duration you leave it in for. As you get to bigger toys, you may have to warm up with a smaller one and after five minutes, swap out for a larger one. When I know I'm going to be having anal sex, I generally try to use a medium sized butt plug for about 15 minutes to a half hour before and pull it out just before we get started. What most folks don't realize is that there's two sphincters, the outer rosebud and an inner sphincter. When anal sex hurts after what seems like an adequate warm up, it usually is the inner sphincter that isn't relaxed enough. Butt plugs with a large taper (small neck, large mid-point) do a better job or relaxing this inner sphincter while staying in place well enough to do other things. The less taper, the more likely to fall out during play.
And while I always keep water based lubes around for toys, for actual penile penetration, silicone based lubes work much better for ass play. They don't get reabsorbed by the body, so you don't have to keep reapplying them.
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I love walking around my house with a plug in wearing thongs then like has been said before move up to bigger toys
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my girl friend used to love my shaft up her asshole... and I would like it when she used to lick mine before sucking me off...
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Been there - Done that - Dont do it any more.
It hurt me the both times I tried it and for me sex is pleasure not pain. We lubed and did all that we could to make it easier for me. He was not huge, just average 7 inches, and a delight where I believe it is meant to be,
I dont mind a finger part way in during forplay and rimming.
It hurt me the both times I tried it and for me sex is pleasure not pain. We lubed and did all that we could to make it easier for me. He was not huge, just average 7 inches, and a delight where I believe it is meant to be,
I dont mind a finger part way in during forplay and rimming.
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We tried once w/no success and never tried it again. Lots of lush buddies say it's great so maybe someday. Different partner perhaps
As you might expect, the first few times can be tough. Especially if your man hasn't done it before either. Being able to relax and take it slow make all the difference.
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Quote by Milik_The_Red
As you might expect, the first few times can be tough. Especially if your man hasn't done it before either. Being able to relax and take it slow make all the difference.
It's like the old adage.
If you fail to prepare then prepare to fail.
You have to have your partner in the right frame of mind.
I did it a few times… feels "different", the feeling entering is something hard to describe, the hole is not stretching like a vagina, it remains tight 
than after the 1st step, you feel it opening and something tells you that you are deep inside.. my god..
she was able to cum this way I filled her a couple of second later
than after the 1st step, you feel it opening and something tells you that you are deep inside.. my god..
she was able to cum this way I filled her a couple of second later
I did it a few times… feels "different", the feeling entering is something hard to describe, the hole is not stretching like a vagina, it remains tight
than after the 1st step, you feel it opening and something tells you that you are deep inside.. my god..
she was able to cum this way I filled her a couple of second later
than after the 1st step, you feel it opening and something tells you that you are deep inside.. my god..
she was able to cum this way I filled her a couple of second later
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Beth is one of the best girls on here, Ive been glad to have her on my friends list. We have never chatted yet but when we do I will be asking about her 'session' that has left her sore today. Anal is not for everyone, my partners have been keen to try and have been ok doing it - and then there are the experts who will take a big cock without a grimace. It is the girls choice - and indeed guys should respect the 'yes' or 'no' on anal immediately.
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Well, how you perform anal sex depends greatly on the person. I've known several women who enjoyed it because of the pain. Of course this was after a couple times doing it slowly and with lots of lube. For these ladies, a moderate coating of saliva was sufficient lubrication for an evening of anal penetration. So the "slow and steady" approach does not work for everyone, but its definitely a wise idea for beginners.
Just keep wallowing in your own chaotic insecure delusions.