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Why aren't you telling your spouse that you frequent sites like Lush?
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I don't tell my wife because she would not understand. (See my bio for more info.) Lush is an alternative space where we can fufil some of our fantasies and explore new boundaries. I do not see any harm in that!
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Why spoil a good day by telling her indoors I have some little pleasure in life surely she after all these years would never approve, love and lust on my dearest friends. Love and fuck yourselves forever and enjoy, I intend to with your assistance, cheer
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Why spoil a good day by telling her indoors I have some little pleasure in life surely she after all these years would never approve, love and lust on my dearest friends. Love and fuck yourselves forever and enjoy, I intend to with your assistance, cheer
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I have only been at lush About 3 Mos.I have been divorced over 10 years.It's really none of my X wife's business what I do.I'M not in A relationship now so I don't have to account to people I date. I have been looking at porn since I first became A teenager. When I was married my wife & I used to watch porn together.( of course not when the kids were around.) We looked at it as almost educational. As well as A visual aid & learned A few new moves that spiced up our marriage. I didn't really get into the internet until we were separated pending our divorce. So no I don't need to tell anyone about my involvement with Lush.One of the great things about being single.
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My wife has no idea what site I am on. The standing joke with her is I am just reading porn. She asks me what's going on, and I just say the usual porn stuff lol. Since I have been unable to meet up with anyone who wants to chat with an old fart, then there's really no harm. Just harmless reading. :-)
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I have only been at lush About 3 Mos.I have been divorced over 10 years.It's really none of my X wife's business what I do.I'M not in A relationship now so I don't have to account to people I date. I have been looking at porn since I first became A teenager. When I was married my wife & I used to watch porn together.( of course not when the kids were around.) We looked at it as almost educational. As well as A visual aid & learned A few new moves that spiced up our marriage. I didn't really get into the internet until we were separated pending our divorce. So no I don't need to tell anyone about my involvement with Lush.One of the great things about being single.
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My wife has no idea what site I am on. The standing joke with her is I am just reading porn. She asks me what's going on, and I just say the usual porn stuff lol. Since I have been unable to meet up with anyone who wants to chat with an old fart, then there's really no harm. Just harmless reading. :-)
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I didnt tell mi husband at first that i had found this site ...but he saw it and wanted to join it also ...so i showed him how to get on und make a few friends also ....he talks on it some times also ....hay!!!! his name is bilbo so give him a yell also ...he really liked the story i wrote ...he said he would like to be in another one ...lol ...
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Because my husband has no part in my sex life at all any more..he doesn't know about Lush, nor about Dave or Justine or any of my PAST lovers either.
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'... sites like Lush?'
There are other sites? Really?
There are other sites? Really?
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Good question. I've been asking myself this question ever since I came onto Lush. I don't feel I'm 'cheating' on her ('cause cyber sex and sexting etc is surely several levels below outright marital indidelity); but than, again, I'd find it difficult to own up to some of the wilder moments which I've experienced and enjoyed in the chat rooms. Churlish - and probably whimpishly-English - is my present feeling that I'll just 'let sleeping dogs lie''
That is the way I feel too. I love my wife, and she would be hurt, not by the stories, but by the cyber sex. It is all fantasy, and I would not be unfaithful in real life, but it is a way to explore the deeper recesses of my sexual imagination. On the other side, since I became more involved in Lush - writing and cybering - I have become a much more attentive lover, and our sex life has perked up to levels similar to when we were furst married over 40 years ago. My oral techniques have improved too.
I am currently not in a relationship with anyone but if I ever find someone I can be in a serious relationship with again I would love to be able to share lush with him and possibly even co-write some stories with him. I think lush could really enhance a love life if both partners were involved!
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because my wife has no longer any liking for sex of any kind
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I don't tell anyone I write these stories because I lead a very public life. I publish, and get paid for, all my other writing under my real name. My bio isn't bullshit. My stuff here is for me. If other people like it, that's great, but this is my own small way of staking out a bit of turf that's mine and mine alone.
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I, too, lead a public life and using my real name could damage my career. I do not think this is illegal, but it does lead others to speculate your credibility. I have not told my partner that I am on here because she would not understand my liking for such things. I have always had a high sex drive, so this is a place where I can share some of those thoughts and desires without being judged.
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I didnt tell mi husband at first that i had found this site ...but he saw it and wanted to join it also ...so i showed him how to get on und make a few friends also ....he talks on it some times also ....hay!!!! his name is bilbo so give him a yell also ...he really liked the story i wrote ...he said he would like to be in another one ...lol ...
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Quote by sexybbw71
I am currently not in a relationship with anyone but if I ever find someone I can be in a serious relationship with again I would love to be able to share lush with him and possibly even co-write some stories with him. I think lush could really enhance a love life if both partners were involved!
Sounds good and I agree, but it's not easy for me to tell the wife tho.
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I don't tell anyone I write these stories because I lead a very public life. I publish, and get paid for, all my other writing under my real name. My bio isn't bullshit. My stuff here is for me. If other people like it, that's great, but this is my own small way of staking out a bit of turf that's mine and mine alone.
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I, too, lead a public life and using my real name could damage my career. I do not think this is illegal, but it does lead others to speculate your credibility. I have not told my partner that I am on here because she would not understand my liking for such things. I have always had a high sex drive, so this is a place where I can share some of those thoughts and desires without being judged.
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My SO knows I read stories on this site and I've even showed him one I wrote. However, for some reason, I can't bring myself to show him the others. 
An old favorite story of mine: The Chaise Lounge