I'm interested to kno what is more preferable.
A guy who provides everything, and is open and treats you as an equal where you have a say in everything
or
A guy who provides everything, but is opinionated and makes all the decisions where you have little input.
Is this a serious question?
I don't know of too many women who would choose the second option unless she was a mail-order-bride, otherwise, an equal partnership is how it should be.
I pride myself on being a woman that still holds some old-fashioned values when it comes to relationships and family BUT I'm definitely no wallflower or doormat. I come with my very own brain which means I'm intelligent and articulate and can and do form my own opinions.
I prefer to be equal because I find fair to be that way
the most common phrase used by Thais is 'Up To You' and it has a dual purpose...........it absolves the speaker of any responsibility if things go wrong and it's the Asian woman's way of making you think that the man is in charge. Clever girls
The first option is the more preferable of the two, for me.
I don't like the idea of a man providing "everything".
I like being independent and able to support myself. I wouldn't want that to go in a relationship and I don't think it should if it's based on equality.
I would definitely pick option one. Both partners in a relationship need to have equal amounts of input. I don't want a guy to make decisions for me.
Umm... I want to be treated as an equal, as I imagine most women do. I'm sure there's another side to the argument than can be articulated well, but it mystifies me.
Option 1. We can decide how we will go about our relationship together.