"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
Why not just ask her, instead of us?
=== Not ALL LIVES MATTER until BLACK LIVES MATTER ===
She was probably drunk or something when she messaged you after three months.
Why would you even want to have anything going on with someone so difficult to pin down anyway? You can hardly wet her whistle, it's going to be impossible to get her to wet your dick.
Focus your energy on something else. Anything else.
Nah, Im more angry than anything.
Waste of fucking space.
NO ONE is THAT busy.
Don't like being used, don't like being a last resort.
We are very complex individuals.
That's life.
@Magical_felix yeah I have no clue either as to why something like that would happen. I just go by the info that is given to me. And believe me I am more confused by this than this young man is.
She actually posted on the site.
"Most importantly set a date that works for YOU, don't plan around people who may or may not turn up as lots of people will end up flaking."
She posted that on the site, in response to a girl trying to organise a meetup.
I couldn't pass the opportunity to challenge her so I quoted her and said:
""Yes, it is frustrating when someone ignores you, can't respond to messages or the like, under the false guise of "being busy".
Right away I get a MASSIVELY long email. How she IS insanely busy, and shes got all these personal problems, and sick relatives and shes logging into the site for a few moments at a time, just for an escape.
I replied, I was sorry to hear that, but to reply would taken 10 seconds. No one is THAT busy. And would saved us both a lot of trouble. I said that waiting 3 months for a first reponse was massively excessive in itself. But waiting an additional 2 months was just taking the absolute piss. I mean, farting takes me 10 seconds. Coughing about that length of time. Takes me longer than to light a cigarette!
Cue her response:
""IIt hasn't been 3 months. My last PM was sent 24th February, not even 2 months ago. I was in London longer than I had planned as I had extra time off work and uni and being around my family made me feel better. I came back on March 24th and had an essay due in 29th. I had a friend come on the 30th and they're leaving tomorrow. I'm then back to London for my best friends birthday and to visit my mothers grave and spend time with my family. Then I'm back here and I have 4 exams. So yes, it IS a busy time and I had every intention of responding to all of my messages tomorrow once my friend had gone home as I don't like being glued to my phone in company and I like to give full attention to messages. I've never been someone to just cut contact with someone because I'm 'bored' and I'm hurt by the suggestion in all honesty. Me and my closest friends often leave it a long time before responding to each other because we know it doesn't mean anything and it doesn't affect our friendships.
Anyway I'm sorry to hear that April is equally a difficult time for you and I wish you all the best.""
I find it amazing and hilarious, NOW she has ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD to write out essays to me, basically making it my fault, guilt-tripping me, and avoiding any responsibility for being such a shallow, supercilious and manipulative girl. How the fuck am I supposed to know that about her closest friends? I BARELY EVEN KNOW HER, BECAUSE SHE NEVER FUCKING EMAILS.
Im done. Fuck the cancerous cunt. Waste of my fucking time and energy. Don't care if she comes offering nights of passionate sex, Im totally bored of her now.I don't date "children."
Thing is, we DID actually meet in person
@humblemetsuke your 2nd post I find even stranger. No where in the first post did you make it sound like she dropped you because you were bored. I am the one that said that. Which makes things stand out even more to me. Yeah it seems like I said she went to see another guy dude didn't turn up and now she's feeling vulnerable.
Base on the her message you shared, your message you left her in the forum meant a lot to her. Because to her it shows you care and right now she needs that--someone caring.
No doubt it was a dude typing you or at least telling her what to type. Maybe it was meant as a joke. She is at the point that she is willing to give you another chance. Don't call her names. You're a man, no need to lower yourself to that level.
This is what you should message her: If we do go on another date I don't want it to be coffee. We need to do an active that forces us to show our true self to the other. Maybe hike or a visit to the flea-market, or go to a local event. It's cool that you compere me to your closest friend. I am not your friend though, never will be. I am a love interest. If you want to make a team and conquer this world together we can do that.
We are both going to have to grow because it is something neither of us is used to. Look, before we go on another date we are going to have to find common ground. So we can make a date the fits both of us.
Then when you guys do meet up. You should have me go instead. I'll be like such and such sent me. Then she'll be like: umm who are you? And I'll be like: You like running around for guys that could care less about you; so me and humblemetsuke figured I would be a prefect match for you. Her: Ummm I don't know you like that. Me: It's okay we are going to do something I know you'll like. Her: what are we going to do. At which point I would take her back to my spot and T.K.O that pussy. Then leave her, and every time her pussy is hurt she'll think of me.
If you really want to wife this girl. Reach out to me via PM. I'll give you everything you need to make a girl like her happy. But really I'm down with the first plan I suggested too.
Err yeah.
Im just gonna cut my losses.
Good choice. She missed out on a great guy. A girl like that ends up with a guy she doesn't truly love and over time gives into the notion that: it's suppose to be like this between a guy and girl.
You'll find your other half just be strong my friend.
It's a joke if you didn't know, duh.
I am a misogynist?
Nods. You base that on my posts fair enough.
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"Sounds to me like she sized you up pretty well in your first and only meet and decided your particular flavor of misogyny wasn't her cup of tea. "
That maybe true. Which begs the question, why even bother offering to meetup again?
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Your right I lost nothing. I just dont like having my time wasted, or being strung along by some cheap cunt.
Not sure if your being sarcastic or not.
Regardless, I apologise for the sharpness.
Not sure if your being sarcastic or not.
Regardless, I apologise for the sharpness.
it honestly sounds to me, based on your original post, that she was just using you as an option. the first reply was simply a way of staying on your radar. it got your attention, but was vague enough to not set any promises.
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