Is there such a thing as a perfect someone?
As you go through life, you discover MANY people who seem perfect for YOU at the moment. Accept that they change and you change and sometimes the changes tarnish the perfectness. But you and they were perfect for a time, cherish that, but move on when you have to. Our ideals of perfection are so varied and organically changeable that we can barely keep up with them. The main thing is never to let the disappointments be generic. If a blonde dumps you, it doesn't mean, for example, ALL blondes will. If a man cheats, it doesn't mean ALL men will cheat (though sad to admit, most will). Enjoy your shared perfections as they come but don't squeeze those moments to death. Too many do.
I came to realize a long time ago, there is no such thing as perfection.
I think if they were perfect, I'd still be with them now.
So no, I haven't met the "perfect person". If he even exists.
Sadly i don think that anyone is perfect.
I don't believe in "The Perfect Person"
And it may sounds strange, but the perfect person for me would be myself.
"Nobody's perfect... I am nobody"
I know myself, I know what I like, I know what I want.
I know my bad habits, I know my good habits, I know my feelings without having to explain them.
I know it all......
In the beginning I often think I have found someone that is close to being perfect,
but slowly it crumbles down to the point that this someone is not so perfect for me..... for others maybe.... but not for me.
I am a difficult person in a relationship, but (in my defense) I always warn woman upfront and it is up to them to
jump on the boar or not.
A perfect woman would accept me for 100%, no questions asked, no demands, no nothing except for 100% trust.
No one is perfect. "Ain't nobody perfect!"
The prefect person for you is the one that fits best and that you both can make it work with. First of all, you have to be willing to do that. It's not always easy. You have to be willing to work hard at it. Do you work hard at your career to make it a success? is that rewarding? Relationships are the same.
I met someone who I finally thought was the perfect girl for me, and she decided to get back with her boyfriend because she felt she owed it to him and God, or some bullshit... guess that woulnd't have worked out very long anyways... where's her feminist friend when you need her... fuck
I think instead of perfect you mean ideal. I met my ideal mate but didn't realise it and pushed them away. I've regretted it for over 20 years.
When I am deeply in love with someone I do not account for the imperfections. That person to me at that time is PERFECT. Love brings that kind of idealism. One does accept the flaws of their partner making it seem like he/she is that perfect person at that time because you are 'so in love' with that person. But nothing lasts forever not even that kind of euphoric stage in a relationship.
Met through a friend. We hung out a couple of times, had a good time, then didn't see each other for a few weeks. I got her number from our friend and invited her to a party I was having. Embarrassingly, she was the only one who showed up. After the initial awkwardness wore off it was kind of hilarious, and we had an awesome night. Been together since.
It's the word "perfect" that introduces an entire philosphy into the question.
I'm as romantic as the next guy ... No, scratch that. I'm much more romantic than most guys you will ever meet, but even in the throes of all the dopamine-aided-true-love-stages, somewhere I knew that each person that I was willing to give my entire heart to was flawed.
Yes, I thought her habit of leaving her toe nail clippings on the floor was cute. And I thought the fact that she almost never answered my questions directly was a form of deep intellectualism. I even surmised that her habitual late arrivals were only a dramatic representation of her tender heart which was always called away by the immediate needs of others.
It's been more than 20 years now. I have been wiling to go to prison for murder over those toe clippings. I'm equally sure she has stared at me in my sleep with evil intent because I ran three stop lights to get to the movies on time.
I did not marry a perfect person. That would be a cruel gesture on my part because I would be linking them with myself; a highly imperfect person.
I did marry an incredible traveling partner. I don't think anyone has ever been born that could stand beside me in my worst moments, and still care about me. I'm sure I could never have found anyone whose smile means so much to me that I will walk to another hotel to find the "right" coffee for her in the morning even if it costs three times as much as the one available in the lobby.
We've both changed so much over the years, I would really find it remarkable is we both locked into a state of pefection in a world that is constantly moving and shifting around us.
Besides, how can love be shown if you only love someone who is perfect? Unconditional love can only happen when you have some huge hairy discolored mole right in the middle of your forehead and someone STILL thinks you are worth more than the hot guy on the poster selling underwear.
Perfect person? Nah.
A loving, sexy, fun, forgiving companion that I will share highs and lows and laughs and tears with until one of us assumes room temperature? Oh, hell yeah!
See, I told you I was romantic.
Here are my thoughts on the perfect someone.
I agree that no one is perfect but its not about that person being perfect to the world- its about you loving everything about that person including their flaws.1FBPm3Rk3VoF77t1
No one is just perfect..
Even "Life is perfectly imperfect"...
But I forgot one small detail... my life isn't a fairy tale. :(
