This will go round and round in circles unless he changes but you can't be the one to change him, he has to do that himself.
Welcome to Lush! I'm sorry to say that your situation sounds terribly unhealthy. It seems unlikely that you'll ever be able to stop withholding your trust, because it has been abused once. You could ride this relationship for whatever benefit you can get from it while looking for another, essentially treating your guy like a FWB until you find someone worthy of your emotional investment, but if you want to be able to date without risking getting caught, it would probably be better to make a break.
TRUST...once "lost" is never 100% recovered. Pull up your big girl panties and MOVE ON away from this cad.
He's almost definitely cheating on you - and if he's not you've lost all trust in him and suspect him anyway. Either you accept the situation and move on with your relationship or leave... and properly leave - cut your ties with him.
You won't change him or what he does - if anything he'll get worse. He preys on weak women and you're obviously not the first.
You may also wish to review your taste in men, if you see a pattern of neglect or emotional abuse it might be worth your while investing in some therapy
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Why not read some stories instead
NEW! Want a quick read for your coffee break? Why not try this... Flash Erotica: Scrubber Thank you all for your words. It helps to have others' input. Clearminds so to speak.
cheaters cheat..they never change....it is NOT about you..something in them..makes them unable to be faithful
my sister married a guy who had a HORRIBLE ex-wife...sweetie
turned out..he was horrible...& the same thing happened to her...that happened to the ex wife...thus the reason the EX was a mess
dont go cleaning up someone else's emotional garbage
move on..find a FAITHFUL guy...who will cherish you
not use you.. as a depository for all his crap
YOU are so worth more
i wish you all the happiness & love in the world....now go get it
it dont worth your time
i know it ll hurt to leave but you deserve more than it. u deserve a guy who love you and be faitfull to you
wish u luck