I'm not a vary out going person, I'm vary quiet till I get to know you really good. I've had a lot of close friends that are girls but none that want to go that step further they ALL say we ought to just stay friend. But I don't want that because If we just stay friends we will never see what could have been. I'm about to be 20 and never had a girlfriend or been on a real date. It bugs me but I know it kills my parents and my older brother. And I'm afrai that my yunger brother is going in the same direction as me and I don't want that for him eather.
I'm not sure how to help you as I tend to be very shy upon meeting people, but I've never really had a problem fining a boyfriend/girlfriend. The only thing I can say is that you need to open yourself up, try to break out of your shell. Maybe try a dating site? Ask a friend to introduce you to someone?
just because a woman doesn't want to date you does not mean she is PLAYING you...ok
it just means that you both do not have chemistry and she values you as a person
as to your parents and your brother being upset you are not dating at 19?? and your brother is younger and you are afraid for him?
Some people mature later.
But I seriously doubt it kills your parents they probably dated later too
I mean I would want my son to date when he was READY not by a certain age
People "date" here way too young
As a parent of a son your age the thing I WOULD encourage you to do is to join activities
clubs schools sports
you meet people through that
but the best dates DO start off as friends
you just need confidence
is there something in your past that you need to talk about
do what you love what you are PASSIONATE about and then people will flock to you
and I disagree with nightman
I never went for the bad boys always the nice guys
don't change who you are to ATTRACT a woman
be a MORE confident version of you
love yourself...get out and meet people
don't look at every girl as a date but as someone to have fun with..ok
Honey if ur in the friend zone you are stuck there. When I put a guy in the friend zone, he stays there
Ok, this is a problem for a lot of people myself included. But the most advice I can give right now is to try getting comfortable talking to people and all that first then try starting a relationship with someone who doesn't think of you as just a friend. Or show the girls who friend zoned you why they should give you a chance to be more.