Sexual Frustration

9 Sep 2009

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Quote by Bunny12
Spend some time with a cyber FWB then work out for hour to blow off all that steam! Also enjoy a hobby.

FWB?

Ok...I think I've got it...sometimes too much time in high humidity can cause: Fuzzy Wet Balls....am I getting closer?

9 Sep 2009

Quote by HoneyBee000
Quote by ali2teaseu
Quote by Bunny12
Spend some time with a cyber FWB then work out for hour to blow off all that steam! Also enjoy a hobby.

FWB?

what's a FWB?

FWB = Friend with Benefits

Bunny12

Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!

9 Sep 2009

Quote by Jason9035
Quote by ali2teaseu
Quote by Bunny12
Spend some time with a cyber FWB then work out for hour to blow off all that steam! Also enjoy a hobby.

FWB?

Ok...I think I've got it...sometimes too much time in high humidity can cause: Fuzzy Wet Balls....am I getting closer?

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! = Rolling on the floor laughing my ass off sign5

Bunny12

Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!

10 Sep 2009

Quote by Bunny12
Spend some time with a cyber FWB then work out for hour to blow off all that steam! Also enjoy a hobby.

i have been out of a relationship for four years. sad7

but have recently found a FWB and its been great ... we both don't want anything serious but are both enjoying the sex to no end Ldevil

but sometimes i still get frustratied due to the fact that i have no one waiting for me when i get home ... but like others have said u have some pretty good advice on this one ... i think i might just use some mself fuck you very much

“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love.” ~ Washington Irving

"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It make you so vulnerable. It opens up your chest and it opens up your heart and it mean someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole set of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different than any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life... You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. The did something du mb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and your life isn't yours anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. Eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should just be friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. Its a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love." ~Neil Gaima

10 Sep 2009

Um, whats a FWB?

♥ Listen, touch, and look around in the air and on the ground. If you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wings. ♥

11 Sep 2009

Quote by Pixie
Um, whats a FWB?

I think I'm getting better at this one Pix....from my friend Down Under they call it...Friendly Wallaby Boinking!

It's like an Aborigine male sexual passage of rights thing....better?

9 Oct 2009

Hi everybody! hello2

My first post here.

This thread topic struck home for me. I'm 37, still a virgin and never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship. Not for lack of trying though. Just unlucky I guess. But yes, frustrated indeed!

Porn and erotic literature helps. Actually, I prefer literature. I like to use my imagination.

Cheers.jHXwzRu8Fe7AkrdM

9 Oct 2009

Welcome, Shy. You've come to the right place for porn and literature.

12 Oct 2009

I totally know what MercianKnight is talking about. I'm in a relationship, we have GREAT sex... when we can get it. It's really hard, and frustrating, to manage around the kids schedules and still have time for each other. Add to that, we have teenagers who stay up all hours of the night on weekens, and a Kindergartener who WON'T sleep late, and, well there you have it. I'll find a way to have energy if the time presents itself. It's that damn responsibility stuff. Just not enough hours in the day.

12 Oct 2009

I did that lots of times, but you end up appreciating the sex more that way.

14 Oct 2009

I'm gonna agree with Birdie. Grab some chocolate and batteries! Maybe some lotion...or some whipped cream (don't mix those up please)..

22 Oct 2009

Have you tried masturbation?

22 Oct 2009

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[i still get frustratied due to the fact that i have no one waiting for me when i get home ...

Buy a goldfish named Bob

23 Oct 2009

Wouldn't know since I've been in a relationship all of my adult life.....but friends with benefits would probably be the route I'd take too.

23 Oct 2009

Quote by Jackrabbit
Have you tried masturbation?

Clearly you haven't read my stories.
"Good Morning Commuter Rail!"
"Solo Adventure"

Have a gander and then ask me about masturbation.

lol

1 Nov 2009

Work out like crazy. There is nothing like workout pain - it's almost better than sex and you get a great body to boot.

1 Nov 2009

Quote by Pixie
Um, whats a FWB?

check above Pixie.....lol! It's a friend with benefits.....sheesh!!!! where have you been? LMAO!

5 Apr 2010

I wrote this as response to posting on dodsonandross.com about male virginity I need some feedback

I am almost like N, I was 24 when I had sex for the first time. I think for males like myself and N we were are in mid 20's the knowledge of knowing that many males are ages lost their almost 10 years before N lost his. We start to develop complexes.
I am not sure how N feels but I felt like was very different from other men. Most women when I talk to say I need to develop confidence but what women might not realize in a man mind success builds confidence in men. Men like me feel pressure to show our prowess through sex.
Like N, as a male we come to sight looking for the nurturing that help us become better lovers. I can say one thing about men starting late we might tend be more interested in become a quality sex partner with our mates. However, if a man that is like myself went through H.S. and College without a girl friend we miss some development in our early lives is deeper than just the act of having sex. What I missed is almost akin to baby not being held at birth. A part of myself died. What died was the adolescent discovery of puppy i.e. like the TV Show The Wonder Years. One goes through in H.S. and College when you have a relationship in those early years a self-discovery phase.
Case in point, my sophomore year I started to talk to a young woman that I wanted to become my girlfriend, but what kept our friendship from developing into a relationship was my lack of experience. She was a freshman and she talked about her boyfriends she had in H.S. I felt intimidated: I had no stories to share. No one in H.S. had a crush on me and I started to feel like an outcast. I felt like I did not measure up. Therefore, in our private time other than kissing I clammed up and was non-communicative. She backed away and I was told by mutual friends she liked me but I was not to talkative with her.
Dr. Betty and Carlin there are some men like N and I we feel that we are alone and lack of sex for us might be more of affection issue. Meaning we want to feel loved. We do not feel normal and I think for N it might me the same for him we are hurting.
I am 38 know I only had 5 partners and maybe had sex about 40 times. I still don’t feel good about myself as a sexual being. I still feel like a freak. I think most women will never see me as mate and sexual partner.
What I think about men like N, and me is that we most likely want to be men who know how please our partners. We don’t have good outlets. I wanted to kill myself when I was 19 due to being a virgin. I failed my classes when I was 21-22 due to being a virgin. I know many might say having sex isn’t a big deal. However, when you don’t have it not about having an orgasm we know how to masturbate. It it’s the emotional connection, and warmth of the human body that is missing. The lack of touch and oneness of partner sex creates a vacuum in the soul. When I had sex with the women I consider to be my second girl friend it was the first time I felt accepted as a man. I did not feel different from other men. I was able to walk tall and my confidence was lifted.
In the past years being without love and sex my self esteem is almost at the lowest point of my life. I don’t know how pull it back up.
I am hoping that you read this and provide with me some insight.

Steven Glover,

5 Apr 2010

good story allwaysready! Of course, I'm 18 and a virgin. But I'm waiting until I'm married.

10 Apr 2010

I feel your pain, been there. lonely is the worst feeling in the world. You need to find a good friend to spend your lonely nights with. Stay busy. Eventually you'll find someone to snuggle and love and cherish and argue with. Til then, find a friend, keep yourself busy, and continue giving us your awesome advice!!!!! i hope you find happiness love!!!