I believe one should never cheat in a relationship. Never. If you truly loved your husband/wife, why not initiate sex with them? Instead of going out and finding a prostitute, etc. I don't think cheating is necessary. If one doesn't want to be with their spouse that badly, then he/she shouldn't be committed in a relationship and should do one night stands.
There is never a good reason to cheat. If you're not happy in the relationship, it's simple... Leave and find someone who will give you all the sex you want.
No no and no again.
If a marriage is sexless then you need to work on why.
Have you fallen into a lack of sex routine? Do you need to take time togther to work things out or has the love gone?
If you marry a person you have the obligation and hopefully heart to make sure you work out all your issues as a couple. Marriage, I assume, has good times and times where things may be strained but if you love your partner, you have to try everything to make it work.
If you love your partner then why would you even consider hurting them by cheating? I know sex is a big part of a marriage but love comes before sex imo and if you love that person then the sexual side can wait whilst the fractures in your relationship are dealt with and healed, then you can start to work on the sexual sie of things again.
If you don't love your partner, you need to do the right thing and tell them.
I have cheated on past gf's and I look back and really wish I hadn't been so selfish. Too busy trying to look jack-the-lad in front of my friends caused me to really hurt a girl and I still feel bad about it to this day. Nobody wins when you cheat, more often than not, everybody gets hurt.
I dont know why ppl try and justify something by asking others, when deep down they already know the answer. Its never ok to cheat, and if you cant stay faithful dont be in a relationship, never mind marriage!
No, It's never okay.
Talk to someone else on the internet in my opinion, in a sexual way. Is still wrong.
There are hundreds of reasons why it has become sexless, but you shouldn't just cheat on your partner. Kinda selfish.
If you have a problem and don't think you can remain faithful, your partner deserves to know and y'all should talk about it at least.
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I agree with bunny12. I'm stuck in an intimacy- less marriage and it hurts.
I had one affair in my life and got caught. Really not a fun memory... almost became a single dad. I'd always been faithful up until that point, but when a starving man sees a buffet, it's almost impossible to stop him. So my answer is: It's not right But neither is it right to stave your partner of sensuality.
...wonderful cunnilingus from butt-hole to naval since 1986.
I think really if you feel that sex is becoming less you need to open up and have a serious talk. It could be a mental problem or a physical problem.
If you go somewhere else to have sex the partner will and normally do find out and that's when chaos is going to abound.
I wouldn't do it.
There are lot of comments, mostly from women, about who it is NEVER acceptable to cheat. I was in computer club several years back. One of the regulars, a guy in his thirties, was married to a woman, in her thirties, who often came to club meetings, who was confined to a wheelchair (due to some some medical problem she developed before they met). She also had limited use of one arm, and some imparirment in the other. They obvioiusly had a sexless marriage. One night the guy confided in me that every few weeks, he would get sex somewhere (I think with an escort, but he didn't say). He didn't say so directly, but I got the idea he married because, he was tired of the drama of his past relationships and liked talking with her. (She was well read, and an interesting person). I think most of us would give this guy a pass on his infedilty.
Other times, the reasons infidelity for a sexless marriage may not be so obvious, but are just as real. I say don't be too quick to judge.
