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Seducing a married woman?
Advanced Wordsmith
Yep, works like a charm. I haven't had sex with a single woman in over 20 years. They have all been married.
Rookie Scribe
yes I have and it works just pay attention to them works every time
Artistic Tart
Not to pour cold water all over this discussion, but I have to ask: Have you ever really done this? Have you had sex with a married person, knowing that the other spouse didn't know, and that therefore you both were making a fool of them? Have you ever had that spouse find out, and give you the look that says about a hundred different things, but chief among of them being "why would you do this? why would you willingly take a sledgehammer to my family?".
Maybe you have, maybe you haven't. But I have. I've fooled myself into experiencing the rush with none of the guilt. I've also had that spouse stare daggers through me; that was not a good feeling.
So maybe I need my own thread, but at the risk of shining an unwelcome flashlight in a few eyes, I'm curious: How does it make you feel? Do you just put the other spouse out of your mind? Do you feel superior by taking something from them on the sly? Do you ever have crushing guilt after the fact? I've felt all of these things, I wonder who among you all have as well.
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EDIT: Though worded pointedly, this was not intended as a judgement on those who do this, after all, I've been there myself. I just wonder what your motivations/levels of guilt/highs and lows are based on your experiences.
Maybe you have, maybe you haven't. But I have. I've fooled myself into experiencing the rush with none of the guilt. I've also had that spouse stare daggers through me; that was not a good feeling.
So maybe I need my own thread, but at the risk of shining an unwelcome flashlight in a few eyes, I'm curious: How does it make you feel? Do you just put the other spouse out of your mind? Do you feel superior by taking something from them on the sly? Do you ever have crushing guilt after the fact? I've felt all of these things, I wonder who among you all have as well.
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EDIT: Though worded pointedly, this was not intended as a judgement on those who do this, after all, I've been there myself. I just wonder what your motivations/levels of guilt/highs and lows are based on your experiences.
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Quote by MMonroe
I agree with LadyX. I dont know why anyone would want to risk destroying anyones marriage and subsequently their family just to get their rocks off
It's not necerssarily just about "getting their rocks off". It takes two to tango. The cheating spouse is also part of the issue. Just like most escorts will say, it's rarely about the sex. For a spouse that isn't getting affection or respect at home, it's the closeness that he/she craves. The sex is a means to and end.
As far as sleeping with married women. If a man truly wants meaningless sex, it's the way to go. Another man's wife is a safe bet. She would have too much to lose by getting caught or getting too involved. A married man who wants to cheat would be well advised to choose a married woman. It's just the way it is.
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First let me say I do not believe in cheating in any form (sex with married people when the other is OK with it is not cheating to me).
But I can see LM's point. If you are in a sexless/loveless marriage and divorce is not an option for whatever reason, then maybe I can see why you would want to cheat. We all need to feel loved and wanted. But to be a single man or woman, and to knowingly have sex with married person and not care that you may be destroying a family just for a qick thrill, well that just doesnt sit right with me.
But like X, I am not judging anyone who does. Everyone has their reasons and they do not need to explain them to anyone
But I can see LM's point. If you are in a sexless/loveless marriage and divorce is not an option for whatever reason, then maybe I can see why you would want to cheat. We all need to feel loved and wanted. But to be a single man or woman, and to knowingly have sex with married person and not care that you may be destroying a family just for a qick thrill, well that just doesnt sit right with me.
But like X, I am not judging anyone who does. Everyone has their reasons and they do not need to explain them to anyone
It just way the OP worded it about 'seducing' a married woman. I know it takes 2 to tango but the way it sounded was like he was purposefully trying to lead to her astray and turn her into a cheat.
I know that alot of married people will cheat though due to a loveless/sexless marriage, im not that naive!
I know that alot of married people will cheat though due to a loveless/sexless marriage, im not that naive!
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I have. It wasn't because we got any kind of illicit thrill out of it, nor did we desire to make a fool out of him, or anything like that. It wasn't any kind of power trip at all. I was in my early twenties, and so was she. She was married to a guy that would rather get hammered on beer and pass out on the couch than make love to his slim, athletically attractive wife.
It started out innocently enough. She and I were friends, we talked. We both had a lot in common. We were all part of a group of friends that hung out together - I worked nights and she worked a split shift. Occasionally, some of us would go to the beach as a group, or to breakfast as a group - it was nothing for the two of us to get together once in a while. Breakfasts led to hanging out at her place. Skinny-dipping in her pool during the hot Florida summers. She had unfulfilled needs, as did I. We used each other as a means to an end. Our affair lasted a few months, then eased to a close as gradually as it began.
I have no regrets about that period in my life. We were both adults, we were friends, and we both knew that our sexual relationship would in no way endanger her marriage (unless he found out, which we took great pains to avoid). After me, I'm sure there were others. Thinking about it, there were probably others before me as well. She was there for me, and I was there for her, when we each needed someone. If that's not true friendship, I don't know what is.
It started out innocently enough. She and I were friends, we talked. We both had a lot in common. We were all part of a group of friends that hung out together - I worked nights and she worked a split shift. Occasionally, some of us would go to the beach as a group, or to breakfast as a group - it was nothing for the two of us to get together once in a while. Breakfasts led to hanging out at her place. Skinny-dipping in her pool during the hot Florida summers. She had unfulfilled needs, as did I. We used each other as a means to an end. Our affair lasted a few months, then eased to a close as gradually as it began.
I have no regrets about that period in my life. We were both adults, we were friends, and we both knew that our sexual relationship would in no way endanger her marriage (unless he found out, which we took great pains to avoid). After me, I'm sure there were others. Thinking about it, there were probably others before me as well. She was there for me, and I was there for her, when we each needed someone. If that's not true friendship, I don't know what is.
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its pretty easy job to seduce married women. but sometimes the affair becomes risky lol
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if the guy is smart and confident then he can seduce any married woman
Love begins with an image; lust with a sensation.
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Quote by mysticlover
if the guy is smart and confident then he can seduce any married woman
What the fuck ever.
You cannot seduce an unwilling person. Married, widowed, single or otherwise.
I've been with married, single, divorced, gay and widowed women... Seduction is not as easy as you seem to state it is. If she's not willing then what you're doing should land your ass in jail.
End Of Story, Mr. Mystic.
You might think you are the king of seduction, but unless 'she' is even 'there & willing' you're not hitting the home run. You're picking up a desperate girl and what you're doing should be frowned upon & despised.
It takes 2 to Tango. Always. And that is the one constant in this whacky sexual attraction thing we humans know.
I laugh in your face, Mysticlover....and I laugh my ass off at your screen name.
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Quote by mysticlover
if the guy is smart and confident then he can seduce any married woman
I am sure they are lined up at your door waiting for you.................................then of course you wake up!!!
Not all married women are desperate. I think you watch way too much porn!!
Bet you think all pizza delivery guys have sex every day too, LOL!!
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It very much depends on the woman and her situation. I live in a community where there are plenty of women in sexless, affectionless marriages. There are also plenty of sexually fulfilled women with loving caring husbands. I know of a few of the women in the former category who have cheated on their husbands. Some have gotten caught, some haven't. There are also women in that category that would never cheat regardless of the situation. Lafayette and WMM are both correct. Mystic, you are dead wrong. There are certainly women in situations that Nudie Pants described, but stating that "any" married woman can be seduced is ridiculous.
The Linebacker
Food for thought.
A lot of people get shot or stabbed over this. Is it worth a bullet to head or having your guts hanging out all over the place?
A lot of people get shot or stabbed over this. Is it worth a bullet to head or having your guts hanging out all over the place?
Wise Ass
Quote by Nikki703
I am sure they are lined up at your door waiting for you.................................then of course you wake up!!!
Not all married women are desperate. I think you watch way too much porn!!
Bet you think all pizza delivery guys have sex every day too, LOL!!
Come on Nikki your pizza delivery guy doesn't look like this? Damn ours does
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Quote by Dudealicious
Come on Nikki your pizza delivery guy doesn't look like this? Damn ours does
Is that a large or small pizza? Looks like a small, LOL!!
Actually, my pizza delivery guy is a girl!! And since she goes to school with one of my daughters, she isnt my type, LOL!!
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"Yes, I'd like a big sausage pizza, please!"
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Quote by mysticlover
its pretty easy job to seduce married women. but sometimes the affair becomes risky lol
Quote by mysticlover
if the guy is smart and confident then he can seduce any married woman
There is a very definite and unappealing line between confident and cocky. Yuck!
It's the internet, you can pretend to be whatever you want, but that doesn't mean we're buying it.I think I owe $10 to someone??
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Horney and Desperate are two different things in people! Married or not!
Women and men are both suseptible to this if they don't have good communications and true love in their relationships!
Kisses!
Steph
Women and men are both suseptible to this if they don't have good communications and true love in their relationships!
Kisses!
Steph
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... It's the internet, you can pretend to be whatever you want, ...
Pun intended.
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Quote by milfsex
does anyone have tried seducing married woman
first off... let's try that whole proper grammar thing again, shall we..?..
"HAS anyone tried..?.."
"does anyone TRY seducing..?.."
not really sure what tense and sorta question you were going for there buddy. i think MMonroe pointed out something valid: it's the fact that you ask if we've ever seduced a married woman as if it was a specific goal.
i'm somewhat ashamed to answer YES. somewhat ashamed, because i wholeheartedly agree with lafayettemister and his whole "two to tango" argument. also somewhat, because i do believe that karma is a bitch, and that i will somehow reap what i've sown later on in a fashion i'm sure to not appreciate.
thing is, and i'm NOT skirting any responsibility, the one time i had success in actually seducing a married woman - she was most certainly available for the seduction. i really just made myself available, open, and non judging of her.
...and the one time followed on the heels of the several times "otherwise occupied" women had approached and been more than forward with me. doesn't justify it at all what-so-ever, but it was an odd frame of mind i found myself in with the rapid infidelity i was surrounded by at the time.
Quote by TexasSon
first off... let's try that whole proper grammar thing again, shall we..?..
"HAS anyone tried..?.."
"does anyone TRY seducing..?.."
not really sure what tense and sorta question you were going for there buddy.
Because he's from India, we can probably assume that he's ESL and not get overly offended by his grammar. Although I do find the intent/goal of his question a bit offensive.
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slippery u have my eternal respect for what u just wrote
though i agree with lady x it takes GUTS to be so raw & open
to me the person who is MARRIED bears the burden of guilt
but to set out to deliberately to PREY or set to BAG a married lady
well that is a new low
to sleep with 1...who's hubby is ok with it..that is ok...to lie to all...is bad....
karma comes back to all those whom u hurt...even in indirect ways
i should....know...
though i agree with lady x it takes GUTS to be so raw & open
to me the person who is MARRIED bears the burden of guilt
but to set out to deliberately to PREY or set to BAG a married lady
well that is a new low
to sleep with 1...who's hubby is ok with it..that is ok...to lie to all...is bad....
karma comes back to all those whom u hurt...even in indirect ways
i should....know...